Hey , I'm so sorry you r going thru this. Not seeing you on mother's day bc mother in law more important. Nonsense . Sounds like the gf is a chip off old block of mom. Sounds like sons gf is a well....brat. idk best advice other than talk to your soon about how you'd like to be with him more , or make plans to take walks, lunches , etc things that don't break the bank. Invite son and gf or if gf doesn't come just son. Start to do all you can to make effort to be with son away from this so he can make sure it's what he wants . You are his mother , you deserve to be held high
July 12
Re: It's TMI time (there is so much more than BC going on in here)
I'm the fuck out.
Another it was passable.
The other times, I feel similar to you. I know I've done it before, so I'm like why can't I do it again??
It's definitely a situation where smaller is better though. I got lucky though- FI likes the idea of it but prioritizes it so low that it never happens- why put it there when there are so many more fun places to put it?
I'm the fuck out.
Nope, can't do it. Hate it. Have tried it with exes and now refuse to do it with FI. I cannot get over the "pooping backwards" feeling. And it always hurts. Maybe someday, if I'm very drunk, I will let FI try and hope to hell that it satisfies his curiosity lol.
*raises hand
I'm the fuck out.
DH isn't exactly endowed (I've never admitted that to anyone!). I've asked him about toys once and he isn't interested in that (says he likes it to be just us). Any suggestions as to how seksay times can be more enjoyable for me?
I'd start by bringing in props rather than toys. That's a safe, easy way to open things up to new ideas. Once he's comfy with that, toys might be more accepted.
Also, hands and tongues.
One of the best lovers I've ever had was tiny. But he was super eager-to-please. It was ridiculous.
He won't use his hands because he insists he will smell like "lady juice" and everyone will know, even after he washes his hands.
FI has a nice set of restraints. Not, like, expensive leather, high quality ones, but ones that are actual restraints made for... ........ well. They're not neckties and karate belts.