In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:b1831799-3580-4c7d-b586-0657d62cc8ba">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long. : This is my approach. <strong> He's an idiot. I'm pretty awesome, and it's his loss. I won't give him the satisfaction of knowing that he's hurt me.</strong> Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
<div>This is awesome. For saying this it makes you 2000000x more awesome.</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:114e2a2e-64a5-4588-924f-042ed6eaa8fe">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]Or just not saying anything and sending some kind of Congrats on the baby card in the mail with "Fuuck you" written inside. Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
I was just thinking this is what I would do. Great minds.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:114e2a2e-64a5-4588-924f-042ed6eaa8fe">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]You guys are awesome. I'm kind of thinking of ways to fuuck with him. I'm thinking about texting him to see if I can come see the house since he's repainted it and everything after I moved out, acting like I know nothing, and making him figure out how to tell me "no," since, of course, he wanted to stay friends and all. Or just not saying anything and sending some kind of Congrats on the baby card in the mail with "Fuuck you" written inside. Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
Send him a onesie that says "My mommy is a whore and my daddy can't keep his diick dry"
Wow. What a jackass. I am so sorry you had to go through this.
I can't believe not one of his friends had the balls or the decency to say anything to you or to him before you got married. They don't sound any better than him.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:03473857-bf5b-478b-9eeb-0df10bd3703c">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]Steph, I sent you a FBM last night right after I found out with lots of swear words. :) Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
ha. I *just* saw it. Sorry for ignoring you!
And, quite frankly, there could have been WAY more swear words, given the situation.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:992428b7-1f02-4acd-aff1-c1dc1caba578">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long. : Send him a onesie that says "My mommy is a whore and my daddy can't keep his diick dry" Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:027cecfc-bb74-412b-9cb4-06936ad8154e">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long. : ha. I *just* saw it. Sorry for ignoring you! And, quite frankly, there could have been WAY more swear words, given the situation. Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE] No worries, I figured you hadn't seen it, that's the type of thing that people generally respond to :)
Ash I feel like this kind of sordid shiit is straight out of a Lifetime movie, but you know what happens at the end of a Lifetime movie?! THE SCORNED WOMAN WINS
Not sure. I think that he had to know he was cheating on me at some point, but he's always had problems with his brother, and I know his brother really liked me.
I can't believe this is my life. Or was my life. I can't figure out why he married me in the first place, if he was sticking his diick everywhere else. It's not like I was pushing for it. He's the one that suggested it.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:b8d8b49f-c45d-438c-aa1c-422870b3fc0a">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]Ash I feel like this kind of sordid shiit is straight out of a Lifetime movie, but you know what happens at the end of a Lifetime movie?! THE SCORNED WOMAN WINS Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE] RIGHT? I can't even believe this happened. It's so juicy.<div> </div><div>I'm currently asking the friend more questions.</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:988ed863-c5d9-438c-a957-9a142b8e9fc9">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]Not sure. I think that he had to know he was cheating on me at some point, but he's always had problems with his brother, and I know his brother really liked me. I can't believe this is my life. Or was my life. <strong>I can't figure out why he married me in the first place, if he was sticking his diick everywhere else. </strong> It's not like I was pushing for it. He's the one that suggested it. Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
<div>I don't get that either. Something similar to this happened to a friend of mine. He was cheating before they were engaged, while they were engaged (apparently - he was also engaged to another woman), and then continued after the wedding. How can you say vows when you obviously have no intention of keeping them? I get that people mess up and can change, but this is sooo beyond that. </div>
Seriously ash, you're so awesome. You're handling this amazingly and totally being the bigger person. I'd have ripped him apart and done many irrational things.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:988ed863-c5d9-438c-a957-9a142b8e9fc9">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]Not sure. I think that he had to know he was cheating on me at some point, but he's always had problems with his brother, and I know his brother really liked me. I can't believe this is my life. Or was my life. <strong> I can't figure out why he married me in the first place, if he was sticking his diick everywhere else.</strong> It's not like I was pushing for it. He's the one that suggested it. Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE] Maybe he thought by marrying you, you wouldn't get suspicious.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:0c09db0b-57f7-4d6e-8173-07b646eef4eb">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]My understanding is that his brother isn't speaking to him because of it. I sent him a message on FB last night too. He hasn't responded. Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:1bce07a2-5f27-472b-b4ca-ed122d424426">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long. : I don't get that either. Something similar to this happened to a friend of mine. He was cheating before they were engaged, while they were engaged (apparently - he was also engaged to another woman), and then continued after the wedding. How can you say vows when you obviously have no intention of keeping them? <strong> I get that people mess up and can change, but this is sooo beyond that. </strong> Posted by Wiscisbliss[/QUOTE]
<div>Yup. This happened to someone I knew. A couple "flings" but as soon as the engagement happened it was a complete 180. This is so not that. This is bad. Bad, bad, bad. </div><div> </div><div>Thank goodness this is no longer a part of your life. You have so much ahead of you.</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:d356cf17-14ea-4530-a70a-8a890de1a42a">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]Seriously ash, you're so awesome. You're handling this amazingly and totally being the bigger person. I'd have ripped him apart and done many irrational things. Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
Yup. And it would not be pretty. See? Youre kick ass.
