I am at a lost. It's over.

arrippa

CMGragain said:

I am so sorry.  I feel your pain.  The same thing happened to me 40 years ago.  It was one of the best things that ever happened to me.  Holy smoke, I might have actually married that jerk!

This guy did not deserve you.  He is a coward and a loser.

In a few days, you will get very angry.  This will be good.  You should be angry.  You deserve to be treated with respect, and by breaking up over the telephone, he showed that he does not respect your feelings or your worth.  Chances are good that he met a woman that interests him.  Thank God you didn't marry him!

Take time to heal.  Your future is waiting.  You deserve to be loved.  Your ex is unable to do that.  You will find someone who is able and eager to love you and to commit to you.  Hugs!

PS.  If he, by any chance, comes crawling back and begs your forgiveness, tell him to go F himself.

Really? Why would you say that? That's not even remotely helpful.

jdluvr06

AlexisA01 said:

I got home and this fuckface took his personals and his two dogs. My dog was left alone and I am very pissed for him leaving my pup alone because she was howling and crying. I'm left with this newly built house and I am just so fucking over it. My mom was is going to take me out and I am going to have one too many drinks. 

He took the engagement photographs and our holiday pictures as well. 

What a fucking dickhead.

AlexisA01

CMGragain said:

I am so sorry.  I feel your pain.  The same thing happened to me 40 years ago.  It was one of the best things that ever happened to me.  Holy smoke, I might have actually married that jerk!

This guy did not deserve you.  He is a coward and a loser.

In a few days, you will get very angry.  This will be good.  You should be angry.  You deserve to be treated with respect, and by breaking up over the telephone, he showed that he does not respect your feelings or your worth.  Chances are good that he met a woman that interests him.  Thank God you didn't marry him!

Take time to heal.  Your future is waiting.  You deserve to be loved.  Your ex is unable to do that.  You will find someone who is able and eager to love you and to commit to you.  Hugs!

PS.  If he, by any chance, comes crawling back and begs your forgiveness, tell him to go F himself.

I don't know why...but this rubs me the wrong way and everything else was fine.

novella1186

AlexisA01 said:

CMGragain said:

I am so sorry.  I feel your pain.  The same thing happened to me 40 years ago.  It was one of the best things that ever happened to me.  Holy smoke, I might have actually married that jerk!

This guy did not deserve you.  He is a coward and a loser.

In a few days, you will get very angry.  This will be good.  You should be angry.  You deserve to be treated with respect, and by breaking up over the telephone, he showed that he does not respect your feelings or your worth.  Chances are good that he met a woman that interests him.  Thank God you didn't marry him!

Take time to heal.  Your future is waiting.  You deserve to be loved.  Your ex is unable to do that.  You will find someone who is able and eager to love you and to commit to you.  Hugs!

PS.  If he, by any chance, comes crawling back and begs your forgiveness, tell him to go F himself.

I don't know why...but this rubs me the wrong way and everything else was fine.

Ignore it. She tends to post very insensitive things at times without thinking, and this is one of those times. It was inappropriate and thoughtless. Don't give it a second thought at all.  

chibiyui

Get yourself super drunk tonight with your mom.

And then have someone come change all the locks tomorrow.

And seriously, Fuck Him. 

AlexisA01

chibiyui said:

Get yourself super drunk tonight with your mom.

And then have someone come change all the locks tomorrow.

And seriously, Fuck Him. 

OMG...thank you for bringing that up. I called the company to see if they can change the locks and they will send someone over within an hour or so and I changed my alarm code. I also have another question...the car he drives is under my name and title along with my insurance. What should I do?

doeydo

I am so sorry.  I also echo what PPs have said: he is a douchecanoe.

littlepep

AlexisA01 said:

chibiyui said:

Get yourself super drunk tonight with your mom.

And then have someone come change all the locks tomorrow.

And seriously, Fuck Him. 

OMG...thank you for bringing that up. I called the company to see if they can change the locks and they will send someone over within an hour or so and I changed my alarm code. I also have another question...the car he drives is under my name and title along with my insurance. What should I do?

Sounds like that douchecanoe is fucking walking.

theartistformerlyknownas

AlexisA01 said:

CMGragain said:

I am so sorry.  I feel your pain.  The same thing happened to me 40 years ago.  It was one of the best things that ever happened to me.  Holy smoke, I might have actually married that jerk!

This guy did not deserve you.  He is a coward and a loser.

In a few days, you will get very angry.  This will be good.  You should be angry.  You deserve to be treated with respect, and by breaking up over the telephone, he showed that he does not respect your feelings or your worth.  Chances are good that he met a woman that interests him.  Thank God you didn't marry him!

Take time to heal.  Your future is waiting.  You deserve to be loved.  Your ex is unable to do that.  You will find someone who is able and eager to love you and to commit to you.  Hugs!

PS.  If he, by any chance, comes crawling back and begs your forgiveness, tell him to go F himself.

I don't know why...but this rubs me the wrong way and everything else was fine.

