Okay so here is the story....
One of my best friends, we will name him Corey, has been dating a girl for about 2 years. She is absolutly awful! She lives with him, and he has a 2 other roomates(1 being his brother\the other being his best friend since pre school). They both DISPISE her!!!She is so mean to Corey. His whole family doesn't like her..He has been told multiple times that she is not right for him, and if he doesn't get out now he is doomed. She was talking about "their wedding" the other day, and I just rolled my eyes. She began to say that Corey's best friend(his roomate) would not be invited to "her" wedding, that he is an A-Hole, and she won't have it. I was completely shocked.
I get along with everyone. But, I literally cannot stand her. She is from Boston, and when we were out to dinner last week (corey, me, the witch, and corey's sister) she told all of us that "we talk too weird" and we have "philly trashy accents" but she said she could tell especially with me...Gee thanks!
Anyways, my wedding is coming up in August. Corey has already said he is putting off buying a house in August because he doesn't want her to move in with him. And the only reason he is with her is because "he can't throw her out on the streets" because she literally has NO friends (hmmm i wonder why?) I already decided that I am not inviting her to my shower, even though I am inviting Corey's mom and sister (they are invited to the wedding also). But, now i am debating whether or not I even want her at the wedding. I don't want her to ruin my day with some stupid comment, or make Corey miserable or leave early. I spoke with Corey's sister and she said just to invite her to "keep the peace". How awful is that? I have to invite a girl to my wedding just so she doesn't "verbally abuse" my friend. I want to say NO because I don't want her in my wedding pictures, and plus they obviously aren't going to be together long term so what should i do??