A Note to Those Who Want to Get Married Now and a Vow Renewal Later... #2

rainbows0215 · October 2014

I am done now I had my fun thank you, I have enjoyed ruffing your feathers. . For those kind people thank you also I will continue on my path to vow renewal . Have a great day.

plainjane0415 · October 2014

slothiegal said:

rainbows0215 said:

I think I am the badass because I do not agree with majority of the people welcome to America the land of freedom.

Slothie, I love this.

beethery · October 2014

KatWAG · October 2014

rainbows0215 said:

I am done now I had my fun thank you, I have enjoyed ruffing your feathers. . For those kind people thank you also I will continue on my path to vow renewal . Have a great day.

Again, its not a vow renewal, its a pretty princess day. And its an attention seeking ( is that a better word??) thing to do.

GBCK.

southernbelle0915 · October 2014

rainbows0215 said:

Urban dictionary bull crap made up stuff, English dictionary is for real not made up. You are probably. younger and I have seen the urban dictionary it is bullcrap There is a lot stuff that is unreal in that.

Are you serious? LULZ!!

Here's what I think - you're pissed that people think you are acting in an attention seeking way by having a "vow renewal" because courthouse wedding. And you're trying to find ways to report people because you don't like their opinion. And going on a reporting spree IS against the TOS, so careful with that.

You haven't ruffled feathers, but you have provided some solid entertainment. Thanks!

rainbows0215 · October 2014

On e word pissed me off I will not retype it. Otherwise no .

KatWAG · October 2014

rainbows0215 said:

On e word pissed me off I will not retype it. Otherwise no .

Whore is not some big, bad, scary word. its just a word, like any other.

southernbelle0915 · October 2014

rainbows0215 said:

On e word pissed me off I will not retype it. Otherwise no .

I thought you said you were leaving?

KatWAG · October 2014

southernbelle0915 said:

rainbows0215 said:

Urban dictionary bull crap made up stuff, English dictionary is for real not made up. You are probably. younger and I have seen the urban dictionary it is bullcrap There is a lot stuff that is unreal in that.
Are you serious? LULZ!!

Here's what I think - you're pissed that people think you are acting in an attention seeking way by having a "vow renewal" because courthouse wedding. And you're trying to find ways to report people because you don't like their opinion. And going on a reporting spree IS against the TOS, so careful with that.

You haven't ruffled feathers, but you have provided some solid entertainment. Thanks!

So random question for a moderator, if someone were to go one a random reporting spree, would anymore (like a regular ole knottie like myself) be able to tell?

slothiegal · October 2014

rainbows0215 said:

On e word pissed me off I will not retype it. Otherwise no .

Oh honey. This might not be the place for you. ("This" being the internet.)

Jells2dot0 · October 2014

KatWAG said:

southernbelle0915 said:

rainbows0215 said:

Urban dictionary bull crap made up stuff, English dictionary is for real not made up. You are probably. younger and I have seen the urban dictionary it is bullcrap There is a lot stuff that is unreal in that.
Are you serious? LULZ!!

Here's what I think - you're pissed that people think you are acting in an attention seeking way by having a "vow renewal" because courthouse wedding. And you're trying to find ways to report people because you don't like their opinion. And going on a reporting spree IS against the TOS, so careful with that.

You haven't ruffled feathers, but you have provided some solid entertainment. Thanks!
So random question for a moderator, if someone were to go one a random reporting spree, would anymore (like a regular ole knottie like myself) be able to tell?

No. The reports are only visible to mods and admins like KP.

beethery · October 2014

KatWAG said:

southernbelle0915 said:

rainbows0215 said:

Urban dictionary bull crap made up stuff, English dictionary is for real not made up. You are probably. younger and I have seen the urban dictionary it is bullcrap There is a lot stuff that is unreal in that.
Are you serious? LULZ!!

Here's what I think - you're pissed that people think you are acting in an attention seeking way by having a "vow renewal" because courthouse wedding. And you're trying to find ways to report people because you don't like their opinion. And going on a reporting spree IS against the TOS, so careful with that.

You haven't ruffled feathers, but you have provided some solid entertainment. Thanks!
So random question for a moderator, if someone were to go one a random reporting spree, would anymore (like a regular ole knottie like myself) be able to tell?

Nope. Mods can see reports so that they can take care of them.

southernbelle0915 · October 2014

KatWAG said:
So random question for a moderator, if someone were to go one a random reporting spree, would anymore (like a regular ole knottie like myself) be able to tell?

