"PPD" is cruel

Re: "PPD" is cruel

• fredburkle member

  

  February 2015

  snowflakeftw said:

  
  

  Dreamergirl8812 said:

  
  

  I'm going to a baby shower next Saturday. The couple is not married. It was a planned pregnancy, but they don't want to get married until his Father can come into the country. They could get married and have a fake wedding later. But that would be stupid.
  

  
  

  there is a term, and I mentioned it before for children who are born outside of a marriage
  
  
  I had a child before I was married. He's six years old now and the light of my life.
  
  
  
  Go ahead. Say it. I triple dog dare you.

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• Viczaesar member

  

  February 2015

  snowflakeftw said:

  Dreamergirl8812 said:

  I'm going to a baby shower next Saturday. The couple is not married. It was a planned pregnancy, but they don't want to get married until his Father can come into the country. They could get married and have a fake wedding later. But that would be stupid.
  

  there is a term, and I mentioned it before for children who are born outside of a marriage

  Anybody who refers to a baby born to unmarried parent(s) as a bastard deserves to have cold spaghetti thrown at her and to be shunned from polite society.
  

  
  
  
  

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• Viczaesar member

  

  February 2015

  Actually, fuck the cold spaghetti.  If you (general you) call my grand nephew a bastard, I will deck you.
  

  
  
  
  

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• drunkenwitch member

  

  February 2015 edited February 2015

  Wow, this took a seriously fucked up turn. Does anybody honestly give a shit anymore if children are born "out of wedlock" *eyeroll*. Big fucking deal. News flash: a woman's chastity doesn't dictate her entire worth anymore, we can do stuff like vote and go to college now. Crazy times I tell you!

  

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• artbyallie mod

  

  February 2015

  I seem to have missed something here. How does the existence or lack of a marriage certificate have anything to do with whether one should get a baby shower or not when pregnant? Oh, wait, it doesn't.

  

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• ohannabelle member

  

  February 2015

  drunkenwitch said: Wow, this took a seriously fucked up turn. Does anybody honestly give a shit anymore if she children are born "out of wedlock" *eyeroll*. Big fucking deal. News flash: a woman's chastity doesn't dictate her entire worth anymore, we can do stuff like vote and go to college now. Crazy times I tell you!
  

  artbyallie said:

  I seem to have missed something here. How does the existence or lack of a marriage certificate have anything to do with whether one should get a baby shower or not when pregnant? Oh, wait, it doesn't.

  Exactly. Nobody cares. Not even the OP- excuse me, not the OP, the mysterious new member SnowflakeFuckingTerribleWriting. I don't know how I could have confused them, because SnowflakeFTW has heavy handed spelling and punctuation errors, which must prove that she isn't the OP. 

  That would certainly be an original and wily disguise, and who would ever imagine doing that? (Answer: only every single troll who invents an alternate identity to back up her own bullshit.) 

  
  

  So obviously, I must believe that these are two different people, neither of whom can follow a logical or believable thought process, neither of them quite grasp the word "cruel," but really want to use it. And one of them thinks she can explain the completely illogical example offered by the first. With more illogic. 

  
  

  Hint: If you need to invent a character to back up/explain your own arguments, it's probably because it's stupid. 

  
  

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• PrettyGirlLost member

  

  February 2015

  There's a term for people who call children born out of wedlock bastards. . . actually there are a few terms, but asshole springs quickly to mind.
  
  GTFO of here already ><
  

  
  "Love is the one thing we're capable of perceiving that transcends time and space."
  
  

  
  

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• antoto member

  

  February 2015

  drunkenwitch said:

  Wow, this took a seriously fucked up turn. Does anybody honestly give a shit anymore if she children are born "out of wedlock" *eyeroll*. Big fucking deal. News flash: a woman's chastity doesn't dictate her entire worth anymore, we can do stuff like vote and go to college now. Crazy times I tell you!

  YASSSSS!  Preach, sista

  
  

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• sophhabobopha member

  

  February 2015

  Where have I been.

  

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• Dreamergirl8812 member

  

  February 2015 edited February 2015

  lc07 said:

  Dreamergirl8812 !

  
  

  
  Also, we may have gotten married at the same venue. I saw a previous comment of yours about having to pay $250 for a security guard if you have 50 people at your wedding.
  
  We might be venue buddies?
  
  ETA: I'm in SD. Got married just north of SD.
  

  
  
  
  

  
  
  
  
  

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• lc07 member

  

  February 2015

  Dreamergirl8812 said:

  lc07 said:

  Dreamergirl8812 !

  
  

  
  Also, we may have gotten married at the same venue. I saw a previous comment of yours about having to pay $250 for a security guard if you have 50 people at your wedding.
  
  We might be venue buddies?
  
  ETA: I'm in SD. Got married just north of SD.
  

  Your GIF cracked me up. I didn't know you're in SD, too! Cool! I got married downtown at the Skybox at DiamondView Tower. I think we had to have security there no matter how many people.

