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I am at a lost. It's over.

I get my everyday morning text and phone call while I am at work from Fi...well now Ex-FI...I apologize it if it very hard to read. I am just so upset and I do not understand. 
He asked me if went to lunch to eat and how my day was. I told him I had some time, so he can call me for a bit. He ends it. He starts saying there are some things on this mind and that he said " we do not have any real issues or problems going on. We do not fight, argue, it's very wonderful but I do not feel the need to be a relationship now or if I really want to be in one right now. I feel good being alone, to myself, by myself....I am comfortable and content alone."

I am speechless and I am like what are you trying to say. He says, " I just don't want to be with you anymore." I just hung up and broke down in my office. I cancelled everything for today. I'm just sitting in my office crying because I am at a lost and do not know what to do. I called my mom and she is driving up. Ladies, I do not know what to do. He ended it within a 4 minuet phone conversation. 

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  • Oh, Girl. I am so sorry! Sending you a thousand hugs today.
  • Oh my gosh I'm so sorry. There are no words. Hopefully your mom takes good care of you. Drink lots of wine.
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  • Oh dear :( No matter how it ends, it's always the worst. I would need my Mom too! Here's a kitty hugging a kitten for you. It will get better. It seems like it never will right now, but it will get better.
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  • Oh my gosh, I am so sorry to hear this.  Sending you positive thoughts and prayers
  • Oh my god, I am so sorry.

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  • Oh my god. I'm so so sorry. 
  • oh my gosh I'm so so sorry. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but you will be ok. You really will. So many hugs. I am so sorry. 
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  • Oh gosh, that is terrible...  I'm glad your mom is coming to be with you! Take care of yourself.
  • I'm so sorry.

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  • chibiyui said:

    Oh my god, I am so sorry.

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    The raccoon was my intern. She dropped off something and just hugged me like that. She said a hug was all she can give me.  
    I do not want to go home in case he is there. His own mother and sister are calling me and asking if they can come over to see how I am holding up. This isn't like him and it's as if he is a different person.

    Live fast, die young. Bad Girls do it well. Suki Zuki.

  • Aw, Alexis, I'm so sorry. My heart breaks for you.

    He did it over the phone? Really? Go home for the day and call in tomorrow. Take some time to gather yourself.
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  • That was a coward move to end it over the phone. You deserve better. I'm sorry!
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  • What a coward. I am so sorry he did this to you.



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  • I'm so sorry, Alexis.
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  • I'm so sorry! I hope you are able to at least talk it out with him and find out his fucking deal so you can have some closure.

                                                                     

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  • Big hugs and all the wine to you.

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  • I'm so very sorry. I know how it must hurt right now. Many of us have been there (including myself) and I know it's hard to hear now, but I promise it will get better.


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  • OMG so, so sorry!! Been there, done that. Ice cream, wine, and lots of crying helped me through it. 


    At least you know you have everyone here. Sending hugs and good vibes to you. 
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  • jenna8984 said:

    I'm so sorry! I hope you are able to at least talk it out with him and find out his fucking deal so you can have some closure.

    I sent a message and called him because I feel like I deserve more. I am scared that it could be due to my fertility issues or if he met someone else. 

    Live fast, die young. Bad Girls do it well. Suki Zuki.

  • I'm so sorry Alexis. I don't know what else to say except you deserve better, and you will have better. I don't want to try to minimize your hurt, though. Hugs and wine.
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  • Oh I'm so sorry.  My ex-FI broke up with me a few months ago.  I know what you're feeling.  If you ever need to talk, please feel free to PM me.

    I know it's impossible to see right now but it gets better.  I promise you it does.
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  • What the actual fuck? Who does that? I'm sorry, is he 14? Because that's how 14-year-olds break up. 

    I'm sorry. I know it sucks really hard but eventually you'll be glad this fucker did you a favor by fucking off on his own. 
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  • I'm so sorry! So glad your mom is coming to you. Let her take care of you and get through this!
  • I really can't believe he did that over the phone. What a fucking assface coward! 
  • I am so very sorry and send you internet hugs to  infinity and beyond.  I'm glad your mom is coming to see you.  I truly am so sorry.

    He is the worst kind of coward.  He couldn't face you and he chooses to do this while you are at work?  Seriously?  That is not how a person treats someone who has had the relationship you had.  What a sleazy, low-down, whale-snot kind jerk. 

    Cookies, wine, chocolate, and your mom - it won't change things but it will help you get through it. 

  • AlexisA01 said:

    Oh my god, I am so sorry.

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    The raccoon was my intern. She dropped off something and just hugged me like that. She said a hug was all she can give me.  
    I do not want to go home in case he is there. His own mother and sister are calling me and asking if they can come over to see how I am holding up. This isn't like him and it's as if he is a different person.


    If he is there, then make him leave! 
  • Oh I'm so sorry.  My ex-FI broke up with me a few months ago.  I know what you're feeling.  If you ever need to talk, please feel free to PM me.


    I know it's impossible to see right now but it gets better.  I promise you it does.
    i'm PMing you now! Thank you <3

    Live fast, die young. Bad Girls do it well. Suki Zuki.

  • Oh my god, I'm so so sorry. I'm glad your mom is driving up so you'll have an IRL shoulder to cry on.

    Can you take the rest of the day off?



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