I am at a lost. It's over.

KytchynWitche

I am so very sorry. That is just completely and utterly horrendous.

pinkcow13

I am so so sorry Alexis. I cannot believe what a fucking coward he was doing this over the fucking phone while you were at work. I'm glad that your mom is coming over to help you get through this. 

We are all here for you, you know this. I'm sending you so many hugs.

hellohkb

I am so sorry. I am sending you all the hugs and positive thoughts in the world. You've been given a lot of good advice here.

hellosweetie1015

First things first: I am so so so very sorry. 

Second things second: 

Third things third: If he honestly thinks it's okay to end a relationship longer than 4 minutes via a 4 minute phone call, you'll eventually realize how much better off you are with him out of the picture. There are better, smarter, stronger, braver men out there, men who would never dream of breaking it off with you at all, much less over the phone (while you're at work?!?! What even makes that okay. Like, really.) and who will treat you like the princess you are. 

Last things last: I really, truly am so so very sorry. Get your favorite crap food tonight, binge watch something stupid (I recommend Kimmie Schmidt, because she's unbreakable just like you) and hang out with your mother. 

[Deleted User]

I'm so so sorry. I can't believe he did it over the phone. That is so freaking cowardly. You deserve so much more than that. 

AlexisA01

@bethsmiles I cancelled my appointments for today and tomorrow. I told the others to leave but they are still getting their time. I am glad my mom is coming up. She lives almost 4 hours away. I expect more from him and the fact he is still ignoring me is just dandy. Ugh.

photokitty

I'm so sorry Alexis. Hugs! 

theartistformerlyknownas

Oh my god honey, I'm so sorry. I hope you're drunk right now, but JUST sober enough to PM me his location to I can go punch him in the neck. What a fucking dickstain. 

falsara

I'm so sorry.  All the hugs, and Ice cream and treats your way. Make sure you take time to grieve, but also to do things that make you feel good for you. 

It is unbelievable that he could be so disrespectful, cold-hearted, and cowardly to talk to you about this over the phone instead of in person.  You deserve explanation greater than what he gave you, and it needs to be face to face.  He should've at least had the decency to give you that. 

Blergbot

I'm so sorry you were treated this way. I know it will take time, but it sounds like you dodged a major bullet here. Thank goodness for awesome moms.

sarawifenow

What a fucking douche lord! Who does that?!

 

Your fertility issues have nothing to do with this. The fact that he is a pathetic loser has everything to do with it.

 

I am so sorry. Sending hugs your way!

bethsmiles

sarawifenow said:

What a fucking douche lord! Who does that?!

 

Your fertility issues have nothing to do with this. The fact that he is a pathetic loser has everything to do with it.

 

I am so sorry. Sending hugs your way!

So much this. This is not about you or your fertility at all. It is 100% about him. Don't blame yourself for him being an asshole.

katiekessler123

How terrible..so so sorry.   However, if this man was willing to break up with his fiance in a four minute phone call, you dodged a bullet by not marrying him.  Hope things feel brighter for you in the future.

flyingfoxes

I'm very sorry - for sure take your time and grieve!  You deserve much much better than this.

littlepep

I am so so sorry for you! 

I agree with the others that was a horrible way to tell you and you don't deserve that. 

I know saying it will get better doesn't help you feel better now but it will! And when you finally meet a life partner who is an actually fucking grown up you be much happier!

hellosweetie1015

sarawifenow said:

What a fucking douche lord! Who does that?!

 

Your fertility issues have nothing to do with this. The fact that he is a pathetic loser has everything to do with it.

 

I am so sorry. Sending hugs your way!

