FFF

crfische

I think Heels brought it up from the flames most recently with a darn good 10 pager that was awesome.

mandysmear

The first FFF i remember Heels started and it was epic.  (I hate that word, but I couldn't think of a better word for it)  It was kick ass.  So awesome.

ohwhynot

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_feel-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6034d63d-6948-4c7e-ad79-20c8c98bdd72Post:2b61be18-4661-4b45-b5f9-78c3e4fd4403">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Oh please.  Thats just begging people to go "OMG SAY IT!! SAY IT!!"  If you actually didn't want to say it, you wouldnt have mentioned it at all. So out with it.  You clearly want to.
Posted by eastunder1[/QUOTE]

You're right -that was a very, very stupid thing for me to write.  As soon as I hit "submit" I realized that.  I wanted to go back and edit it out, but I got the feeling that was frowned upon here.  I flame myself for being so stupid. 

MeaghanandMichael

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_feel-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6034d63d-6948-4c7e-ad79-20c8c98bdd72Post:9c272ca1-8e65-495f-9b4c-8a71bd4a629d">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I don't think she is on right now so I feel bad flaming her but I seriously judged Roxy for being all cavalier about her FI being on that ridiculous diet that Sucrets posted about.  If my FI was eating 500 calories a day and injecting himself with some crazy hormone in attempt to lose 10 lbs for vacation we'd be having a SERIOUS conversation.
Posted by Kati0105[/QUOTE]

Yup. That scared me big time too Kati. Mike has never been a diet guy, but if he even mentioned doing something like this it would be a huge red flag for me (both about his heatlh and about our relationship).

alixzafiris

Introducing... for one day only...!

mandysmear

Psssh LA has nothing on Sascha and I in Vegas.

Kati0105

Oh, and I get to go to an LA GTG the next night.

Threadjack: did we finalize location and time yet?  I may be breaking my vow of sobriety for you ladies

SwedishChick2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_feel-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6034d63d-6948-4c7e-ad79-20c8c98bdd72Post:3bccf3d0-6318-4799-8017-9b351458f5b8">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Fine, peace out.  Keep hurting each other and hurting other people.  Don't worry, I'm just an internet robot, not a real human being you've made cry.  This is stupid for me to do over a message board full of people I don't know.  What's terrible is that when someone does get hurt and stops coming here because of it, it's even more fodder for people to laugh at.  It's kind of sad.
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]
Kiki - I know you're feeling bad, but in a couple weeks, it's going to be someone else getting slammed in FFF.  Really, don't let it get you down.  I know that little things like this can seem way worse than they are - especially when you're already feeling bad. 

sarabellam

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_feel-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6034d63d-6948-4c7e-ad79-20c8c98bdd72Post:d159ffe4-6c8e-477b-9d2a-b8179b24b616">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I am going to flame myself because I get to meet Smokey Bailey and Sascha in 20 days.  That's way too much awesomeness for Vegas to handle.
Posted by mandysmear[/QUOTE]

That's not flaming. That's bragging, bitch. I agree that it's too much for Vegas. We get that what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. But make sure you get pics all the same.

smokeybailey

I remember when FFF was when chicks would post things about themselves and not get flamed (like I had a cash bar) or something....

sarah0725

That's awesome, Alix.

JessAndTrav

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_feel-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6034d63d-6948-4c7e-ad79-20c8c98bdd72Post:8a8e8710-b2b9-4d2a-ac1d-44a7a688b928">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I remember when FFF was when chicks would post things about themselves and not get flamed (like I had a cash bar) or something....
Posted by smokeybailey[/QUOTE]

Me too. I guess technically you still could? I think it just evolved into this format of venting about people.

ivystar57

I realize I haven't been here on a regular basis, but *I* do adore Jill.  I guess I've missed the home decorating posts (which I would answer because I just bought a house and I'm in the same mindset) and I don't really see her as being negative.  I think she's blunt and I like it.

I flame fishy for not once putting me in her sig.  I'll go ahead and stick that in my super egotistical pipe and smoke it.  mmmmmmmmmm smoooooke.

beatlesgirl25

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_feel-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6034d63d-6948-4c7e-ad79-20c8c98bdd72Post:8a8e8710-b2b9-4d2a-ac1d-44a7a688b928">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I remember when FFF was when chicks would post things about themselves and not get flamed (like I had a cash bar) or something....
Posted by smokeybailey[/QUOTE]

That's funny, because it seems like now if you flame yourself you <em>get</em> flamed. Or maybe it's just for things like "I flame myself for not being around as much." I wasn't here for the origins of FFF, so IDK.

Alix, nicely done. *catcalls*

bbyckes

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_feel-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6034d63d-6948-4c7e-ad79-20c8c98bdd72Post:6cba553d-81c1-40df-be1f-01047c6feaf2">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Oh, and I get to go to an LA GTG the next night. Threadjack: did we finalize location and time yet?  I may be breaking my vow of sobriety for you ladies :)
Posted by Kati0105[/QUOTE]

I voted for Friday, Feb. 12th.  I thought we settled on Promenade around 7:30.  Yes?

