Please- tell me if I'm being a bridezilla for being a little peeved by this.
I've been pretty easy going with my girls and what they wear to the wedding. I just asked my wedding party to send me their hair styles so the stylist I've hired can properly gauge the time needed. So my MOH replies right away by telling me she wants it half up, half down and curled, and sends me a photo... it is exactly what I'm doing for my hair.
I'm not sure how to manage. She's brunette, I'm blonde, so we won't look exactly a like. But is it OK for me to want to tell her that she can do anything but that? Or am I out of line to dictate what she can or cannot do with her hair? Not sure if it makes any difference, but I'm paying for hair and makeup for all of the girls.
Edit: because no one actually read any other posts in this thread aside from the first post. I didn't ask her to do anything. Nor am I trying to dictate what her hair is. I was a flower girl/jr bridesmaid with my sister in multiple weddings as kids and we already had matching hair. I don't think there's anything wrong with me wanting my hair to be unique at my own wedding. I really don't appreciate some of the mean things people have said simply because I was asking if I was overthinking this or if I was right. Telling me I'm overthinking it would have been good enough.
Re: XP: MOH wants to do her hair exactly the same way as me
I also don't think anyone will really notice your hair styles are the same though. Drink a glass of wine, and see how you feel afterwords. It will probably pass.
Regardless, there's only so many ways to do a half-up style and most people pick from the same 20 pictures on Pinterest. It will not matter at all.
Eh, I probably would be like whatever but, in the end does it really matter? I have super thick hair so I prefer to wear my hair down for my wedding. I wouldn't care if a BM did the same...in the end you won't remember in 5-10 years.
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I presume that on top of different hair colors you both have different hair lengths, textures, and will be wearing different hair accessories, so your hair styles won't really be all that similar when all is said and done.
No one will be paying too much attention to your BM's anyways, let alone their hair styles.
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