Big-texted for truth.

blabla89

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how you must be feeling, but thank goodness your mom is there for you. Take care of yourself.

msuprincess04

That sucks. I'm sorry for your loss, but excited for the great things to come in the future without him.

kvruns

ugh wtf he's a douchecanoe.  Glad your mom is coming up and hopefully you can get with some friends soon too

flutteringinfl

What an asshole! I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. Sending good vibes

jdluvr06

I'm so sorry. (((Hugs)))

CMGragain

I am so sorry.  I feel your pain.  The same thing happened to me 40 years ago.  It was one of the best things that ever happened to me.  Holy smoke, I might have actually married that jerk!

This guy did not deserve you.  He is a coward and a loser.

In a few days, you will get very angry.  This will be good.  You should be angry.  You deserve to be treated with respect, and by breaking up over the telephone, he showed that he does not respect your feelings or your worth.  Chances are good that he met a woman that interests him.  Thank God you didn't marry him!

Take time to heal.  Your future is waiting.  You deserve to be loved.  Your ex is unable to do that.  You will find someone who is able and eager to love you and to commit to you.  Hugs!

PS.  If he, by any chance, comes crawling back and begs your forgiveness, tell him to go F himself.

princessgracekelly

I am so sorry to hear this. Imagine him as a literal douchecanoe. Then imagine him floating off a waterfall. It's nothing less than what he deserves.

arrippa

Oh honey, I am so sorry. I have been where you are and thought it was the worst day of my life. You know what, it wasn't. Now I have FI and he is 50 million times better than my ex-FI.

This has nothing to do with you or your fertility issues. This is all him. He is the coward. He is the one who has issues, not you.

novella1186

CMGragain said:

I am so sorry.  I feel your pain.  The same thing happened to me 40 years ago.  It was one of the best things that ever happened to me.  Holy smoke, I might have actually married that jerk!

This guy did not deserve you.  He is a coward and a loser.

In a few days, you will get very angry.  This will be good.  You should be angry.  You deserve to be treated with respect, and by breaking up over the telephone, he showed that he does not respect your feelings or your worth.  Chances are good that he met a woman that interests him.  Thank God you didn't marry him!

Take time to heal.  Your future is waiting.  You deserve to be loved.  Your ex is unable to do that.  You will find someone who is able and eager to love you and to commit to you.  Hugs!

PS.  If he, by any chance, comes crawling back and begs your forgiveness, tell him to go F himself.

Really? 

AlexisA01

I got home and this fuckface took his personals and his two dogs. My dog was left alone and I am very pissed for him leaving my pup alone because she was howling and crying. I'm left with this newly built house and I am just so fucking over it. My mom was is going to take me out and I am going to have one too many drinks. 

He took the engagement photographs and our holiday pictures as well. 

southernbelle0915

CMGragain said:

Chances are good that he met a woman that interests him.

Dude...... WHY? 

novella1186

AlexisA01 said:

I got home and this fuckface took his personals and his two dogs. My dog was left alone and I am very pissed for him leaving my pup alone because she was howling and crying. I'm left with this newly built house and I am just so fucking over it. My mom was is going to take me out and I am going to have one too many drinks. 

He took the engagement photographs and our holiday pictures as well. 

I'm so sorry you had to come home to that. He's a total piece of shit for the way he's behaving. As PP have said, you deserve SO MUCH BETTER. I hope you enjoy your time with your mom as much as possible. I'm so glad you have her there to support you. 

MadHops21

That poor puppy! At least you're home with her. Pets are a great companion during rough times. I don't know what I'd do without my dog, she's always with me in the house and listens to me whine and complain and cry. Best secret keeper. 

mikenberger

AlexisA01 said:

I got home and this fuckface took his personals and his two dogs. My dog was left alone and I am very pissed for him leaving my pup alone because she was howling and crying. I'm left with this newly built house and I am just so fucking over it. My mom was is going to take me out and I am going to have one too many drinks. 

He took the engagement photographs and our holiday pictures as well. 

What an asshole. Bullet. Dodged. You drink up, lady. And maybe give your phone to your mom. I know I'd have no problem calling that fucker and giving him a few good what fors.