It rubs you the wrong way because it was a horrible and thoughtless thing to say. Please try to forget it. I'm sorry you had to read that.

hellosweetie1015

CMGragain said:

I am so sorry.  I feel your pain.  The same thing happened to me 40 years ago.  It was one of the best things that ever happened to me.  Holy smoke, I might have actually married that jerk!

This guy did not deserve you.  He is a coward and a loser.

In a few days, you will get very angry.  This will be good.  You should be angry.  You deserve to be treated with respect, and by breaking up over the telephone, he showed that he does not respect your feelings or your worth.  Chances are good that he met a woman that interests him.  Thank God you didn't marry him!

Take time to heal.  Your future is waiting.  You deserve to be loved.  Your ex is unable to do that.  You will find someone who is able and eager to love you and to commit to you.  Hugs!

PS.  If he, by any chance, comes crawling back and begs your forgiveness, tell him to go F himself.

Oh, if ONLY you'd left out the bolded. Everything else is not particularly shitty. But the bolded is just a huge fat ugly sack of NOPE.

sarawifenow

AlexisA01 said:

chibiyui said:

Get yourself super drunk tonight with your mom.

And then have someone come change all the locks tomorrow.

And seriously, Fuck Him. 

OMG...thank you for bringing that up. I called the company to see if they can change the locks and they will send someone over within an hour or so and I changed my alarm code. I also have another question...the car he drives is under my name and title along with my insurance. What should I do?

Then that is your car. You have every right to take it back.

FiancB

AlexisA01 said:

chibiyui said:

Get yourself super drunk tonight with your mom.

And then have someone come change all the locks tomorrow.

And seriously, Fuck Him. 

OMG...thank you for bringing that up. I called the company to see if they can change the locks and they will send someone over within an hour or so and I changed my alarm code. I also have another question...the car he drives is under my name and title along with my insurance. What should I do?

Something evil. 

Kidding, kind of. Someone more grown up than myself can probably answer this. 

redoryx

I had an ex do the same thing to me -- quick over the phone break up, fed me the same line, too about wanting to be alone and not in a relationship and blah blah. We'd been together 2 years but friends for nearly 6. 

At the time I had a friend offer to burn down his house. I never took her up on the offer (obviously) but I'll make the same offer to you, too. That is a cowardly, shitty way to end a relationship.

lovegood90

southernbelle0915 said:

CMGragain said:

Chances are good that he met a woman that interests him.

Dude...... WHY? 

So I see that time away from here really did you well...

VulgarGirl

CMGragain said:

Chances are good that he met a woman that interests him.  

Well that was supportive and helpful. 

OP, I've got a lot of shoes with really big heels. Just point me in the right direction and I'll be happy to stomp.

theartistformerlyknownas

AlexisA01 said:

chibiyui said:

Get yourself super drunk tonight with your mom.

And then have someone come change all the locks tomorrow.

And seriously, Fuck Him. 

OMG...thank you for bringing that up. I called the company to see if they can change the locks and they will send someone over within an hour or so and I changed my alarm code. I also have another question...the car he drives is under my name and title along with my insurance. What should I do?

Have your mom call and tell him that you need the car returned tomorrow or he needs to buy it from you at fair market value. If he gives her shit about that, you can either report it stolen or threaten to take him to small claims.

mikenberger

AlexisA01 said:

chibiyui said:

Get yourself super drunk tonight with your mom.

And then have someone come change all the locks tomorrow.

And seriously, Fuck Him. 

OMG...thank you for bringing that up. I called the company to see if they can change the locks and they will send someone over within an hour or so and I changed my alarm code. I also have another question...the car he drives is under my name and title along with my insurance. What should I do?

I'd call the cops and report it as stolen. But I'm a total bitch like that. If the car is 100% solely your name, you have a huge liability. I'd report it stolen and let him take me to small claims court if he paid for any payments (he might feel then that it's "his car".). Or I would send him a message right now: "you have 72 hours to return my vehicle or put it into your own name and loan and insurance. Or I will be reporting it stolen."

Depends on the amount of grief and future headache you want to cause yourself and him.

ShesSoCold

CMGragain said:

I am so sorry.  I feel your pain.  The same thing happened to me 40 years ago.  It was one of the best things that ever happened to me.  Holy smoke, I might have actually married that jerk!

This guy did not deserve you.  He is a coward and a loser.

In a few days, you will get very angry.  This will be good.  You should be angry.  You deserve to be treated with respect, and by breaking up over the telephone, he showed that he does not respect your feelings or your worth.  Chances are good that he met a woman that interests him.  Thank God you didn't marry him!

Take time to heal.  Your future is waiting.  You deserve to be loved.  Your ex is unable to do that.  You will find someone who is able and eager to love you and to commit to you.  Hugs!

PS.  If he, by any chance, comes crawling back and begs your forgiveness, tell him to go F himself.