No. Reporting is private and there's a box where reported posts go so they can be addressed.

For example, let's say I got butthurt over something like having a cash bar. I went on a reporting spree reporting all kinds of stuff that wasn't against the TOS just because I didn't like the responses. It says in the TOS you can't do that, so I would end up with a warning over something that. The reporting feature is designed for the community to report violations of the terms of service. Not for people to report stuff they don't agree with. That's what the whambulance is for.

photokitty · October 2014

rainbows0215 said:

Urban dictionary bull crap made up stuff, English dictionary is for real not made up. You are probably. younger and I have seen the urban dictionary it is bullcrap There is a lot stuff that is unreal in that.

I would expect better sentence structure and proper grammar from someone who claims to know the ins and outs of real words that can be only be found in the English dictionary.

I find bull crap to be offensive - it's not a real thing but rather a slang term that you would probably find in the unreal Urban Dictionary.

Better rein it in as the ruffling isn't effective...

KatWAG · October 2014

So can you tell us if @rainbows0215 did go on a reporting spree or is that a mod secret? Southern, you sort of implied that she did.

I am just being noisy.

photokitty · October 2014

KatWAG said:

So can you tell us if @rainbows0215 did go on a reporting spree or is that a mod secret? Southern, you sort of implied that she did.

I am just being noisy.

Mods can't call out users, so no we couldn't tell you.

southernbelle0915 · October 2014

photokitty said:

rainbows0215 said:

Urban dictionary bull crap made up stuff, English dictionary is for real not made up. You are probably. younger and I have seen the urban dictionary it is bullcrap There is a lot stuff that is unreal in that.

I would expect better sentence structure and proper grammar from someone who claims to know the ins and outs of real words that can be only be found in the English dictionary.

I find bull crap to be offensive - it's not a real thing but rather a slang term that you would probably find in the unreal Urban Dictionary.
Better rein it in as the ruffling isn't effective...

Yuh huh, photokitty! It is too real!! Bulls poop, I swear they do. And they poop all over Urban Dictionary, so yea. That's a fact. Report me if you don't like it.

MairePoppy · October 2014

@katWAG, if said reporter doesn't heed the mod's warning to cease and desist, you might notice that the person has been banned.

mrs4everhart · October 2014

Well, this surely took an interesting turn.......

southernbelle0915 · October 2014

KatWAG said:

So can you tell us if @rainbows0215 did go on a reporting spree or is that a mod secret? Southern, you sort of implied that she did.

I am just being noisy.

No, we can't. Reporting is private like that.

She said here in this thread she was going to report something that wasn't against TOS, so I was letting her know that it's against the TOS to go on a flagging spree.

photokitty · October 2014

southernbelle0915 said:

photokitty said:

rainbows0215 said:

Urban dictionary bull crap made up stuff, English dictionary is for real not made up. You are probably. younger and I have seen the urban dictionary it is bullcrap There is a lot stuff that is unreal in that.

I would expect better sentence structure and proper grammar from someone who claims to know the ins and outs of real words that can be only be found in the English dictionary.

I find bull crap to be offensive - it's not a real thing but rather a slang term that you would probably find in the unreal Urban Dictionary.
Better rein it in as the ruffling isn't effective...

Yuh huh, photokitty! It is too real!! Bulls poop, I swear they do. And they poop all over Urban Dictionary, so yea. That's a fact. Report me if you don't like it.

SouthernBelle, I wanted to use the "Boooooo whore" gif but this will have to do

xoxo

southernbelle0915 · October 2014

photokitty said:

SouthernBelle, I wanted to use the "Boooooo whore" gif but this will have to do xoxo

lol!!! I would have called the police.

photokitty · October 2014

southernbelle0915 said:

photokitty said:

SouthernBelle, I wanted to use the "Boooooo whore" gif but this will have to do xoxo

lol!!! I would have called the police.

See your police and raise you a whambulance

redoryx · October 2014

Here's what I don't get about the PPD: what date do you consider your anniversary? The one the state considers or the day of the big party? I suppose it would have to be the day of the big party, right? 'Cause otherwise people would be confused about why you are celebrating the legal one when they always thought it was this other date months later when they saw you exchange vows and all that shit.