RachNRich

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_feel-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6034d63d-6948-4c7e-ad79-20c8c98bdd72Post:69451d32-c8c4-408f-b34e-142dbd685372">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Yup. That scared me big time too Kati. Mike has never been a diet guy, but if he even mentioned doing something like this it would be a huge red flag for me (both about his heatlh and about our relationship).
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

<div>I understand red flags about his health, but why red flags about your relationship? </div><div>
</div><div>I cannot help but wondering if she ever expressed her concerns to him. If she did, and he ignored it---then, perhaps. But, if he just started a crazy diet for the sake of losing weight, my concern would go strait to his health...i.e. Does he understand how badly this can turn out? What it could do to his body? Is there some deeper underlying insecurities that are affecting him mentally? </div><div>
</div><div>Jumping to relationship "red-flags" happens often here---but, I can't help but wonder in a situation like this if the issue was more personal for him---like an addiction almost (which, to me anyways, is a mental illness....not something done intentionally to hurt someone).</div>

sarabellam

Wow, Alix, not to turn this into a puppies and rainbows thread, but Holy Mary mother of God, that is some shot there!

lpstl

I think everyone should post ass shots in their sigs, including east's bunny. Because, you know, if he stays dressed up like santa any longer the neighbors are going to start talking.

danieliza1127

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_feel-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6034d63d-6948-4c7e-ad79-20c8c98bdd72Post:8a8e8710-b2b9-4d2a-ac1d-44a7a688b928">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I remember when FFF was when chicks would post things about themselves and not get flamed (like I had a cash bar) or something....
Posted by smokeybailey[/QUOTE]

I know we've definitely had those types of threads, but I don't think they were ever FFF threads.  Always something like "what etiquette rules did you break?" or something and then everyone would list 'em.

mandysmear

Oh, I'll flame myself. 

I had a gap.  For selfish reasons.  So I could get lots of photos with my photographer.  But, gaps are the norm in my circle, so I doubt we had any complainers. 

baby green bird

Read the TR/Haiti/apology. posts, and my opinions of her have changed. She's an even bigger numb skull that I originally thought. And ps.

One more person dogs on Alix, and I'm getting my can of whoop ass out.

ivystar57

Alix has the badonkadonk.

alixzafiris

You know, it's a damn good thing I work from home... because taking that shot in an office would've been the height of hilarity.

RachNRich

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_feel-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6034d63d-6948-4c7e-ad79-20c8c98bdd72Post:ef172881-4a35-4fb3-866b-e5efeddf2d04">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I think everyone should post ass shots in their sigs, including east's bunny. Because, you know, if he stays dressed up like santa any longer the neighbors are going to start talking.
Posted by lpstl[/QUOTE]

<div>Will you post an ass shot too? <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-kiss.gif" border="0" alt="Kiss" title="Kiss" /></div>

MeaghanandMichael

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_feel-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6034d63d-6948-4c7e-ad79-20c8c98bdd72Post:87ff419a-831a-4504-8711-5c0c2ada25ff">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I understand red flags about his health, but why red flags about your relationship?  I cannot help but wondering if she ever expressed her concerns to him. If she did, and he ignored it---then, perhaps. But, if he just started a crazy diet for the sake of losing weight, my concern would go strait to his health...i.e. Does he understand how badly this can turn out? What it could do to his body? Is there some deeper underlying insecurities that are affecting him mentally?  Jumping to relationship "red-flags" happens often here---but, I<strong> can't help but wonder in a situation like this if the issue was more personal for him---like an addiction almost (which, to me anyways, is a mental illness....not something done intentionally to hurt someone).</strong>
Posted by RachNRich[/QUOTE]

This is exactly the type of thing I was getting at. I am not saying this was Roxy and T's case, but I know if Mike started doing something like that I would worry about him hiding an addiction, or serious self esteem issues from me. I would wonder about a body image disorder if he went to those lengths.... something along those lines.

ivystar57

i'm so glad I came here... Isn't something more interesting happening around here than TR, Kiki and brunches?

I concede that the Alix butt shot is great.

I need more entertainment than this, people.  And yes, I realize I'm not exactly bringing the funny these days.

KentuckyKate

LOL, thank you Alix.  You have a cute little butt!

Mrs_AF

Saltypeanut, was this recent or when you start posting? I think people were pretty hard on you when you first started posting, but you definitely let it brush off like a champ. I wouldn't understand why they would be flaming you again...

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_feel-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6034d63d-6948-4c7e-ad79-20c8c98bdd72Post:76a4c135-9014-4ac9-9842-2528a7178f49">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I voted for Friday, Feb. 12th.  I thought we settled on Promenade around 7:30.  Yes?
Posted by bbyckes[/QUOTE]

Yes, I think we just want to decide on a specific bar or restaurant. Unless we want to meet at Coffee Bean or something and then make a decision. Barney's Beanery? Benihana? The wine bar Kati mentioned? Work with me, people.

bbyckes

Mery, I'm up for whatever.  Just fill me in and I'll be there.