Hey , I'm so sorry you r going thru this. Not seeing you on mother's day bc mother in law more important. Nonsense . Sounds like the gf is a chip off old block of mom. Sounds like sons gf is a well....brat. idk best advice other than talk to your soon about how you'd like to be with him more , or make plans to take walks, lunches , etc things that don't break the bank. Invite son and gf or if gf doesn't come just son. Start to do all you can to make effort to be with son away from this so he can make sure it's what he wants . You are his mother , you deserve to be held high
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And HOW did her sister even come up with this method?! Who would even want to read all those 'essays'? Why would your assign homework to YOURSELF?
I hate all of these people. It sounds like OP was raised in a family of assholes and somehow is reasonable, at least in this instance.
This is the third time today that I've seen some fuckery that made me think, "THIS is why I'll never not be tired."
Where do these people come from?
https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/hzyy7b/aita_for_refusing_to_rsvp_to_my_sisters_wedding/
Edit2: Sister has framed these essays as “surveys” but there’s a word limit requirement so if you don’t reach it on the google forms you can’t even submit. Parents think this is perfectly reasonable, nice even, because sister is letting everyone have the chance to attend.
as @banana468 mentioned before. In other news, other people are not as excited about your wedding as you are!
Nope. In no universe am I writing why I deserve to be invited to your wedding. That you think that this is somehow a worthy requirement makes me want to attend your wedding LESS than I already do.
And if that's the reaction that parents are giving then they are terrible parents full stop. Good parenting means not enabling your kids and showing them tough love like, "This is insulting to your guests especially your sister. "
This is preposterous. I've always been sad I didn't have siblings, but maybe I'm not?
Hey Sis. Obviously you're grappling a lot with too many guests and not enough room at the venue, that you've even resorted to people auditioning for guest spots. My wedding gift to you is I am RSVP'ing "No".
If the bride can't figure out how to cut people down and sends that crap to her direct family and only sibling... It's CTJ time for a "Time to grow up - life sometimes involves crappy decisions - "can I get you the Kitchen Aid mixer to just stay home???" (scary reality - it's cheaper than everything else DW!)
I wonder if the happy couple will post their favorite essays as part of a forced montage during the reception?
250 words there, I believe.