Scheduling

cengle

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[QUOTE]If I'm a "troll" you're all deamons...please get real lives and WAKE UP.  This was sooo useless....I should have listened to my friend who just got married and said all the "b*tches" on theknot are psycho.  Peace out...hope you all have happy marriages, and <strong>I feel bad for your husbands.</strong>
Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

Man, I always miss the good ones! *pout* Stupid work.
But we made it to the bolded!  Knew it was only a matter of time.

FutureMrsFezz

LD I think our cats are twins.


Sorry, carry on...

Birdie1483

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : You shouldn't.  My husband knew exactly how much of a bitch I was when he married me.  I won him over with the lack of a gag reflex.
Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]


FTW

emilyinchile

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[QUOTE]io think it is kind of lame that they'd do this knowing you were getting married the week before if they are really as close as you say you are. that said, decide what's more important.  their wedding or yoru honeymoon.  a honeymoon is just a vacation with your husband.  it can be done at any time.  their wedding happens only once. so really the ball is in your court.  miss their wedding and take your vacation, or take your vacation at a later date and go to teh wedding. <strong>maybe you arent even invited to their wedding.</strong>
Posted by Calypso1977[/QUOTE]

How great would that be?

waltzingmatilda13

Are we all psycho? I thought I was the only one.

tidetravel

Are you actually Mica001/Kat Eyes, too?

pinkpinot

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[QUOTE]Are we all psycho? I thought I was the only one.
Posted by waltzingmatilda13[/QUOTE]

No, I'm just nuts.

Habs2Hart

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[QUOTE]::pokes screen:: I'm in your post, I'm in your post...  Neener, neener.
Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]

HURRAAAAYYYYY!  This was awesome.

OP - Grow up . 

salt78

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : How great would that be?
Posted by emilyinchile[/QUOTE]

<div>If I knew her IRL, I wouldn't be inviting her bitchass anywhere. </div>

mica178

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[QUOTE]Are you actually Mica001/Kat Eyes, too?
Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]

Who?

Celles

Wasn't there a post a couple of days ago from someone who was asking if it was appropriate to schedule her wedding for the weekend before her FI's friend's wedding, since it was only one of two dates the entire summer that her venue has available -- and the other was the friend's date?  I think those were May dates as well.

emilyinchile

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : If I knew her IRL, I wouldn't be inviting her bitchass anywhere. 
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

Cause you're not nice and thoughtful like she is.

opalsky007

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[QUOTE]Are we all psycho? I thought I was the only one.
Posted by waltzingmatilda13[/QUOTE]

No, apparently I'm "raionale".

I think it means I'm an old wooden ship.

tidetravel

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : Who?
Posted by mica178[/QUOTE]

A crazy Mica that hung around SB.  She outed herself in a big to-do yesterday as an AE, called us all bitches; said she's been around for years and has other AEs out there. 

Beachy730

Damn work, I missed the whole thing! 

waltzingmatilda13

Well at least people still have some faith in us. Their friends tell them were all bitches and to avoid TK like the plague, but they still come ask us questions. We must be doing something right.

LD1970

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[QUOTE]LD I think our cats are twins. Sorry, carry on...
Posted by FutureMrsFezz[/QUOTE]
And both gorgeous!

garcias1

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[QUOTE]Wasn't there a post a couple of days ago from someone who was asking if it was appropriate to schedule her wedding for the weekend before her FI's friend's wedding, since it was only one of two dates the entire summer that her venue has available -- and the other was the friend's date?  I think those were May dates as well.
Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]

I was thinking that this might have been the case.  What if the other couple actually wanted this girl's date, but couldn't take it, therefore choosing the second date.  That would be a crappy situation, seeing as how the couple did make a concession for their friends only to be complained about here.

mica178

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : A crazy Mica that hung around SB.  She outed herself in a big to-do yesterday as an AE, called us all bitches; said she's been around for years and has other AEs out there. 
Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]

I always knew that girl was nuts.  Darn her for having a name so similar to mine.