I was in a very similiar situation with my first marriage, but no kids. And the friends all knew. I got the whole "well, what were we supposed to do? It wasn't our place to say anything." I told everyone of them who gave me that bullshet answer, "you're absolutely right," and then proceded to severe ties with the whole lot of them.
I won't go into details because it's not nice to gloat, but ex basically got a taste of his own medicine in a subsequent relationship and I'm about 7 months from marrying a wonderful guy.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:d356cf17-14ea-4530-a70a-8a890de1a42a">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]Seriously ash, you're so awesome. You're handling this amazingly and totally being the bigger person. I'd have ripped him apart and done many irrational things. Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
This this this. I have admired you so much Ash in how you've handled yourself these past several months, so I know that you are going to be completely fine - and you know we are all here for you for whatever you need (even sending shiit to his house lol). Ugh I wish I could just hug you right now. You are way too kickass of a person to have all this crap handed to you!
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:0f5c07e1-9e14-4617-aca6-d0fc05314615">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long. : Maybe he thought by marrying you, you wouldn't get suspicious. Posted by maratea[/QUOTE] I really wasn't ever suspicious, anyway. I always trusted him and gave him the benefit of the doubt. Because I'm not an asshole.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:e0aed615-67ba-4439-b9ba-3282f22e4399">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long. : He already sounds like giant train wreck, now we just have to wait for the fuel tanks to explode. I feel like asking him any justifications on the marriage would be equivalent to asking a dog why he licks his own asshole. <strong> You are one smart, strong, and beautiful woman. I'm so glad you are no longer attached to him and his life. When he implodes for good, it's not going to be pretty.</strong> Posted by kodakitty[/QUOTE]
Ash, you're amazing, and you deserve someone better, which definitely won't be hard to find, because this guy is lower than the maggots that live in the slime on cockroaches. They deserve each other, and I'm just so glad you're out.
Send him a wedding announcement after you marry Ryan Gosling. That'll do it
Also, if he ever visits Chicago, let me know. I'm related to most of the south side police force.
As shiitty as it is that you had to go through this, better that you guys got divorced quick rather than you being with him for a few decades, maybe with a couple kids, and THEN this happens. You still have your whole life ahead of you!
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_vent-promise-its-juicy-probably-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:0c22009e-51fd-47f0-af88-1d9148f2d66ePost:988ed863-c5d9-438c-a957-9a142b8e9fc9">Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.</a>: [QUOTE]Not sure. I think that he had to know he was cheating on me at some point, but he's always had problems with his brother, and I know his brother really liked me. I can't believe this is my life. Or was my life. I can't figure out why he married me in the first place, if he was sticking his diick everywhere else. It's not like I was pushing for it. He's the one that suggested it. Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
I'll be honest Ash, I think it's there own way of making themselves feel better. And having it all to be honest.
This almost exact thing happened to a woman I work with, and she got pregnant right after the wedding and he asked for a divorce a couple days after she gave birth and left her for the other woman.
He had kids with her (the new woman) and treated her kids way better than his first child. He got his in the end, she ended up leaving him, and now he is a jobless loser who is lonley and pathetic.
Karma is a biitch and I am certain he will get his.
Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long. : This is my approach. <strong> He's an idiot. I'm pretty awesome, and it's his loss. I won't give him the satisfaction of knowing that he's hurt me.</strong>
Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
<div>This is awesome. For saying this it makes you 2000000x more awesome.</div>
[QUOTE]Or just not saying anything and sending some kind of Congrats on the baby card in the mail with "Fuuck you" written inside.
Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
I was just thinking this is what I would do. Great minds.
[QUOTE]You guys are awesome. I'm kind of thinking of ways to fuuck with him. I'm thinking about texting him to see if I can come see the house since he's repainted it and everything after I moved out, acting like I know nothing, and making him figure out how to tell me "no," since, of course, he wanted to stay friends and all. Or just not saying anything and sending some kind of Congrats on the baby card in the mail with "Fuuck you" written inside.
Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
Send him a onesie that says "My mommy is a whore and my daddy can't keep his diick dry"
[QUOTE]Steph, I sent you a FBM last night right after I found out with lots of swear words. :)
Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
ha. I *just* saw it. Sorry for ignoring you!
