Hey , I'm so sorry you r going thru this. Not seeing you on mother's day bc mother in law more important. Nonsense . Sounds like the gf is a chip off old block of mom. Sounds like sons gf is a well....brat. idk best advice other than talk to your soon about how you'd like to be with him more , or make plans to take walks, lunches , etc things that don't break the bank. Invite son and gf or if gf doesn't come just son. Start to do all you can to make effort to be with son away from this so he can make sure it's what he wants . You are his mother , you deserve to be held high
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Screen Name: Venus909
Age: 33
Significant Other's Age:35
What You Do: Tech Support Manager
What SO Does: Network Manager
State of Relationship: Soon to be Engaged (he has the ring...just waiting till he pops the question)
How Long You've Been Together: We have have been friends for 12 years, officially dating 6 months
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged): we have talked about a september 2012 destination wedding
When You Got Married (if you're married):
Fur Babies: No Fur Babies... but I have 3 "babies"
Favorite Color: Purple
Favorite Thing About Your SO: His patience and kind temper.
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: Sometimes everything tends to be a "joke"...
Hobbies/Activities: Photography and scrapbooking
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: Hmmm... talking about myself is harder than I though...lol.. I'm a 33 year old mom of 3, (15, 9 and 4) I was married before for 7 years. as my kids at getting older I am trying to enjoy life...maybe a little backwards, but I wouldn't change it for the world...
The day I married my best friend!
Age: 29
Significant Other's Age: 31
What You Do: Office Manager for a gym franchise in Philly by day, lead singer of a cover band by night, and in the process of starting my own Day of Event Coordinator business (anyone in Philly need a cheap DOC? Hee hee)
What SO Does: He's a senior level software architech (computer geek
State of Relationship: Not yet engaged, but hopefully this summer!
How Long You've Been Together: 4.5 years
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged): Hopefully June of next year!
When You Got Married (if you're married): N/A
Fur Babies: A 2.5 year old white and buff bichon/cavalier mix named Ezra, and a 1.5 year old black bichon/toy poodle mix named Nero
Favorite Color: Purple!
Favorite Thing About Your SO: His ability to always make me laugh, and always treat me with respect. He also gets me flowers for no reason which is awesome
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: He can get very addicted to online gaming and sometimes it drives me up the wall! I'll be downstairs and all the sudden I'll hear him yelling at the people he's playing with online.
Hobbies/Activities: I LOVE to sing. I also play softball, and I like to read chick lit novels. I'm getting more into gardening now that we have a house, and I love taking my pups on walks - they get so happy when we're outside!
Describe Your Personality: I'm pretty chill and down to earth. I'm from MN so I have that "Minnesota nice" thing going for me, but I'm also very independent and have no problem speaking my mind to pretty much anyone.
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): Eh, I'm probably a 1 or 2 most days, but there are def days it can get up into the 6 or 7 range, heh.
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: I moved to Philadelphia from Minnesota on a whim almost 6 years ago. I wasn't planning to stay here more than 3 years before moving someplace else (I had 4 other cities on my list that I wanted to experience), but then I met my SO.
Planning Bio! Updated 05.02.12
Screen Name: I believe it's singing_lyn, I can't remember, lol, I've had an account set up for years because I've always liked being able to look at the wedding stuff on this site.
Age: I'm currently 28, will be 29 in May.
Significant Other's Age: My SO is 28 as well, 6 months younger than me.
What You Do: I'm working for a lady as an assistant, and listing items on ebay for her right now, but she's opening an ebay drop off store soon and I'll be the one working it and managing it.
What SO Does: My SO does insulation instalation and with that minor construction type work.
State of Relationship: Living together.
How Long You've Been Together: We've been together only 8 months this month, but got very serious very quickly.
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged): Not yet engaged, but I know that he has a ring and is just waiting for the right time. But hopefully we'll get married some time next summer, possibly July 14th or August 4th.
Fur Babies: 2 small fur babies, dwarf hamsters named Biggie and Smalls. LOL. SO came up with the names, but they make me laugh.
Favorite Color: My favorite color is Purple, and SO's is blue.
Favorite Thing About Your SO: He can make me laugh at any time, and he loves to just randomly sing whatever comes in to his head, and he's the life of the party, people love having him around.
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: He's not that good with finances.
Hobbies/Activities: I'm a huge reader, and we love mini-golf, watching movies, and painting (although we don't paint often).
Describe Your Personality: I'm quiet, and shy until people get to know me, most of the time. But I can go out and have a good time, and be loud and obnoxious. LOL. I'm a complete home-body and like just being at home with me and my SO.
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): I probably am a 1 (low snark). I don't like being made fun of or making fun of people, or a lot of sarcism.
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: I can't think of anything very interesting about myself right now.
Well there's me for now.
Age: 24
Significant Other's Age: 25
What You Do: Birth Doula
What SO Does: Music Education and Composing Major/Geek Squad Agent
State of Relationship: Long distance, I have a business and family priorities and he's about 2 1/2 hours away finishing school.
How Long You've Been Together: about a year and a half
Age: 23
Significant Other's Age: 28
What You Do: Student (Early Childhood Education Major)
What SO Does: Help Desk Operator for the State Office of Mental Health Computer Network
State of Relationship: Long Distance Dating
How Long You've Been Together: Almost 4 years
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged): N/A
When You Got Married (if you're married): N/A
Fur Babies: A Beagle named Gambit
Favorite Color: Red
Favorite Thing About Your SO: His sense of humor
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: His geographical location (about 100 miles away)
Hobbies/Activities: Reading, writing, exercising
Describe Your Personality: I can be pretty quiet, but opinionated
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]) 7
Significant Other's Age: 21
What You Do: Sales... Going back to school, hopefully, for music and music education.
