boring Friday night...

andy71781

no way really?  I was kind of digging stella.  Shoegirl put her foot in her mouth sooo many times.

dnb that sounds horrible.  are you close with his dad?  it must be so hard with H not there to run interference.

kellyjellybelly

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: boring Friday night... : We may rent our house out and move rather than sell it and take the loss right now- but I don't think we can cover the whole mortgage with what we can reasonably charge for rent in that neighborhood.  I need to check it out though.
Posted by Loopyseven[/QUOTE]
This is what we want to do, we just need to pay off a shitton of cc debt before we're financially able to do it.  

laurenclaire1386

Wait, Shoegal=Stella? ::whispers:: I'm so lost.

kellyjellybelly

well....

1.  stella appeared right when shoegal disappeared.

2.  shoegal has admitted in the past that she made a new screenname cuz people were being mean to her

3.  she mentioned in FFF today that she is in law school, shoegal was in law school

4.  dnb is always right

ETA:

5.  stella is constantly posting rambling WR questions, a la shoegal.

DNB help me out here...

Ciaram22

I'm sorry dnb I would be in a rage also. Actually my MIL actually sent me into a rage Wednesday night and my mom and grandma sent me into a rage on Monday night.

andy71781

but stella seems to be a much more mellow version of shoegal.  I mean remember this thread?

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_this-much?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:41ba6962-5814-44c3-9edb-70808d6c2bc6Post:03030d29-28dd-46ff-82bb-91dc7b681dcf

laurenclaire1386

Huh. I'm pretty glad Shoegal disappeared. She was an extremely obnoxious know it all. I didn't mind her posting every two seconds about made up wedding crises, but she could be pretty smug and she didn't have shiit to be smug about.

andy71781

I think that "shoegal" has to be one of the dumbest names ever.  It made me want to throw a shoe at her everytime she posted.

kellyjellybelly

andy - 

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2011-weddings_just-really-mean-etiquette-boardand-dont-care-lol

Loopyseven

I saw you tell that to KJB and I thought you might be right... but we'll see.

My MIL is a little overbearing too.  H did not have a happy childhood, abusive father, etc.  Now that they're divorced (H moved out at 18, they divorced when he was 24 I think) his mom tries to pretend we are all one big happy family, wants to have weekly dinners, etc.  He just doesn't want to spend that much time with her, and she just keeps pushing to maintain this "happy family" image that she wants to portray, but H doesn't buy it since that wasn't his childhood and it feels like an act to him.  

kellyjellybelly

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[QUOTE]I think that "shoegal" has to be one of the dumbest names ever.  It made me want to throw a shoe at her everytime she posted.
Posted by andy71781[/QUOTE]
i'm guessing she got that from sex and the city?  it's was carries email address when she emailed aiden.<div>yeah, i know, i'm a loser.</div>

Beachy730

KJB I sent you a FB message too.  So you don't feel left out!

Ciaram22

That all sounds like how my sister and I were raised. Most of the time I don't want to know what my life would be like if my mother had raised my sister and I. My mother moved apartments evey year or two, was married to an evil emotionally abusive man and worked crappy hours at either a nursing home or at a gas station. I moved in with my grandparents when I was 6 months old and didn't move out until I was 20. We spent about 1 weekend a month at my moms and even then there were weekends that she would remember to ask off so she would end up working for half of our visit.

Beachy730

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: boring Friday night... : H says the same thing about his grandparents. I used to gripe at H about not talking to his mom (I talk to mine every day, I just thought it was kind of mean to ignore his mom) and he finally told me "Look, she hasn't been a mom to me for 25 years and I don't know why she picked now as a good time to start, so I don't feel the slightest bit guilty for ignoring her calls and communicating with her on my own terms." I didn't realize until then exactly how their relationship was, but apparently her calling him with any kind of frequency is a new thing.
Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]

OMG, are they brothers?  Haha he does the same thing.  When we first started dating I was getting really mad that I never met his mom.  He kept telling me that he didn't want me to meet her for a while.  So I got pissed thinking it was because he didn't think it was serious enough, or that I wasn't good enough to meet her.  He let me meet his grandparents before, but not her.  So of course since i was made I wouldn't let it go and I asked "are you worried about her not liking me or something?"  He said "the only people I care about if they like you is my grandparents and my friends, and they all love you.  Her opinion makes no difference to me."  So yeah, I think we might be married to brothers!

andy71781

what's that kjb?  you have a new facebook message?  OMG!

Loopyseven

I want FB messages - oh wait but I can't access it at work so it doesn't matter anyway LOL!

doctabroccoli

Loopy -
Just saw your PM response (sorry, I think you had just ducked out when I did a callout for you).  So yeah, feel free to come stalk me at church, hahahahaha.  It should be pretty obvious who I am given there's only two of us in the choir that are "young".  And Jesuit high schools are the best kind of boys schools!

And about the whole May '11 thing.....  I couldn't believe we picked another fight with them.  Two fights with E, one with SB.  Seriously.  I'm only one day away from being a May '11 knottie.  I'm much happier over on April.  They don't always have the right idea, but at least they're not BSC!

kellyjellybelly

back atcha bitches

andy71781

that may2011 thread is priceless.  total e invasion.

Loopyseven

I avoid the May11 stuff.  I try to stay out of the drama entirely as much as possible.  I have enough BSC in my life without internet drama .

Veggie - I was scrolling back to find the Kiki link for LC when I saw the page.  I missed it entirely, it's been a crazy few days.

kellyjellybelly

docta - i'm guessing you mean they picked a fight with us?  there is another chick that tried to do it right now.  they secretly want to be us.  

Beachy730

Yeah that was really funny.  I haven't posted on that board, but I hate how some of them post here and then run there like we can't go read them.  Then when we find that thread, they run to their FB chat group.  I think the best was during the last one and they all kept saying "this board is for May 11 brides only," and one of their own said "umm, ms.jess isn't a May 11 bride so you're a liar."  That, and how many of their own call them immature and childish for this crap.

doctabroccoli

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[QUOTE]docta - i'm guessing you mean they picked a fight with us?  there is another chick that tried to do it right now.  they secretly want to be us.  
Posted by kellyjellybelly[/QUOTE]

Oh, yeah.  It's late on a Friday.  My brain is mush, lol.  That is what I meant.

And Loopy - no worries.  It's not like it was OMG you must read this now!!!!!  I figured you'd see it eventually.

Beachy730

Which one is going on right now KJB?

Loopyseven

I have to go see if my 10:30 people are here and started for the night.. back soon.

kellyjellybelly

uhh.. the one that says she's afraid of the e board.  i was super nice ot her actually.  

andy71781

some virgin talking about how the e board is mean and that she wants to wear ivory but wants people to know that she waited.

Beachy730

I went and found it after.  I

kellyjellybelly

i wanted to tell her the chastity belt would give it away, but i thought that was too mean for a club board.  

mica178

Arent' there rules about dying your hair when you're pregnant?  Or is my medical memory failing me?