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• JennyColada member

  

  February 2015

  The only PPDs I support are Pepperoni Pizza Dippers or Pineapple Papaya Desserts.

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• sophhabobopha member

  

  February 2015

  JennyColada said:

  The only PPDs I support are Pepperoni Pizza Dippers or Pineapple Papaya Desserts.

  I though that said diapers. Bahahahahaaahhaha

  

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• JennyColada member

  

  February 2015

  Mmmm diapers...

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• princessofgenovia member

  

  February 2015

  snowflakeftw said:

  
  

  Dreamergirl8812 said:

  
  

  I'm going to a baby shower next Saturday. The couple is not married. It was a planned pregnancy, but they don't want to get married until his Father can come into the country. They could get married and have a fake wedding later. But that would be stupid.
  

  
  

  there is a term, and I mentioned it before for children who are born outside of a marriage
  
  I'm one if those children. And I think people like you are the fucking scum of the earth. And I do feel sorry for not just your SO but for anyone who is forced to associate with such a fucking twatwaffle such as yourself.
  
  Just my opinion. Oh there's a term for people like you too. It's called judgemental cunt.
  

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• PhoneCardLady member

  

  February 2015

  redoryx said:

  PhoneCardLady said:

  Could it be that neither father knew because neither one was in the picture?
  

  The OP says that nobody else knew, not even their fathers. That to me indicates the fathers were in the picture and kept in the dark. 

  Thank you for the clarification.
  

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• princessgracekelly member

  

  February 2015 edited February 2015

  drunkenwitch said:

  Wow, this took a seriously fucked up turn. Does anybody honestly give a shit anymore if children are born "out of wedlock" *eyeroll*. Big fucking deal. News flash: a woman's chastity doesn't dictate her entire worth anymore, we can do stuff like vote and go to college now. Crazy times I tell you!

  Coming back to this thread is like

  

  But yes, the last time I heard modern people talk about "bastards" was in reference to Jon Snow on Game of Thrones, a medieval/fictional universe. So there you go. 

  
  

  
  

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• Fran1985 member

  

  February 2015

  Hmm. A new poster, but knows enough to make her user name "snowflakeftw" Uses gifs when challenged on her crazy and rude thinking. Calls people diminutive nicknames that she disagrees with. A proponent of being married before the baby comes, which leads me to believe that she would rush into a marriage if she were ever pregnant. Comments on Texas questions. Who wants to set the odds that this is a poster that we've seen before?

  
  
  

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• onefootinthebayou member

  

  February 2015

  abcdevonn said:

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  PrettyGirlLost said:

  climbingwife said:

  Also, right here:

  
  

  
  

  No one else knew, not even their fathers
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  That's pretty disgusting. Lying is never OK. 

  I had to re-read that wall of text because I admit, I skimmed. . . so I missed this gem.
  
  Call me skeptical, but I don't buy this story.  I find it hard to believe that a person who just received a terminal diagnosis would be worrying about such trivial shit as a wedding and reception.  To the point of hiding getting married for insurance purposes, especially hiding this marriage from her own father, all on the off chance that she survived she could have a big, blow out wedding later. 
  
  What other purpose would this couple have had of keeping their marriage a secret in the face of such a terrible and terminal diagnosis?  Would they have come clean with their fathers, family, and friends if she had actually died?
  
  And if this story actually is true, shame.on.all.of.you.
  

  I'm with you. In addition to the jacked up priorities, I don't think his insurance would have covered her treatment anyway. It would have been an excluded pre-existing condition up until very recently.

  
  

  It's just a little too convenient and heart string pulling, and I find it pretty hard to believe that there would be a couple and two mothers that are all so morally bankrupt as to pull off a lie like this. Usually there's someone in the mix with a conscience. 

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  I too think this is MUD. I have known plenty of people with health insurance whose cancer treatments were not covered, for a variety of shit-tastic reasons. I sincerely doubt that her treatment would have been covered, especially, as Novella said, because until recently that was a "pre-existing condition" which companies could put outside of coverage. 

  
  

  And just like...what the fuck? Why leave out the poor dads? As if they weren't going through enough, probably worried out of their minds about the girl...if this isn't fake, it's the worst shit ever. I like how the fathers not knowing was supposed to make us be like "OoooOoooh, okay, well if the dads didn't know, then this just obvi wasn't a 'wedding'." 

  
  

  
  

  
  

  ETA: Where do the boxes even go?

  
  

  Ah, I got stuck in the box!  @abcdevonn, I automatically worship you due to the Ehrmantraut gif.  That's all I can contribute at this time.  Gotta catch a flight!

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• sophhabobopha member

  

  February 2015

  Fran1985 said:

  Hmm. A new poster, but knows enough to make her user name "snowflakeftw" Uses gifs when challenged on her crazy and rude thinking. Calls people diminutive nicknames that she disagrees with. A proponent of being married before the baby comes, which leads me to believe that she would rush into a marriage if she were ever pregnant. Comments on Texas questions. Who wants to set the odds that this is a poster that we've seen before?

