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lilgina64 · May 2010

I flame the hell out of Festiva for comparing DW's to the KKK.... WTF?

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_am-wrong_.2

kkchisholm · May 2010

I flame the girl who just asked who should pay for the grooms transportation. Seriously?

Nebb · May 2010

Sweetpea just SCREAMS of trying to hard to me, especially with her "I work for EAS (?), let me answer your student loan questions (LIKE ME LIKE ME LIKE ME!!)".

shellydiane820 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:964ecf72-7e58-44c4-89c0-6d785cbd1e5a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Sweetpea just SCREAMS of trying to hard to me, especially with her "I work for EAS (?), let me answer your student loan questions (LIKE ME LIKE ME LIKE ME!!)".
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
I boop your nose *boop*

I flame the obvious, Mr. Whit. He needs to pull his head out of his balls and get a clue.

lizstill13 · May 2010

I flame heatherbaker for saying getting pregnant while unmarried is okay, but actually giving birth while unmarried is not. People have babies unmarried all the time and it isn't any reflection on who they are as a person.

goheels05 · May 2010

Yes, and I flame that idiot who told Whit that she shouldn't even consider divorce. Ugh. I'm mad all over again.

sarabellam · May 2010

I flame gelderman in Whit's thread yesterday. Divorce is never an option? Really? Get out of the fucking 14th century.

sarabellam · May 2010

Jinx, Heelsie!

andyandhillary · May 2010

I flame the girl who said that divorce/anullment is never the answer. I'm completely against divorce but there are still some circumstances where it is absolutely necessary. Don't pull the Christianity card because all know that's crap.

andyandhillary · May 2010

you ladies are too fast! quick like bunnies!

kkchisholm · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:964ecf72-7e58-44c4-89c0-6d785cbd1e5a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Sweetpea just SCREAMS of trying to hard to me, especially with her "I work for EAS (?), let me answer your student loan questions (LIKE ME LIKE ME LIKE ME!!)".
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

I totally ageee, but hey, she did help me out a bit.

FutureMrsDudley55 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:964ecf72-7e58-44c4-89c0-6d785cbd1e5a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Sweetpea just SCREAMS of trying to hard to me, especially with her "I work for EAS (?), let me answer your student loan questions (LIKE ME LIKE ME LIKE ME!!)".
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

I get the exact same feeling. She seems like a really sweet girl, but I agree that she does seem to be trying too hard.

danieliza1127 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:7cb2fd3b-7239-4602-82d2-29d7b2a6c333">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm completely against divorce but there are still some circumstances where it is absolutely necessary.
Posted by andyandhillary[/QUOTE]

So then you're NOT completely against divorce.

abbalish · May 2010

This is the first FFF I've been around for in forever! But I haven't been around enough to have anything to contribute

Stackeye210 · May 2010

Sarahjb13 and her, "we're graphic designers and our e-vite was featured in the media - so there" response. I pictured a 12 year old sticking her tongue out at me. Cool guy! Your husband sent the e-vites to the wrong list (with exgirlfriends on it) on purpose.

danieliza1127 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:a05f7b19-1395-4db3-b822-74c62e3deb46">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Sarahjb13 and her, "we're graphic designers and our e-vite was featured in the media - so there" response. I pictured a 12 year old sticking her tongue out at me. Cool guy! Your husband sent the e-vites to the wrong list (with exgirlfriends on it) on purpose.
Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]

YES!

I can't think of anything on my own so I'll just comment on all of yours! <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-tongue-out.gif" border="0" alt="Tongue out" title="Tongue out" />

KentuckyKate · May 2010

I was raised Catholic, and was taught that there are only three reasons for divorce. The 3 A's: Addiction, Abuse, and Adultery. While that's the standard I will live by personally, I have never in my life judged someone else for being divorced for any reason, and to my knowledge, neither has anyone in my devout Catholic family. That was absoulutely out of line.

pumpkinpumpkin · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:b662589c-7c19-4687-9d29-e79a18c42ec1">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : So then you're NOT completely against divorce.
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

Um yah. Stole the words, Dani.