Why would you say this? How could you even jump to this ridiculous conclusion? "Chances are good"? Please, tell me the actual chances of this. I'm sure you'll pull some statistic out of your ass because I'm sure you studied this EXACT thing at some point in your made up life. What. exactly, do you know about this particular man that makes this a reasonable thing to say? The fact that he told her that he wants to be ALONE? Even if you know this guy personally, why the fuck would you say this to her? 

You've said some fucked up shit and I've let a lot of it roll off my shoulders. This is making me stabby. 

UGH. 

OP, I'm sorry you had to read this horseshit from her. 

lovegood90

I'm so sorry to hear this. Sending you positive thoughts! You deserve better.

TrixieJess

AlexisA01 said:

chibiyui said:

Get yourself super drunk tonight with your mom.

And then have someone come change all the locks tomorrow.

And seriously, Fuck Him. 

OMG...thank you for bringing that up. I called the company to see if they can change the locks and they will send someone over within an hour or so and I changed my alarm code. I also have another question...the car he drives is under my name and title along with my insurance. What should I do?

Cancel it under that license. You COULD inform him first...call him at work, then do it.

ETF: Because Boxes!

jdluvr06

MagicInk said:

CMGragain said:

Chances are good that he met a woman that interests him.  

Well that was supportive and helpful. 

OP, I've got a lot of shoes with really big heels. Just point me in the right direction and I'll be happy to stomp.

In this line of thinking I took an ancient weapons class in college... Got pretty good at it.

VulgarGirl

AlexisA01 said:

chibiyui said:

Get yourself super drunk tonight with your mom.

And then have someone come change all the locks tomorrow.

And seriously, Fuck Him. 

OMG...thank you for bringing that up. I called the company to see if they can change the locks and they will send someone over within an hour or so and I changed my alarm code. I also have another question...the car he drives is under my name and title along with my insurance. What should I do?

Well if the title and insurance are in your name soley...the cops consider it your car. Sounds like he stole your car....just saying....

daria24

I'm so sorry that you are in pain. When the "love of my life" dumped me, my roommate took me to a nearby gorge and had me throw rocks and scream and cry and release all my emotion. It was amazing to just shout and not worry about anyone hearing and feel all the emotion. And throwing stuff feels good. Then she took me to get a hair cut. Take care of yourself, get some pampering. You deserve it. 

sophhabobopha

What a motherfucker. You deserve better. 

hellosweetie1015

jdluvr06 said:

MagicInk said:

CMGragain said:

Chances are good that he met a woman that interests him.  

Well that was supportive and helpful. 

OP, I've got a lot of shoes with really big heels. Just point me in the right direction and I'll be happy to stomp.

In this line of thinking I took an ancient weapons class in college... Got pretty good at it.

I have three months of karate and a fair amount of skill with a baseball bat.

vikinganna87

AlexisA01 said:

chibiyui said:

Get yourself super drunk tonight with your mom.

And then have someone come change all the locks tomorrow.

And seriously, Fuck Him. 

OMG...thank you for bringing that up. I called the company to see if they can change the locks and they will send someone over within an hour or so and I changed my alarm code. I also have another question...the car he drives is under my name and title along with my insurance. What should I do?

I would wait a couple of days then get in touch with him (or ask that a friend or family member contact him) and ask that he return the car.  If for some reason he doesn't do it within a reasonable amount of time you can contact law enforcement. 

sophhabobopha

lolo883 said:

AlexisA01 said:

chibiyui said:

Get yourself super drunk tonight with your mom.

And then have someone come change all the locks tomorrow.

And seriously, Fuck Him. 

OMG...thank you for bringing that up. I called the company to see if they can change the locks and they will send someone over within an hour or so and I changed my alarm code. I also have another question...the car he drives is under my name and title along with my insurance. What should I do?

Have your mom call and tell him that you need the car returned tomorrow or he needs to buy it from you at fair market value. If he gives her shit about that, you can either report it stolen or threaten to take him to small claims.

10000000% YES.

ShesSoCold

MagicInk said:

AlexisA01 said:

chibiyui said:

Get yourself super drunk tonight with your mom.

And then have someone come change all the locks tomorrow.

And seriously, Fuck Him. 

OMG...thank you for bringing that up. I called the company to see if they can change the locks and they will send someone over within an hour or so and I changed my alarm code. I also have another question...the car he drives is under my name and title along with my insurance. What should I do?

Well if the title and insurance are in your name soley...the cops consider it your car. Sounds like he stole your car....just saying....

That's exactly what I was thinking before CMGr made me want to punch things. 

vikinganna87

Also BIG HUGS to you.  I'm so sorry you have to go through this.

theartistformerlyknownas

hellosweetie1015 said:

jdluvr06 said:

MagicInk said:

CMGragain said:

Chances are good that he met a woman that interests him.  

Well that was supportive and helpful. 

OP, I've got a lot of shoes with really big heels. Just point me in the right direction and I'll be happy to stomp.

In this line of thinking I took an ancient weapons class in college... Got pretty good at it.

I have three months of karate and a fair amount of skill with a baseball bat.

Four words - trunk full of guns.