  Mein Gott.

  

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• beethery member

  

  February 2015

  sophhabobopha said:

  Fran1985 said:

  Hmm. A new poster, but knows enough to make her user name "snowflakeftw" Uses gifs when challenged on her crazy and rude thinking. Calls people diminutive nicknames that she disagrees with. A proponent of being married before the baby comes, which leads me to believe that she would rush into a marriage if she were ever pregnant. Comments on Texas questions. Who wants to set the odds that this is a poster that we've seen before?

  Mein Gott.

  
  

  
  

  She's gone now

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  I'm the fuck out.

  
  

  
  

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• ashley8918 member

  

  February 2015

  beethery said:

  sophhabobopha said:

  Fran1985 said:

  Hmm. A new poster, but knows enough to make her user name "snowflakeftw" Uses gifs when challenged on her crazy and rude thinking. Calls people diminutive nicknames that she disagrees with. A proponent of being married before the baby comes, which leads me to believe that she would rush into a marriage if she were ever pregnant. Comments on Texas questions. Who wants to set the odds that this is a poster that we've seen before?

  Mein Gott.

  
  

  
  

  She's gone now

  
  

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• sophhabobopha member

  

  February 2015

  beethery said:

  sophhabobopha said:

  Fran1985 said:

  Hmm. A new poster, but knows enough to make her user name "snowflakeftw" Uses gifs when challenged on her crazy and rude thinking. Calls people diminutive nicknames that she disagrees with. A proponent of being married before the baby comes, which leads me to believe that she would rush into a marriage if she were ever pregnant. Comments on Texas questions. Who wants to set the odds that this is a poster that we've seen before?

  Mein Gott.

  
  

  
  

  She's gone now

  Hahahahahahhaha.

  

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• annathy03 member

  

  February 2015

  Holy hell this thread turned nuts.

  
  

  Also if you're using the word bastard to talk about a child born out of wedlock, you'd better be talking:

  1) Fictionally, i.e. Jon Snow in GOT

  2) Historically, i.e. Some materials refer to Queen Elizabeth I as the bastard queen because the Pope didn't recognize the marriage of Henry VIII to Anne Boleyn.

  
  

  Otherwise

  
  

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• Fran1985 member

  

  February 2015

  beethery said:

  sophhabobopha said:

  Fran1985 said:

  Hmm. A new poster, but knows enough to make her user name "snowflakeftw" Uses gifs when challenged on her crazy and rude thinking. Calls people diminutive nicknames that she disagrees with. A proponent of being married before the baby comes, which leads me to believe that she would rush into a marriage if she were ever pregnant. Comments on Texas questions. Who wants to set the odds that this is a poster that we've seen before?

  Mein Gott.

  
  

  
  

  She's gone now

  Oh shit I knew it! Also that GIF is my life

   

  Also, seriously impressed with myself right now. I am declaring myself queen of calling out trolls for the day.
  

  
  
  

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• beethery member

  

  February 2015

  Fran1985 said:

  Oh shit I knew it! Also that GIF is my life

   

  Also, seriously impressed with myself right now. I am declaring myself queen of calling out trolls for the day.
  

  I've told you before that you are my favorite but DO NOT FORGET IT EVER. BECAUSE IT IS TRUE.

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  I'm the fuck out.

  
  

  
  

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• VulgarGirl member

  

  February 2015

  @Fran1985

  
  

  
  

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• PrettyGirlLost member

  

  February 2015

  
  

  beethery said:

  sophhabobopha said:

  Fran1985 said:

  Hmm. A new poster, but knows enough to make her user name "snowflakeftw" Uses gifs when challenged on her crazy and rude thinking. Calls people diminutive nicknames that she disagrees with. A proponent of being married before the baby comes, which leads me to believe that she would rush into a marriage if she were ever pregnant. Comments on Texas questions. Who wants to set the odds that this is a poster that we've seen before?

  Mein Gott.

  
  

  
  

  She's gone now

  Damn, Girl!  You are like the CSI of BSC posters stalkers here!

  
  "Love is the one thing we're capable of perceiving that transcends time and space."
  
  

  
  

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• dcbride86 member

  

  February 2015

  snowflakeftw said:

  Dreamergirl8812 said:

  I'm going to a baby shower next Saturday. The couple is not married. It was a planned pregnancy, but they don't want to get married until his Father can come into the country. They could get married and have a fake wedding later. But that would be stupid.
  

  there is a term, and I mentioned it before for children who are born outside of a marriage

  
  You are a horrible human being.  I genuinely hope you never ever call a child that.

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• kellyem2 member

  

  February 2015 edited February 2015

  How the hell did we get from people pulling some kind of wedding/cancer scam to calling little kids bastards?
  
  There are no circumstances where it's ever OK to shame a kid, especially for something the kid had nothing to do with.
  Also, it's not the 1800s and it's really not that big of a deal if you *gasp* had SEX before marriage. Seriously. People need to get over themselves.
  

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