Pirata13

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : I do understand that, but I think it's dumb.  What are we gonna do...get married, go back to work for a week, then take two weeks off???  Oh joy...sounds like a nice relaxing newly wed experience to me....*sarcasm*
Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

This is what we did. Except we went back to work for two weeks, then were off for a week for our honeymoon. Apparently, my newlywed life must suck because of this. *sarcasm*

Actually, H & I enjoyed our HM 20x more than we would have if we had gone straight after. We have recommended it to anyone who is getting married soon. H is actually the one who will go on about it forever, saying how much more fun we had because we weren't exhausted and had had some time to recuperate.

I don't think most people know how exhausted you'll be at the end of it all. We took some time to get rid of our old stuff and get some of the items we'd gotten as shower & wedding gifts washed and put away.  It was so nice to come back to a house that wasn't cluttered with boxes. Unless you have very inflexible vacation schedules (as some people do), seriously consider postponing 2 or 3 weeks. It will allow you to rest, get things done at home, attend your friend's wedding then before you know it, you will be on a plane. Quit acting like it's such a tragedy and that you HAVE to go on your HM right away or the wedding gods will strike you down ZOMG!!!!111!!!

mkrupar

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : No offense, because you seem to be one of the more ratioale people on this entire site, but it's my wedding it IS ABOUT ME.  It's the only time in my entire life that it gets to be just about me.
Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

This has got to be a troll! There's no way someone actually thinks like this!

Bubbalub

Well this was highly entertaining and just what I needed on a rainy Friday morning. Clearly a troll and came out with all the classics.

Tide, you are awesome. :P

FutureMrsW9

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[QUOTE]Well at least people still have some faith in us. Their friends tell them were all bitches and to avoid TK like the plague, but they still come ask us questions. We must be doing something right.
Posted by waltzingmatilda13[/QUOTE]

Yes, we keep coming back because we have a glimmer of hope and need a good laugh!  Thanks for keeping my afternoon hysterical ladies...you're all off your rockers. 

BeachMuffin

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : Actually, that's what a lot of people do, for various reasons, including having other family/friend commitments close to their wedding date.  I don't know what type of "newlywed" experience you're looking for, but unless you're a virgin, <strong>nothing really changes in your relationship, post wedding</strong>. If it's important to your FI to be there for his friends wedding, I suggest you figure out how to get that chip off your shoulder. 
Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]

that's a really sad statement. i hope you don't mean that. if that was the case, what's the point in getting married?? for tax purposes? how cynical...

waltzingmatilda13

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : <strong>Yes, we keep coming back because we have a glimmer of hope and need a good laugh!</strong>  Thanks for keeping my afternoon hysterical ladies...you're all off your rockers. 
Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

Oh believe me, we got a good laugh out of this, too.

Beachy730

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : Yes, we keep coming back because we have a glimmer of hope and need a good laugh!  Thanks for keeping my afternoon hysterical ladies...you're all off your rockers. 
Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

Right.  We're all of our rockers.  After you said the honeymoon is more important than the marriage.  Just making sure I'm clear on that.  If you seriously are somehow real, then I can not believe how dilusional you are.  My H and I got married in July and still haven't gone on a HM.  How dare the U.S. Navy plan his deployment without first checking with our wedding and honeymoon timeline!

FutureMrsW9

*God Bless all US military troops*...but you should have probably planned your wedding around that....

emilyinchile

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : that's a really sad statement. i hope you don't mean that. if that was the case, what's the point in getting married?? for tax purposes? how cynical...
Posted by BeachMuffin[/QUOTE]

You're not married yet, are you?

If you live together before marriage, most people function as a unit already - getting married for a lot of people gives a little extra feeling of family or of solidity of the relationship, but it's not like you wake up one morning engaged and then by the time you wake up the next morning married your entire relationship is somehow different. The point is different for everyone, but I'm guessing tax purposes don't rank too high up there. What about professing to each other and everyone you know that you feel like this is it, the relationship that lasts forever?

emilyinchile

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[QUOTE]*God Bless all US military troops*...but you should have probably planned your wedding around that....
Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

They did, dimwit. That's how they managed to get married before he got shipped out. You do realize the military doesn't usually give you a calendar of your deployment dates a year in advance, right?

waltzingmatilda13

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[QUOTE]*God Bless all US military troops*...but you should have probably planned your wedding around that....
Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

Cue ignorant bystander who has no idea how the military works but will judge it anyways.