I'm embarrassed to be considered a Knottie right now

misscoffeeplease

I was in the middle of reading the thread and then it got deleted. Oh well. Back to munching on my pretzels.

Jen4948

That thread was shocking...and so were the people who left nasty messages, however well deserved, on her guestbook.

I'm glad the thread at least is gone.  Things won't be as exciting, perhaps, but hopefully they won't get so nasty.

theartistformerlyknownas

Damn guys. That got way out of hand way quickly. That was so worse than any of the etiquette gaffes she might have at her wedding. I think people may have still been riding the "let's find all the people!" adrenaline from yesterday... but it's so not ok to actually follow through on any of that! I'm glad it's been deleted.

sofakingmad

Jen4948 said:

That thread was shocking...and so were the people who left nasty messages, however well deserved, on her guestbook.

I'm glad the thread at least is gone.  Things won't be as exciting, perhaps, but hopefully they won't get so nasty.

On what planet were any of those messages well deserved?  

banana468

Jen4948 said:

That thread was shocking...and so were the people who left nasty messages, however well deserved, on her guestbook.

I'm glad the thread at least is gone.  Things won't be as exciting, perhaps, but hopefully they won't get so nasty.

I hope you're not believing that she deserved the nasty messages.

Fran1985

Wow. This is upsetting to read. I only got to the second page. I was anticipating 7 pages of puppy gifs.

penguin44

This poor girl. I have come out from lurking because I can't believe what people are saying on her guest book. STILL. Ignoring what was said on here, all of her family and friends can see the things on her wedding website.

mimiphin

And they keep coming, now with instead of theknot various usernames of us on here,

doeydo

I missed everything.  So we don't know who posted these nasty comments on this woman's website?  

CheleLyn

Something really needs to done to protect her guestbook. 

Some people are just viscous and vile! 

LEAVE HER ALONE! GOOD GRIEF! 

Jen4948

banana468 said:

That thread was shocking...and so were the people who left nasty messages, however well deserved, on her guestbook.

I'm glad the thread at least is gone.  Things won't be as exciting, perhaps, but hopefully they won't get so nasty.

I hope you're not believing that she deserved the nasty messages.

No.  She did open herself to criticism by her messages to Sara and her posts on Facebook, along with her FI's and her father's.  But no, there's a line between criticism and the nastiness she was subjected to, and people crossed that line that should have stayed uncrossed.  I hope that line won't get crossed again.

Fran1985

Who posted her personal information on the knot thread?

MadHops21

I don't know if you guys know yet...but someone is signing the guest book with Knottie's usernames. Like GlitterWitch, HisGirlFriday, etc....

cupcait927

mimiphin said:

And they keep coming, now with instead of theknot various usernames of us on here,

I was just going to mention that. Someone at TK NEEDS to take care of that, like ASAP.

SammiNJonni

Wait is this Sara's bride? I missed the thread but I thought is was another one.

Jen4948 said:

banana468 said:

That thread was shocking...and so were the people who left nasty messages, however well deserved, on her guestbook.

I'm glad the thread at least is gone.  Things won't be as exciting, perhaps, but hopefully they won't get so nasty.

I hope you're not believing that she deserved the nasty messages.

No.  She did open herself to criticism by her messages to Sara and her posts on Facebook, along with her FI's and her father's.  But no, there's a line between criticism and the nastiness she was subjected to, and people crossed that line that should have stayed uncrossed.  I hope that line won't get crossed again.

lyndausvi

Blunt, although sometimes perceived as rude, responses on TK is one thing.   There is never, ever a good reason to post on someone's real-life public whatever.  Never.

sofakingmad

Jen4948 said:

banana468 said:

That thread was shocking...and so were the people who left nasty messages, however well deserved, on her guestbook.

I'm glad the thread at least is gone.  Things won't be as exciting, perhaps, but hopefully they won't get so nasty.

I hope you're not believing that she deserved the nasty messages.

No.  She did open herself to criticism by her messages to Sara and her posts on Facebook, along with her FI's and her father's.  But no, there's a line between criticism and the nastiness she was subjected to, and people crossed that line that should have stayed uncrossed.  I hope that line won't get crossed again.

You are talking about the wrong thread.

cupcait927

Jen4948 said:

banana468 said:

That thread was shocking...and so were the people who left nasty messages, however well deserved, on her guestbook.

I'm glad the thread at least is gone.  Things won't be as exciting, perhaps, but hopefully they won't get so nasty.

I hope you're not believing that she deserved the nasty messages.

No.  She did open herself to criticism by her messages to Sara and her posts on Facebook, along with her FI's and her father's.  But no, there's a line between criticism and the nastiness she was subjected to, and people crossed that line that should have stayed uncrossed.  I hope that line won't get crossed again.

@Jen4984 I think you're getting it a little confused. The OP we're talking about in this thread isn't related to Sara's post yesterday.

sarawifenow

Jen4948 said:

banana468 said:

That thread was shocking...and so were the people who left nasty messages, however well deserved, on her guestbook.

I'm glad the thread at least is gone.  Things won't be as exciting, perhaps, but hopefully they won't get so nasty.

