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Re: Scheduling

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_scheduling?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ec1c4803-3d1b-4ca8-b68d-bdb7c3a988aaPost:0a03d05a-4635-48c1-946e-4f380ee526f6">Re: Scheduling</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : No offense, because you seem to be one of the more ratioale people on this entire site, but it's my wedding it IS ABOUT ME.  It's the only time in my entire life that it gets to be just about me.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    Besides the fact that it's not ALL ABOUT YOU (unless you marry yourself) you get ONE DAY. Once that day is over it's not your wedding anymore. You get the 18th, they get 26th. See how this works?
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : Except when you die, perhaps.
    Posted by Birdie1483[/QUOTE]

    <div>DED.</div>
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_scheduling?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ec1c4803-3d1b-4ca8-b68d-bdb7c3a988aaPost:eeb68e82-65c4-4981-ab7b-fed54052f292">Re: Scheduling</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : WRONG!  The honeymoon is the most important part of the whole experience!
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    Well all rational thought just flew out the window.
  • CellesCelles member
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    edited November 2010
    Okay, maybe this is real.

    Her post history is hilarious.  I'm clicking at random:

    On tanning for a winter wedding: As unhealthy as it really is, you CANNOT, i repeat CANNOT be pale in a white dress!  Do it a few times and then never again!  It'll be worth it for your special day for sure!!

    On regstries: And I totally agree with everyone who's saying it makes it easier to buy gifts.  You're buying the gift for ME, not you, so you might as well get me something that I actually want and will use!  I think it's so tacky when people stray from the registries (unless it's like lingeire from your mom or something like that).
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  • Yes, FI is more aggitated than I am with this whole "issue."

    I think you're all taking this way out of context.  Instead of answering my "what should I do" question, you've all turned into judgy witches!  You're all nuts!
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : WRONG!  The honeymoon is the most important part of the whole experience!
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    And the troll goes too far, ruining her credibility and ending her game.
  • And OF COURSE the HM is way more important than the actual wedding day itself.  It's the time you get to spend away completely alone with your new spouse.  You can say your vows anywhere.  The HM is when you get to let it settle in and have a chance to relax together.  The actual wedding day is about family and friends and celebrating.  I like vacations better and trust me FI agrees....
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    [QUOTE]Okay, maybe this is real. Her post history is hilarious.  I'm clicking at random: On tanning for a winter wedding: As unhealthy as it really is, you CANNOT, i repeat CANNOT be pale in a white dress!  Do it a few times and then never again!  It'll be worth it for your special day for sure!! On regstries:  And I totally agree with everyone who's saying it makes it easier to buy gifts.  You're buying the gift for ME, not you, so you might as well get me something that I actually want and will use!  I think it's so tacky when people stray from the registries (unless it's like lingeire from your mom or something like that).
    Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]
    That only proves that someone has put in a fair amount of effort to create a semi-believeable troll.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_scheduling?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ec1c4803-3d1b-4ca8-b68d-bdb7c3a988aaPost:0fee4431-1440-4078-a562-5b24b266667a">Re: Scheduling</a>:
    [QUOTE]Yes, FI is more aggitated than I am with this whole "issue." I think you're all taking this way out of context.  Instead of answering my <strong>"what should I do"</strong> question, you've all turned into judgy witches!  You're all nuts!
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    You should calm down and get over it.
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    [QUOTE]As unhealthy as it really is, you CANNOT, i repeat CANNOT be pale in a white dress!  
    Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]

    <div>THE QUEEN HAS SPOKEN!
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_scheduling?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ec1c4803-3d1b-4ca8-b68d-bdb7c3a988aaPost:0fee4431-1440-4078-a562-5b24b266667a">Re: Scheduling</a>:
    [QUOTE]Yes, FI is more aggitated than I am with this whole "issue." I think you're all taking this way out of context.  Instead of answering my "what should I do" question, you've all turned into judgy witches!  You're all nuts!
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]
    Everyone has told you exactly what to do:  GET OVER IT.<div>
    </div><div>Decide if you want to:</div><div>1.  Take a short honeymoon and be at their wedding, or</div><div>2.  Take a delayed honeymoon and be at their wedding, or</div><div>3.  Skip their wedding for your honeymoon.</div><div>
    </div><div>Those are your choices.  Only you can determine your priorities.</div>
    You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough. ~Mae West
  • Also, pretending this is real for a second, I find it funny that someone who is unmarried is telling people, many of whom are married, how the honeymoon and wedding work.

