We were supposed to get engaged this past christmas, but when he asked my dad he said no. So now we've been trying to win him over, not working. We're ready to get married without my dad's approval but he spent the money he would've used on a ring to buy me a very expensive bracelet for christmas since he couldn't propose. Now we're broke and he wants me to just move in till we can afford something. That would crush my family, which I was already going to cause a riff since I'm getting married against my dad's wishes but this would hurt everyone. I'd love to be living with him but I want to be his wife, and I want to save relationships- ahhhh!