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Re: Scheduling

  • CellesCelles member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : I do understand that, but I think it's dumb.  What are we gonna do...get married, go back to work for a week, then take two weeks off???  Oh joy...sounds like a nice relaxing newly wed experience to me....*sarcasm*
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    That's exactly what we're doing, except we're planning one week for our honeymoon instead of two.  We have friends and family coming into town for the weekend of our wedding, so we decided to postpone our honeymoon in order to spend some time with them.  I can't take three weeks off in a row so I'll be working the week between our wedding and honeymoon and yes -- I <em>do</em> think it sounds like a "nice relaxing newlywed experience."

    You're pretty awful.
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  • opalsky007opalsky007 member
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    Just go on the honeymoon and skip the wedding then. You seem so bothered about this that it doesn't look like you'll be able to enjoy their wedding anyway.
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  • FutureMrsW9FutureMrsW9
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : What are you, 12?  Get the fuuck over yourself.  I'm sure she wasn't trying to sabotage your wedding by picking the date that she did.  ... You have choices - many of them don't even involve you acting like a spoiled child. 
    Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]

    1. Please refrain from the language...grow up and learn to "speak" like an adult.  Maybe you are the one who has some growing up to do.
    2. I never once said she was trying to sabotage my wedding.  I actually like the girl.  All I'm saying is that we considered them when planning our wedding, it would have been nice to have the same consdieration in return.
    3. Please do not post on my post or anymore - I've reported you for your vulgarity and rudeness.
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  • pinkpinotpinkpinot member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : Wedding /> Honeymoon.
    Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

    SHUT UP SALT.  It's <em>her</em> day and subsequent 2 weeks thereafter.  I bet she feels sorry for your husband.
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  • tidetraveltidetravel member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : 1. Please refrain from the language...grow up and learn to "speak" like an adult.  Maybe you are the one who has some growing up to do. 2. I never once said she was trying to sabotage my wedding.  I actually like the girl.  All I'm saying is that we considered them when planning our wedding, it would have been nice to have the same consdieration in return. 3. Please do not post on my post or anymore - I've reported you for your vulgarity and rudeness.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    Darn.  Guess I better get my AE ready.
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    Ooooohhhhhh Tide's been reported y'all!
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  • emilyinchileemilyinchile member
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    If you're getting married, you are presumably an adult, am I correct?

    Act like one. Adults understand that sometimes, you don't get your ideal choice. Make a decision as to what's most important to you - your HM being right away and a week long or their wedding - and act on it. But seriously grow up and stop complaining about the realization that the entire world does not, in fact, revolve around you.
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  • FutureMrsW9FutureMrsW9
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : I know you made your plans first, but it's not all about you. Posted by opalsky007[/QUOTE]

    No offense, because you seem to be one of the more ratioale people on this entire site, but it's my wedding it IS ABOUT ME.  It's the only time in my entire life that it gets to be just about me.
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  • salt78salt78 member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : 1. Please refrain from the language...grow up and learn to "speak" like an adult.  Maybe you are the one who has some growing up to do. 2. I never once said she was trying to sabotage my wedding.  I actually like the girl.  All I'm saying is that we considered them when planning our wedding, it would have been nice to have the same consdieration in return. 3. Please do not post on my post or anymore - I've reported you for your vulgarity and rudeness.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    <div>HA! </div>
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  • angiebear11angiebear11
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : Who said I'm getting worked up?  I'm simply stating what's happened and asking for opinions.  You all need to put yourselves in my shoes and understand where I'm coming from.  And it more than just being about a wedding.  If the tables were turned I would think, "oh J&M are getting married may 18th, we should plan ours far enough away from that so there's no conflicts with schedules and honeymoons..."  <strong>But again, I'm a considerate person who thinks things through and tries to make everyone as happy as possible.</strong>  I guess everyone is not as nice and thoughtful as I am.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    WHAT!? No you're not.  If you were, you wouldn't even have to think twice before just pushing back your honeymoon to make your friends happy.  But that's not what you did.  Instead you came on here expected a bunch of people to just validate your feelings.  Sorry that's not going to happen.
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  • tidetraveltidetravel member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : No offense, because you seem to be one of the more ratioale people on this entire site, but it's my wedding it IS ABOUT ME.  It's the only time in my entire life that it gets to be just about me.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    Sorry honey, it's ceases to be about JUST YOU (well, I presume your FI is somewhere in that mix too,) once you involve your friends and family.  But, go ahead with that attitude.  I'm sure it'll get you far. 
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  • FutureMrsW9FutureMrsW9
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : Wedding /> Honeymoon.
    Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

    WRONG!  The honeymoon is the most important part of the whole experience!
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  • salt78salt78 member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : No offense, because you seem to be one of the more ratioale people on this entire site, but it's my wedding it IS ABOUT ME.  It's the only time in my entire life that it gets to be just about me.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    <div>Is there a groom in all this?</div>
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  • opalsky007opalsky007 member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : No offense, because you seem to be one of the more ratioale people on this entire site, but it's my wedding it IS ABOUT ME.  It's the only time in my entire life that it gets to be just about me.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    Yes, your wedding day is about you and your husband to be. It does not give you claim to everyone else's schedules for an entire couple of weeks, though.