Night_Sprite · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:cd443d61-c26a-4ada-a6a8-645702926605">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I was raised Catholic, and was taught that there are only three reasons for divorce. The 3 A's: Addiction, Abuse, and Adultery. While that's the standard I will live by personally, I have never in my life judged someone else for being divorced for any reason, and to my knowledge, neither has anyone in my devout Catholic family. That was absoulutely out of line.
Posted by KentuckyKate[/QUOTE]
Does the abuse have to be physical? I think Mr. Whit is being damn abusive to her, mentally and emotionally.

baystateapple · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:5d913c0f-138d-4c5f-a94c-34a79e7d7c25">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Does the abuse have to be physical? I think Mr. Whit is being damn abusive to her, mentally and emotionally.
Posted by Night_Sprite[/QUOTE]

I agree with KK, and yes, Night, I think that mental abuse can be every bit as cruel and manipulative as physical, and just as much cause for divorce/annulment.

KentuckyKate · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:5d913c0f-138d-4c5f-a94c-34a79e7d7c25">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Does the abuse have to be physical? I think Mr. Whit is being damn abusive to her, mentally and emotionally.
Posted by Night_Sprite[/QUOTE]

Actually, I don't remember. It's been a long time since grade school religion class when I learned that. I would assume any type of abuse would be reason for divorce, but I don't technically know what the church excuses.

kd.joseph · May 2010

I've been gone, someone help me with a link to the Whit issue?

jasmineh7777 · May 2010

Kentucky Kate- I agree with the reasons you listed. I would consider Whit's situation to be potentially abusive, especially since she was actually afraid of him at one point.

crfische · May 2010

Financial abuse has to be abuse, too, somewhere along the line. He's most def abusing her finances.

KentuckyKate · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:5a456043-a2fb-4617-a3ff-49ae7bb54499">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Kentucky Kate- I agree with the reasons you listed. I would consider Whit's situation to be potentially abusive, especially since she was actually afraid of him at one point.
Posted by jasmineh7777[/QUOTE]
I agree with that. I was jumping on the flame bandwagon for gelderman, not whit.

danieliza1127 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:198b5995-0301-471c-ba83-23db8a791a29">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Actually, I don't remember. It's been a long time since grade school religion class when I learned that. I would assume any type of abuse would be reason for divorce, but I don't technically know what the church excuses.
Posted by KentuckyKate[/QUOTE]

That's the kind of organized religion stuff that really gets to me. I mean, who decided that? Is the three A's thing in the Bible? What if you just hate each other? What if a million scenarios that don't fall into the 3 A category? You're just supposed to stay in a hateful failed marriage forever or risk going to hell?

sarabellam · May 2010

I'm not Catholic, but I'm pretty cheesed off at what the RC church did to a Phoenix nun. http://www.nytimes.com/2010/05/27/opinion/27kristof.html?src=me&ref=general

lizstill13 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:3024e851-3fd2-4635-ba6d-bddcee1bf60a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm not Catholic, but I'm pretty cheesed off at what the RC church did to a Phoenix nun. <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/05/27/opinion/27kristof.html?src=me&ref=general" rel="nofollow">http://www.nytimes.com/2010/05/27/opinion/27kristof.html?src=me&ref=general</a>
Posted by sarabellam[/QUOTE]

Yeah, that's the sort of stuff that I don't get. So, they were just supposed to let the mother die?

maratea · May 2010

I flame vinscena who was all "wedding with tradition and proper etiquette are stuffy and hoity-toity, do what you want, it's your day!!11"

cengle · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:3024e851-3fd2-4635-ba6d-bddcee1bf60a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm not Catholic, but I'm pretty cheesed off at what the RC church did to a Phoenix nun. <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/05/27/opinion/27kristof.html?src=me&ref=general" rel="nofollow">http://www.nytimes.com/2010/05/27/opinion/27kristof.html?src=me&ref=general</a>
Posted by sarabellam[/QUOTE]

I saw this too, and it made me extremely angry.
I'm also not Catholic, and frankly, stuff like this makes me glad I'm not.
*Disclaimer: I don't judge all Catholics, nor do I think every Catholic is a nut. But this decision qualifies as nutty in my book.

KentuckyKate · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:cf49c71d-2cff-4fda-ae75-1ff1bebf0aaa">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : That's the kind of organized religion stuff that really gets to me. I mean, who decided that? Is the three A's thing in the Bible? What if you just hate each other? What if a million scenarios that don't fall into the 3 A category? You're just supposed to stay in a hateful failed marriage forever or risk going to hell?
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]
A lot of things in organized religions aren't decided by the Bible. They're decided at Diocesan conventions. Hating each other doesn't count as a good reason to divorce because you made a commitment to God till death do you part. You're just expected to work it out and deal with it, I think.

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