I hope you're not believing that she deserved the nasty messages.

No.  She did open herself to criticism by her messages to Sara and her posts on Facebook, along with her FI's and her father's.  But no, there's a line between criticism and the nastiness she was subjected to, and people crossed that line that should have stayed uncrossed.  I hope that line won't get crossed again.

Um...this didn't have anything to do with my post?

theartistformerlyknownas

MadHops21 said:

I don't know if you guys know yet...but someone is signing the guest book with Knottie's usernames. Like GlitterWitch, HisGirlFriday, etc....

OMG what the FUCK. 

AprilH81

Jen4948 said:

banana468 said:

That thread was shocking...and so were the people who left nasty messages, however well deserved, on her guestbook.

I'm glad the thread at least is gone.  Things won't be as exciting, perhaps, but hopefully they won't get so nasty.

I hope you're not believing that she deserved the nasty messages.

No.  She did open herself to criticism by her messages to Sara and her posts on Facebook, along with her FI's and her father's.  But no, there's a line between criticism and the nastiness she was subjected to, and people crossed that line that should have stayed uncrossed.  I hope that line won't get crossed again.

The guestbook person and the "you didn't get invited letter" person are two different threads and stories. 

CheleLyn

WOW...for the record i most certainly did NOT just post on her guestbook!

Jen4948

DragonBlood13 said:

Jen4948 said:

banana468 said:

That thread was shocking...and so were the people who left nasty messages, however well deserved, on her guestbook.

I'm glad the thread at least is gone.  Things won't be as exciting, perhaps, but hopefully they won't get so nasty.

I hope you're not believing that she deserved the nasty messages.

No.  She did open herself to criticism by her messages to Sara and her posts on Facebook, along with her FI's and her father's.  But no, there's a line between criticism and the nastiness she was subjected to, and people crossed that line that should have stayed uncrossed.  I hope that line won't get crossed again.

You are talking about the wrong thread.

Either way, nothing justified what she was subjected to.

sofakingmad

Lolo8383 said:

MadHops21 said:

I don't know if you guys know yet...but someone is signing the guest book with Knottie's usernames. Like GlitterWitch, HisGirlFriday, etc....

OMG what the FUCK. 

They keep saying that they aren't registered.

afox007

Lolo8383 said:

MadHops21 said:

I don't know if you guys know yet...but someone is signing the guest book with Knottie's usernames. Like GlitterWitch, HisGirlFriday, etc....

OMG what the FUCK. 

I just noticed this too. Although clearly I am a little slow today and actually thought it was really a bunch of us posting until I saw who some of the names were.

MadHops21

Glitterwitch22 You're all in the Guest Book, someone is taking your usernames and posting them there. Just FYI. 

mimiphin

Lolo8383 said:

MadHops21 said:

I don't know if you guys know yet...but someone is signing the guest book with Knottie's usernames. Like GlitterWitch, HisGirlFriday, etc....

OMG what the FUCK. 

Now me, @Madhops21, dbraun09

Couggal12

I started reading the thread then got pulled away from my desk and missed everything, darn. Sounds like it was a good thing though.

Did someone actually post someone's phone number on here? Or just linked their wedding website. Yes, I know I should just move along but, I'm curious now.  

sofakingmad

Jen4948 said:

DragonBlood13 said:

Jen4948 said:

banana468 said:

That thread was shocking...and so were the people who left nasty messages, however well deserved, on her guestbook.

I'm glad the thread at least is gone.  Things won't be as exciting, perhaps, but hopefully they won't get so nasty.

I hope you're not believing that she deserved the nasty messages.

No.  She did open herself to criticism by her messages to Sara and her posts on Facebook, along with her FI's and her father's.  But no, there's a line between criticism and the nastiness she was subjected to, and people crossed that line that should have stayed uncrossed.  I hope that line won't get crossed again.

You are talking about the wrong thread.

No, I'm talking about the Rebecca thread where she told the OP, whose name I think is Sara, that she was not invited because she thought her relationship with her FI wouldn't last 3 years, and there was a lot of drama on Facebook after that.  Some people posted here at the Knot in that thread about how they were looking for her own website and registries.

I know what thread you are referring to, but that has absolutely nothing to do with what is being talked about in this thread.  

The thread that we are referring to is gone.  It has been deleted.

banana468

SaraBrideSoon said:

Jen4948 said:

banana468 said:

Jen4948 said:

That thread was shocking...and so were the people who left nasty messages, however well deserved, on her guestbook.

I'm glad the thread at least is gone.  Things won't be as exciting, perhaps, but hopefully they won't get so nasty.

I hope you're not believing that she deserved the nasty messages.

No.  She did open herself to criticism by her messages to Sara and her posts on Facebook, along with her FI's and her father's.  But no, there's a line between criticism and the nastiness she was subjected to, and people crossed that line that should have stayed uncrossed.  I hope that line won't get crossed again.

Um...this didn't have anything to do with my post?



This. I think people insinuated that they were the same but they aren't. They don't even live in the same country!

The poor bride today was following things that she thought were perfectly fine and then she was publicly shamed on her own wedding website. She didn't do anything to her guests or their SOs.