So, okay, let's say you have a PPD and then you have kids. And then decades go by and something happens, you die or are put in a nursing home or something, and your kids and possibly grandkids are going through cleaning out your house and come across your papers. You know, those important legal ones. And suddenly they're all confused because all this time they thought their parents' anniversary was Y but this document shows it as X. Are all of those with a PPD really comfortable with the idea of lying to your possible future children?

plainjane0415 · October 2014

redoryx said:

Here's what I don't get about the PPD: what date do you consider your anniversary? The one the state considers or the day of the big party? I suppose it would have to be the day of the big party, right? 'Cause otherwise people would be confused about why you are celebrating the legal one when they always thought it was this other date months later when they saw you exchange vows and all that shit.
So, okay, let's say you have a PPD and then you have kids. And then decades go by and something happens, you die or are put in a nursing home or something, and your kids and possibly grandkids are going through cleaning out your house and come across your papers. You know, those important legal ones. And suddenly they're all confused because all this time they thought their parents' anniversary was Y but this document shows it as X. Are all of those with a PPD really comfortable with the idea of lying to your possible future children?

Excellent Point.

mrs4everhart · October 2014

redoryx said:

Here's what I don't get about the PPD: what date do you consider your anniversary? The one the state considers or the day of the big party? I suppose it would have to be the day of the big party, right? 'Cause otherwise people would be confused about why you are celebrating the legal one when they always thought it was this other date months later when they saw you exchange vows and all that shit.
So, okay, let's say you have a PPD and then you have kids. And then decades go by and something happens, you die or are put in a nursing home or something, and your kids and possibly grandkids are going through cleaning out your house and come across your papers. You know, those important legal ones. And suddenly they're all confused because all this time they thought their parents' anniversary was Y but this document shows it as X. Are all of those with a PPD really comfortable with the idea of lying to your possible future children?

We will celebrate the anniversary of the day we exchanged vows, or, our wedding day as it's known to us. The anniversary of the date we signed our license can and will pass with no acknowledgment from us. In fact, I'd have to go pull the thing out of a file cabinet to even recall the exact date.

We do not plan to ever have children. But I do have parents. They were married on October 9, 1971. Every year on October 9th they celebrate their anniversary. If one day after they are gone I stumbled across their marriage license and discovered they had signed it on a date other than October 9, 1971 I would seriously have no fucks to give. It would change absolutely nothing in my life. I might wonder what the circumstances were that created the situation but without anyone to ask, I wouldn't fixate on it and would likely assume it was some type of legal thing (taxes, insurance, whatever), which wouldn't change my views of their marriage. I doubt seriously I'd get all weepy and start questioning everything around me, heading aimlessly in to the dark night screaming "It's all been a pack of lies!!!! Who am I? Who can I really trust anymore?"

esstee33 · October 2014

mrs4everhart said:

redoryx said:

Here's what I don't get about the PPD: what date do you consider your anniversary? The one the state considers or the day of the big party? I suppose it would have to be the day of the big party, right? 'Cause otherwise people would be confused about why you are celebrating the legal one when they always thought it was this other date months later when they saw you exchange vows and all that shit.
So, okay, let's say you have a PPD and then you have kids. And then decades go by and something happens, you die or are put in a nursing home or something, and your kids and possibly grandkids are going through cleaning out your house and come across your papers. You know, those important legal ones. And suddenly they're all confused because all this time they thought their parents' anniversary was Y but this document shows it as X. Are all of those with a PPD really comfortable with the idea of lying to your possible future children?

We will celebrate the anniversary of the day we exchanged vows, or, our wedding day as it's known to us. The anniversary of the date we signed our license can and will pass with no acknowledgment from us. In fact, I'd have to go pull the thing out of a file cabinet to even recall the exact date.

We do not plan to ever have children. But I do have parents. They were married on October 9, 1971. Every year on October 9th they celebrate their anniversary. If one day after they are gone I stumbled across their marriage license and discovered they had signed it on a date other than October 9, 1971 I would seriously have no fucks to give. It would change absolutely nothing in my life. I might wonder what the circumstances were that created the situation but without anyone to ask, I wouldn't fixate on it and would likely assume it was some type of legal thing (taxes, insurance, whatever), which wouldn't change my views of their marriage. I doubt seriously I'd get all weepy and start questioning everything around me, heading aimlessly in to the dark night screaming "It's all been a pack of lies!!!! Who am I? Who can I really trust anymore?"