    Like I said, I understand the frustration, but there are so many other factors that you can't expect people to just drop everything for the two weeks after your wedding.
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  • CellesCelles member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : No offense, because you seem to be one of the more ratioale people on this entire site, but it's my wedding it IS ABOUT ME.  It's the only time in my entire life that it gets to be just about me.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    Where is your FI in all of this, then?  Doesn't it get to be at least a little, tiny bit about him, too?

    And setting that aside: How long does it have to be ALL ABOUT YOU?  When does it get to be ALL ABOUT HER?  Because hey -- she's getting married too! 
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  • salt78salt78 member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : WRONG!  The honeymoon is the most important part of the whole experience!
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    <div>Okay you must be fake because this is the most ridiculous thing I've ever read.</div>
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    (Does anyone still think this is real?)
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : No offense, because you seem to be one of the more ratioale people on this entire site, but it's my wedding it IS ABOUT ME.  It's the only time in my entire life that it gets to be just about me.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]
    ... and your fiance, no?  Or are you marrying yourself?
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  • opalsky007opalsky007 member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : WRONG!  The honeymoon is the most important part of the whole experience!
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    A vacation is more important than saying your vows to someone? Really?
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : WRONG!  The honeymoon is the most important part of the whole experience!
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    You place a vacation above the day you actually pledge to spend the rest of your life with the man you love? Priorities. Have them.
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  • tidetraveltidetravel member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : WRONG!  The honeymoon is the most important part of the whole experience!
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    Then why have a wedding at all?  Go to the JOP, and take a 3 week long sexfest - just the two of you.  Then you can be back in time for your friend's wedding. 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : WRONG!  The honeymoon is the most important part of the whole experience!
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    Oh dear. Just oh dear.

    I cannot believe you're serious in thinking you're the rational, polite, level-headed and mature one of the two of you because you're definitely coming off as a delusional, immature brat to be honest.

    The MARRIAGE is the most important part. Get a freaking clue.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : Darn.  Guess I better get my AE ready.
    Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]

    At least she didn't report you for not being a nice and thoughtful person like she is!<img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-wink.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" />
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : No offense, because you seem to be one of the more ratioale people on this entire site, but it's my wedding it IS ABOUT ME.  It's the only time in my entire life that it gets to be just about me.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    Ok and your wedding is one day, the 18th.  You can't expect all the days after that to be about you too. 
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    [QUOTE](Does anyone still think this is real?)
    Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]

    I feel sorry for her fiance.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : At least she didn't report you for not being a nice and thoughtful person like she is!
    Posted by DodgersBride[/QUOTE]

    There should be a selection in the reporting drop down menu for "stupidity."
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    ::pokes screen::

    I'm in your post, I'm in your post...  Neener, neener.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : No offense, because you seem to be one of the more ratioale people on this entire site, but it's my wedding it IS ABOUT ME.  It's the only time in my entire life that it gets to be just about me.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    Except when you die, perhaps.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : WRONG!  The honeymoon is the most important part of the whole experience!
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]
    No, actually the MARRIAGE is.<div>
    </div><div>The WEDDING DAY is what other people have to plan around... if they even care enough.  The weeks after do not belong to you, sorry.</div><div>
    </div><div>And y'know, there are people who don't even have or can't afford honeymoons.  Their weddings are still valid and happy and important, and their marriages still great.  There are honeymoons that have to change last minute.</div><div>
    </div><div>My own parents were supposed to honeymoon in Florida and started to drive down... and a hurricane hit Florida.  So they ended up in Cape May instead, and had a great honeymoon with terrific memories... and just because that happened to their plans by chance, they get to go for a weekend every year on their anniversary and do it all over again, which wouldn't be so easy if they tried it in Florida.  Happenstance gave them a better honeymoon.</div><div>
    </div><div>So.... yeah... lose the control freak attitude.</div>
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  • DodgersBrideDodgersBride member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : There should be a selection in the reporting drop down menu for "stupidity."
    Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]

    Can't we classify that as Other?
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