Tell me something

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tell me something : oh another crazy thing about me is i have a fear of public restrooms...id rather die than pee in one!
Posted by jelique7[/QUOTE]

Me too! Except, I'll use them. But I really have to psych myself up for it.

megk8oz

I started dating DH about 3 weeks after I had "officially" broken up with my ex. Who I was engaged to.

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[QUOTE]I was in an interracial relationship with a married man for almost 6 years. Technically he was only married for 5 of those years. He and his ex had a 2 year old when we broke up. He lived with me for another year after that. I am probably going to go pick up his daughter tomorrow and take her somewhere fun because she called me last week. FI likes his daughter too. But maybe its not shocking to you guys that I was stupid enough to stay for 6 years while he lied, cheated, and gave me an STD. WHo knows
Posted by SarahPLiz[/QUOTE]

I don't like your interesting story. It makes me sad for you. Did you know he was married?

jamiefour

My shocking secret is I CEW!

megk8oz

Sarah, I also want to know if you knew about the wife. I'm going to assume you did from how you talk about it. If you knew ... how did being the other woman feel? If you didn't, how did you find out?

tidetravel

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[QUOTE]My shocking secret is I <3 CEW!
Posted by jamiefour[/QUOTE]
That is shocking, Jamie.  You look entirely too sweet and innocent to ballfuck anyone.

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[QUOTE]My shocking secret is I <3 CEW!
Posted by jamiefour[/QUOTE]

Best secret ever!

katiepoppy

Jelique- I smell my hands frequently to determine their cleanliness (I don't know why). It isn't not noticeable to others, but my FI makes fun of me.

jamiefour

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tell me something : That is shocking, Jamie.  You look entirely too sweet and innocent to ballfuck anyone.
Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]
It is all a front!

[Deleted User]

So, have we mapped out the physical dymanics of ballfucking? How does it work?

katiepoppy

They just re-aired an Oprah show a few days ago about being the other woman. It was fascinating.

deepcovejackie

Jelique-it drives me crazy that neurotic brides go all BSC about something and then excuse it by saying "oh, I'm just OCD".  Throwing the diagnosis around like it's nothing.  I have so much respect for those that deal with the symptoms on a daily basis.

megk8oz

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[QUOTE]So, have we mapped out the physical dymanics of ballfucking? How does it work?
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]


Well, when a mommy ball and a daddy ball love each other very much ...

jamiefour

Real secrets
I hate cuddling...FI hates this and I force myself to do it.

When I first went away to college I didn't poop for 2 weeks because I was afraid.  My roomate had to give me Fibercon because I was in so much pain.

pixiedust84

Jackie and Cew congrats on the weight loss!! That's awesome and judging from your siggy pics you both look fabulous :-)

Here's mine:
Interesting - I've summited Mount Kilimanjaro twice

Scandalous - When Fi and I started dating I was also dating someone else. Although it's not that scandalous since they knew about each other... I guess that's not that juicy.

deepcovejackie

OMG Pixiedust!  Wow, that's amazing.  What a hugely interesting thread.

sarahmk5

I've said this here before, but I'll say it again.  My family own a Christmas tree farm.  I spent every winter of my childhood frolicking there.  It was awesome.

SarahPLiz

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tell me something : I don't like your interesting story. It makes me sad for you. Did you know he was married?
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

Sorry to be debbie downer. It shocks me that I stayed for that long.

I found out he was married about 8 months in. We broke up for a while, then he started calling again and telling me he was leaving her, etc. It was an LDR, I was still in college, and had really low self esteem. I moved to Austin to be with him, thinking he'd finally leave if he had a place to go. His daughter was 6 months old when I moved here, and I didn't find out about her until 3 months later. I love her, though. She and I spent a lot of time together because he had her every weekend, but ended up working most weekends, so I had her alone. She turned 6 in January and I am so proud of the smart, clever person she is becoming. 
His divorce was official when she was 18 months, and I bought a house right before her 2nd birthday. We moved in and then broke up 4 months later. I needed him to live there to help me with the mortgage, or so I thought. I just ended up in even more debt that I am currently paying off. 

So that's my long sad story. At the end, I don't hate him, I just don't like him. I play Santa for his daughter every year to help him and his ex out, and I take her cool places that I want to go, but feel like I need a kid with me to feel normal (Childrens museum, water park, imax, zoo, etc). She is the reason I don't regret staying. I learned a lot in that relationship, and I gained an awesome person in my life int he process.  

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So, here's something kind of interesting. It's more about Ben than me. He's never cried tears when he's mad or sad. When he was little we just assumed that he never got upset enough to produce actual tears, but we realized that's silly.

The funny thing is that his eyes water (like he's crying) when he eats. It's so bad that he has to have a special napkin for his eyes. And then when he's really upset, he'll drool really bad. I've been asking his dr. about it for years, but she has no idea. I sometimes wonder if somehow his tear reflexes and his salivation reflexes are switched because he drools when he's upset and he cries when he eats.

tidetravel

I was the other woman (ie.  "whore" and "homewrecker) in my ex-FI's marriage.  We met at work, he was 22 years older than me, had been in an unhappy marriage for 10 years, and his wife was pregnant.

At the time, I didn't care because we were in LOOOOVE and it was MEANT TO BE!  I still can't complain too much, because it was a great relationship, and I did love him.  I just grew up and wanted different things.  Now that I look back, though, I think to myself, "what was he thinking?"  I'm pretty sure his life was ruined when I gave him the ring back and made him move out. 

sarahmk5

Oh, and I am PSYCHED for my honeymoon to Disney and the new Harry Potter world and have no shame about it.

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[QUOTE]I've summited Mount Kilimanjaro twice Scandalous -
Posted by pixiedust84[/QUOTE]

That's amazing. I always admire people who can do this.

kd.joseph

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[QUOTE]My shocking secret is I <3 CEW!
Posted by jamiefour[/QUOTE]

That's not shocking Jamie we all lust after Cew!

pixiedust84

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[QUOTE]OMG Pixiedust!  Wow, that's amazing.  What a hugely interesting thread.
Posted by deepcovejackie[/QUOTE]

Thank you!

This is an awesome thread - everyone has such great interesting facts!

sarahmk5

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[QUOTE]So, here's something kind of interesting. It's more about Ben than me. He's never cried tears when he's mad or sad. When he was little we just assumed that he never got upset enough to produce actual tears, but we realized that's silly. The funny thing is that his eyes water (like he's crying) when he eats. It's so bad that he has to have a special napkin for his eyes. And then when he's really upset, he'll drool really bad. I've been asking his dr. about it for years, but she has no idea. <strong>I sometimes wonder if somehow his tear reflexes and his salivation reflexes are switched because he drools when he's upset and he cries when he eats.</strong>
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

<div>That would be my guess, too.  That's really weird.</div>

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Oh sarah, I'm sorry about all that mess. I think it's awesome that you love his daughter so much. They are lucky to have you.

tidetravel

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[QUOTE]I've said this here before, but I'll say it again.  <strong>My family own a Christmas tree farm.  I spent every winter of my childhood frolicking there.  It was awesome.</strong>
Posted by sarahmk5[/QUOTE]
Best. Thing. Ever.

jamiefour

Thats strange CEW.  Have you researched it at all.
BTW did you like that I told a poop secret?

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tell me something : Thank you! This is an awesome thread - everyone has such great interesting facts!
Posted by pixiedust84[/QUOTE]

I was just thinking this. What an awesome group of bitches we have here.

katiepoppy

CEW that is really interesting.