So I guess the question remaining from all of this: why bother even getting legally married? If, as you say, the only "wedding" that mattered was the one where you exchanged vows and pretended to get married in front of your people, why bother with the legal part anyway?

mrs4everhart · October 2014

esstee33 said:

mrs4everhart said:

redoryx said:

Here's what I don't get about the PPD: what date do you consider your anniversary? The one the state considers or the day of the big party? I suppose it would have to be the day of the big party, right? 'Cause otherwise people would be confused about why you are celebrating the legal one when they always thought it was this other date months later when they saw you exchange vows and all that shit.
So, okay, let's say you have a PPD and then you have kids. And then decades go by and something happens, you die or are put in a nursing home or something, and your kids and possibly grandkids are going through cleaning out your house and come across your papers. You know, those important legal ones. And suddenly they're all confused because all this time they thought their parents' anniversary was Y but this document shows it as X. Are all of those with a PPD really comfortable with the idea of lying to your possible future children?

We will celebrate the anniversary of the day we exchanged vows, or, our wedding day as it's known to us. The anniversary of the date we signed our license can and will pass with no acknowledgment from us. In fact, I'd have to go pull the thing out of a file cabinet to even recall the exact date.

We do not plan to ever have children. But I do have parents. They were married on October 9, 1971. Every year on October 9th they celebrate their anniversary. If one day after they are gone I stumbled across their marriage license and discovered they had signed it on a date other than October 9, 1971 I would seriously have no fucks to give. It would change absolutely nothing in my life. I might wonder what the circumstances were that created the situation but without anyone to ask, I wouldn't fixate on it and would likely assume it was some type of legal thing (taxes, insurance, whatever), which wouldn't change my views of their marriage. I doubt seriously I'd get all weepy and start questioning everything around me, heading aimlessly in to the dark night screaming "It's all been a pack of lies!!!! Who am I? Who can I really trust anymore?"

So I guess the question remaining from all of this: why bother even getting legally married? If, as you say, the only "wedding" that mattered was the one where you exchanged vows and pretended to get married in front of your people, why bother with the legal part anyway?

We had always intended to both. And did. Just like every other married couple who has a wedding ceremony and signs a marriage license. We just didn't see the need for them to have to happen on the same day. While I understand that many people cling desperately to the belief they have to occur damn near simultaneously, we don't, and I've never had any issues breaking rules that don't suit me or seem arbitrary in nature. No great calamity ensued by separating the two. In fact, nothing negative came from any part of our wedding. It was awesome, actually.

climbingsingle · October 2014

Who knew Urban Dictionary was so polarizing?!

MobKaz · October 2014

esstee33 said:

mrs4everhart said:

redoryx said:

Here's what I don't get about the PPD: what date do you consider your anniversary? The one the state considers or the day of the big party? I suppose it would have to be the day of the big party, right? 'Cause otherwise people would be confused about why you are celebrating the legal one when they always thought it was this other date months later when they saw you exchange vows and all that shit.
So, okay, let's say you have a PPD and then you have kids. And then decades go by and something happens, you die or are put in a nursing home or something, and your kids and possibly grandkids are going through cleaning out your house and come across your papers. You know, those important legal ones. And suddenly they're all confused because all this time they thought their parents' anniversary was Y but this document shows it as X. Are all of those with a PPD really comfortable with the idea of lying to your possible future children?

We will celebrate the anniversary of the day we exchanged vows, or, our wedding day as it's known to us. The anniversary of the date we signed our license can and will pass with no acknowledgment from us. In fact, I'd have to go pull the thing out of a file cabinet to even recall the exact date.

We do not plan to ever have children. But I do have parents. They were married on October 9, 1971. Every year on October 9th they celebrate their anniversary. If one day after they are gone I stumbled across their marriage license and discovered they had signed it on a date other than October 9, 1971 I would seriously have no fucks to give. It would change absolutely nothing in my life. I might wonder what the circumstances were that created the situation but without anyone to ask, I wouldn't fixate on it and would likely assume it was some type of legal thing (taxes, insurance, whatever), which wouldn't change my views of their marriage. I doubt seriously I'd get all weepy and start questioning everything around me, heading aimlessly in to the dark night screaming "It's all been a pack of lies!!!! Who am I? Who can I really trust anymore?"

So I guess the question remaining from all of this: why bother even getting legally married? If, as you say, the only "wedding" that mattered was the one where you exchanged vows and pretended to get married in front of your people, why bother with the legal part anyway?

It's a story as old as Cain and Abel. She married for the LEGAL rights and benefits only afforded to those who are married. It was done for insurance purposes. It has been discussed and acknowledged in previous threads. But for her to answer your question would require .....you know.......the truth.

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