    It didn't fully settle in that I was married until a couple months later - does that mean I did it wrong?
  • You've been told what to do.  It's really not rocket science.  Either (1) postpone your precious honeymoon so your FI can attend his best friend's wedding or (2) carry on as planned and RSVP your regrets. 
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    [QUOTE]And OF COURSE the HM is way more important than the actual wedding day itself.  It's the time you get to spend away completely alone with your new spouse.  You can say your vows anywhere.  The HM is when you get to let it settle in and have a chance to relax together.  The actual wedding day is about family and friends and celebrating.  I like vacations better and trust me FI agrees....
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    <div>Just stop talking. You're a moron.</div>
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  • If I'm a "troll" you're all deamons...please get real lives and WAKE UP.  This was sooo useless....I should have listened to my friend who just got married and said all the "b*tches" on theknot are psycho.  Peace out...hope you all have happy marriages, and I feel bad for your husbands.
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    [QUOTE]And OF COURSE the HM is way more important than the actual wedding day itself.  It's the time you get to spend away completely alone with your new spouse.  You can say your vows anywhere.  The HM is when you get to let it settle in and have a chance to relax together.  The actual wedding day is about family and friends and celebrating.  I like vacations better and trust me FI agrees....
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]
    Honey, the wedding day is when you make a promise to spend your life with someone.<div>
    </div><div>Man, your focus is way off.</div>
    You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough. ~Mae West
  • Just to point out, if you read the OP you asked..."What are your thoughts??"
    not what should I do?  These are two very different questions.  I truly understand why at the moment you may be frustrated but instead of being so angry about what you can't control...focus on what you can.
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    [QUOTE]If I'm a "troll" you're all deamons...please get real lives and WAKE UP.  This was sooo useless....I should have listened to my friend who just got married and said all the "b*tches" on theknot are psycho.  Peace out...hope you all have happy marriages, and <strong>I feel bad for your husbands</strong>.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    <div>YESSSSSSSSS. *fist pump*</div>
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  • io think it is kind of lame that they'd do this knowing you were getting married the week before if they are really as close as you say you are.

    that said, decide what's more important.  their wedding or yoru honeymoon.  a honeymoon is just a vacation with your husband.  it can be done at any time.  their wedding happens only once.

    so really the ball is in your court.  miss their wedding and take your vacation, or take your vacation at a later date and go to teh wedding.

    maybe you arent even invited to their wedding.

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_scheduling?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ec1c4803-3d1b-4ca8-b68d-bdb7c3a988aaPost:49f82a50-0c7f-4e5c-a002-84b317a30d59">Re: Scheduling</a>:
    [QUOTE]If I'm a "troll" you're all deamons...please get real lives and WAKE UP.  This was sooo useless....I should have listened to my friend who just got married and said all the "b*tches" on theknot are psycho.  Peace out...hope you all have happy marriages, and I feel bad for your husbands.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    I was waiting for the "don't call me a troll, that's mean!" post as soon as I used the word. Learn internet slang or stay off the boards so your (fake) feelers don't get hurt.
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    [QUOTE]And OF COURSE the HM is way more important than the actual wedding day itself.  It's the time you get to spend away completely alone with your new spouse.  You can say your vows anywhere.  The HM is when you get to let it settle in and have a chance to relax together.  The actual wedding day is about family and friends and celebrating.  I like vacations better and trust me FI agrees....
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    So relaxing on a vacation together is more important that actually exchanging your vows to become husband and wife? Pleading in front of your family and friends to be faithful to each other for all time? Declaring to the world that you are so completely in love that you can't imagine life without this other person?  Glad we cleared that up.
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    [QUOTE]If I'm a "troll" you're all deamons...please get real lives and WAKE UP.  This was sooo useless....I should have listened to my friend who just got married and said all the "b*tches" on theknot are psycho.  Peace out...hope you all have happy marriages, and I feel bad for your husbands.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    Have an awesome honeymoon!
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  • DodgersBrideDodgersBride member
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    edited November 2010
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_scheduling?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ec1c4803-3d1b-4ca8-b68d-bdb7c3a988aaPost:97848f74-d155-45f2-b1a7-de99f4d84ea2">Re: Scheduling</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : That only proves that someone has put in a fair amount of effort to create a semi-believeable troll.
    Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]

    All that is left is the :

    What is an AE?! question and the I am totally real I don't know why you all think I am fake! I feel bad for your Hs.


    ETA: Too late
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    [QUOTE]If I'm a "troll" you're all deamons...please get real lives and WAKE UP.  This was sooo useless....I should have listened to my friend who just got married and said all the "b*tches" on theknot are psycho.  Peace out...hope you all have happy marriages, and <strong>I feel bad for your husbands</strong>.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    You shouldn't.  My husband knew exactly how much of a bitch I was when he married me.  I won him over with the lack of a gag reflex.
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    [QUOTE]If the boys weren't so close it wouldn't be an issue.  And I'm not selfish SHE is!  As I said, I'm very very considerate to other people and would NEVER have done that to her.  Some people just don't take 5 minutes to think things through.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    Well ok then!
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  • That's true, Tide.  The "feel sorry for your husbands" tipped me back to AE. 
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    [QUOTE]If I'm a "troll" you're all deamons...please get real lives and WAKE UP.  This was sooo useless....I should have listened to my friend who just got married and said all the "b*tches" on theknot are psycho.  Peace out...hope you all have happy marriages, and I feel bad for your husbands.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    Awesome.  Thanks for the best wishes!
  • Thank you, come again.
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    [QUOTE]If I'm a "troll" you're all deamons...please get real lives and WAKE UP.  This was sooo useless....I should have listened to my friend who just got married and said all the "b*tches" on theknot are psycho.  Peace out...hope you all have happy marriages, and I feel bad for your husbands.
    Posted by FutureMrsW9[/QUOTE]

    Meltdown, aisle two.

    The honeymoon is more important than the wedding!  The wedding is just about ONE PERSON!!!  FORGET THAT STUPID GROOM!  And Tide is a total beyotch.  I learned so much in here.  SO MUCH.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Scheduling : You shouldn't.  My husband knew exactly how much of a bitch I was when he married me.  <strong>I won him over with the lack of a gag reflex.
    </strong>Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]

    I <3 you, Tide
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