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Irrational Irritations, UOs, Confessions, etc.
Confession - I ate a Twix bar for breakfast.
II - Proper titles. I feel like before TK I had confidence in the correct way to address people and now whenever I write out an envelope or something I stop and wonder if I'm doing it the "right" way. Why does it really matter? I'm pretty sure the only person who cares is H's great-grandmother.
UO - I hate iEverything.
II - I think this is something @Swazzle usually says, but I get so irritated with super duper long responses on threads sometimes. I lose interest after the first two or three paragraphs and just skip or skim the entire thing after a certain point. Guys, I really just love Cliff Notes versions. Ok? Ok.
Confession - I really like Serial but I've still only listened to the first two episodes.
Confession - I want to spend Christmas with my mom and dad. I'm really childishly sad that we're spending it with H's family this year. I'm excited to see his family and especially his niece and nephew, but I'm bummed I'm not spending the day with my parents.
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Re: Irrational Irritations, UOs, Confessions, etc.
@swazzle I hate wrapping gifts too, I'm so bad at it. I try to make H wrap stuff.
@Southernpeach89 as I said yesterday sending you lots of hugs
II: My niece wants a cotton candy machine for Xmas, so there is no place locally that has one. So I have to order one off of amazon and hope it gets here by Christmas, it should H has Amazon prime.
Confession: TTC is way harder than I though, just emotionally. I wish I had gone off the pill sooner. I hate my mood can be based off that, I'm hoping it gets better.
II: I eat healthy-ish, exercise, and do all the right things but my immune system is the worst. my brother is morbidly obese, only eats fried junk, doesn't exercise or anything, lives a really unhealthy life, and never even gets a freaking cold.
And I further confess that I've been eating my feelings in light of all that's been going on in my family.
And I further confess that I don't have the energy to care.
@southernpeach89 - I am so sorry, sending you all the hugs and cookies.
@CocoBellaF - Lots of vibes for you, I hope everything is okay.
Confession - I really want to spend Christmas morning with just my parents and sister. That's been Christmas morning my entire life and I selfishly want one last Christmas like that. I want my first Christmas with FI to be next year when we're married and living together in our own home. We sort of talked about it on the weekend and he got upset because I "don't want him there" which is true and not true at the same time. And I feel awful for still wanting to do Christmas morning with just my family.
Confession - I have been eating all the Christmas cookies lately. And IDGAF.
II - rain, snow, rain, snow, rain, snow. December get your shit together, this does not look like Christmas.
II #2 - I have to eat lunch at 11:30 because I have this stupid afternoon meeting downtown and it's going to take an hour to get to and I can't stop for lunch on the way because I'm going with other coworkers and my boss and our CEO. I am not hungry for lunch right now.
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Irrational irritation: All my best friend ever does with me anymore is go out to lunch and talk about her relationship with her husband. I'm happy to listen, I really am, but 1) not the WHOLE time we're together, and 2) we seriously need to do something other than eat together. I now crave chick fil a everytime we hang out.
Also, maybe this is stupid, but I don't like that she will only get together with me on her lunch hour because she wants to go home so she can be there when her husband gets home. I mean, I know they love each other, I think it's a good thing. But seriously, she can't get home a little late one evening? I just...I don't even know, I don't feel important at ALL to her anymore. I know he's THE priority in her life, which makes sense, but damn, it's like there's NO effort there anymore.
Confession: I have easily eaten my weight in peppermint bark this week. I don't even fucking LIKE peppermint bark.
@SouthernPeach89 - I'm so, so, so sorry. Huge hugs. I can only imagine how disappointed and sad you must feel. I'm sorry you have to go through this.
@CocoBellaF - All the good T&P for the appointment.
@loves2shop4shoes - Hugs to you. You are strong and will get through this.
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II: Christmas parties that have food like pizza and cookies...none of which I can eat. Seriously, I bet the salad even has croutons on it today. I hate celiac some days.
II2: People (aka, male runners I know) who think it is "stupid" that speed walker/joggers like me wear wicking clothing. Just because I'm not running doesn't mean I'm not sweating.
Confession: I have no desire to workout today...none. I've been bad with my diet lately and need to get back on it but I'm lacking motivation.
UO: I'm getting granite in our kitchen...white granite. I know that is crazy (stain wise) but it will be pretty.
@CocobellaF hugs
@Minskat30 wow white granite? That sounds so pretty I can't wait to see pictures when your kitchen is complete.
@LaPeanut1018 - I feel you. This will be my first Christmas without my parents. I will probably cry. Maybe more than once.
@CocoBellaF - Sending tons of good thoughts your way, chica!
@minskat30 - I go on a brisk walk with coworkers most afternoons, and I always wish I was wearing athletic clothes! I get so sweaty! Especially between the boobs, ugh. Haha
Ignore them. They are dumdums.
@minskat30 - What a load of crap. I wear wicking clothes to the gym, when I vacuum (hey, that's sweaty work) and when I sit on my couch eating cookies. My lululemon clothes are the most comfortable clothes I own lol.
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It sounds like everybody on here just needs a hug