And, quite frankly, there could have been WAY more swear words, given the situation.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long. : Send him a onesie that says "My mommy is a whore and my daddy can't keep his diick dry"
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]
LOL
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long. : ha. I *just* saw it. Sorry for ignoring you! And, quite frankly, there could have been WAY more swear words, given the situation.
Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE]
No worries, I figured you hadn't seen it, that's the type of thing that people generally respond to :)
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I can't believe this is my life. Or was my life. I can't figure out why he married me in the first place, if he was sticking his diick everywhere else. It's not like I was pushing for it. He's the one that suggested it.
[QUOTE]Ash I feel like this kind of sordid shiit is straight out of a Lifetime movie, but you know what happens at the end of a Lifetime movie?! THE SCORNED WOMAN WINS
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]
RIGHT? I can't even believe this happened. It's so juicy.<div>
</div><div>I'm currently asking the friend more questions.</div>
[QUOTE]Not sure. I think that he had to know he was cheating on me at some point, but he's always had problems with his brother, and I know his brother really liked me. I can't believe this is my life. Or was my life. <strong>I can't figure out why he married me in the first place, if he was sticking his diick everywhere else. </strong> It's not like I was pushing for it. He's the one that suggested it.
Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
<div>I don't get that either. Something similar to this happened to a friend of mine. He was cheating before they were engaged, while they were engaged (apparently - he was also engaged to another woman), and then continued after the wedding. How can you say vows when you obviously have no intention of keeping them? I get that people mess up and can change, but this is sooo beyond that. </div>
[QUOTE]Not sure. I think that he had to know he was cheating on me at some point, but he's always had problems with his brother, and I know his brother really liked me. I can't believe this is my life. Or was my life. <strong> I can't figure out why he married me in the first place, if he was sticking his diick everywhere else.</strong> It's not like I was pushing for it. He's the one that suggested it.
Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
Maybe he thought by marrying you, you wouldn't get suspicious.
[QUOTE]My understanding is that his brother isn't speaking to him because of it. I sent him a message on FB last night too. He hasn't responded.
Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
Good on him.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long. : I don't get that either. Something similar to this happened to a friend of mine. He was cheating before they were engaged, while they were engaged (apparently - he was also engaged to another woman), and then continued after the wedding. How can you say vows when you obviously have no intention of keeping them? <strong> I get that people mess up and can change, but this is sooo beyond that. </strong>
Posted by Wiscisbliss[/QUOTE]
<div>Yup. This happened to someone I knew. A couple "flings" but as soon as the engagement happened it was a complete 180. This is so not that. This is bad. Bad, bad, bad. </div><div>
</div><div>Thank goodness this is no longer a part of your life. You have so much ahead of you.</div>
[QUOTE]Seriously ash, you're so awesome. You're handling this amazingly and totally being the bigger person. I'd have ripped him apart and done many irrational things.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
Yup. And it would not be pretty.
See? Youre kick ass.
I won't go into details because it's not nice to gloat, but ex basically got a taste of his own medicine in a subsequent relationship and I'm about 7 months from marrying a wonderful guy.
I won. You will too.
[QUOTE]Seriously ash, you're so awesome. You're handling this amazingly and totally being the bigger person. I'd have ripped him apart and done many irrational things.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
This this this. I have admired you so much Ash in how you've handled yourself these past several months, so I know that you are going to be completely fine - and you know we are all here for you for whatever you need (even sending shiit to his house lol). Ugh I wish I could just hug you right now. You are way too kickass of a person to have all this crap handed to you!
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long. : Maybe he thought by marrying you, you wouldn't get suspicious.
Posted by maratea[/QUOTE]
I really wasn't ever suspicious, anyway. I always trusted him and gave him the benefit of the doubt. Because I'm not an asshole.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Vent. I promise it's juicy. And probably really long. : He already sounds like giant train wreck, now we just have to wait for the fuel tanks to explode. I feel like asking him any justifications on the marriage would be equivalent to asking a dog why he licks his own asshole. <strong> You are one smart, strong, and beautiful woman. I'm so glad you are no longer attached to him and his life. When he implodes for good, it's not going to be pretty.</strong>
Posted by kodakitty[/QUOTE]
FUCKING YES.
Planning!.....Married!
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[QUOTE]Not sure. I think that he had to know he was cheating on me at some point, but he's always had problems with his brother, and I know his brother really liked me. I can't believe this is my life. Or was my life. I can't figure out why he married me in the first place, if he was sticking his diick everywhere else. It's not like I was pushing for it. He's the one that suggested it.
Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
I'll be honest Ash, I think it's there own way of making themselves feel better. And having it all to be honest.
It's pure arrogance.
He had kids with her (the new woman) and treated her kids way better than his first child. He got his in the end, she ended up leaving him, and now he is a jobless loser who is lonley and pathetic.
Karma is a biitch and I am certain he will get his.