What SO Does: He works on a Trucking Dock!
State of Relationship: Dating... Going strong!!!
How Long You've Been Together: Just past 2 years
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged): N/A
When You Got Married (if you're married): N/A
Favorite Color: Blue
Favorite Thing About Your SO: He is HILARIOUS... He is always making me laugh.
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: UGH...If I ask him to do something, he will not do it. He will just wait until I get fed up with it and do it myself...lol
Describe Your Personality: I am always HAPPY-GO-LUCKY. (that's what my mom says) But I am usually super Happy and smiling.
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): HMMM... Good question I think that I am like a 4 1/2... (I always do that whole half thing...lol) No is all seriousness, I think I am pretty good at keeping my cool!
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: I am a HUGE HUGE Disney FAN!!! I used to be a Disney cast member and I love everything about it. I love the story telling and the music...AMAZING. If you name a movie I could pretty much tell you the story line and sing the songs in it...lol
Screen Name: padunkers
Age: 24
Significant Other's Age: 29
What You Do: Jobwise: I am an assistant to two Christian authors and their ministry . Right now I do book sales but handle a lot of their website, and trouble shooting that changes from day to day. Specially when they need to prepare for publishing books!
What BF Does: Right now, He works as a cnc lathe machinist at a local .( Basically takes huge chunks of metal, puts it into a machine that carves custom machine parts from it.)
State of Relationship: Almost Engaged
How Long You've Been Together: 4 years (April 2007)
Favorite Color: Metallic Red, Silver, & Purple
Favorite Thing About Your BF: As cliche as this may sound. He is not like other guys I've known before. Very gentle, caring, clear headed and tender hearted. He's a foot taller than me so I see him as a sweethearted gentle giant. He's smart, creative, and handy in so many areas. His personality compliments so much to mine, he's funny and I love to laugh!
Least Favorite Thing About Your BF: He's usually right about everything! Haha!
Hobbies/Activities: Drawing, Painting, Sewing, Sculpting. (Basically anything creative under the sun!) Photography, Hiking, Swimming (at the beach!), Collecting soil/dirt for different countries. (Currently having, Ireland and Phillippines)
Describe Your Personality: I have been told I am quite peaceful and sweet spirited. I see myself as a little bit spunky when needed. Sassy when suited, and caring, generous and helpful when I can be. Little shy at first with little plicks of boldness every once in a while.
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): Snarky? Unless provoked I would even put myself on the scale.
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: In 2010 I made the great effort to losing weight and lost 80-90lbs. Pushing for that 100lbs in 2011! I'm also half-colombian - half-euro buffett, little bit of everything! Haha.
alanacatherine--my first and middle names. cre8ive!
Age:
23.
Significant Other's Age:
32.
What You Do:
Pre-Law student/Barista extraordinaire
What SO Does:
Social worker (counselor at group home for teens), Psych Student.
State of Relationship:
Cohabitating--bf mentioned being married by year after next and I figured it was time to come here.
How Long You've Been Together:
2 years.
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged):
Sometime in 2013, I imagine.
When You Got Married (if you're married):
Fur Babies:
None yet! This summer we plan on rescuing a dog.
Favorite Color:
Who cares?
Favorite Thing About Your SO:
Incredibly intelligent, so much fun to be around, and always reminds me to stand up for myself! Apparently west-coasters (particularly Seattle-ites) are too passive.
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO:
HE GETS AWAY WITH EVERYTHING HE ASKS ME NOT TO DO. Dude always leaves his drawers open after retrieving clothes from them.
Hobbies/Activities:
Reading, live-music watching, latte art, blog-reading, law school researching.
Describe Your Personality:
Confident, well spoken, and compact meets part-time defeatist. Will often sing sentences, will try not to correct your grammar, ambitious, motivated.
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]):
5-6. Passive, remember?
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself:
I am procrastinating on getting my ass up and walking to school in the RAIN (AGAIN) and instead performing tasks I am only mildly interested in. STORY OF MY LIFE.
Age: 29
Significant Other's Age: 30 (31 in a couple weeks! bday present anxiety!
What You Do: sales rep for premium, natural pet food and treat company
What SO Does: insurance claims manager
State of Relationship: living together
How Long You've Been Together: 1 year
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged):
When You Got Married (if you're married):
Fur Babies: Gus (corgi/border collie mix?) and Zoe (boxer/greyhound/german shepherd mix)
Favorite Color: i change my mind on this a lot. right this second, fuscia
Favorite Thing About Your SO: he is the most supportive, caring, loving person I know. And he can always make me laugh, even when it irritates me to do so.
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: he is insanely obsessed with sports, and a loss for the Georgia Bulldogs can seriously ruin his entire day
Hobbies/Activities: photography (just getting started!), travel, cooking, reading, playing with my dogs, volunteering, drinking wine with the girls
Describe Your Personality: I'm a pretty social person, and can be anything from silly and goofy to seroius and thoughtful depending on my mood. I love to laugh and enjoy making other people laugh too! I can be a *littttttle* bossy and sometimes need people to give me a reality check. That's part of the reason I'm here, right? lol
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): hmmm. 5. or 10 depending on my mood.
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself : A quote from my college application essay was published in one of those chicken soup for the soul books, and recently I googled it and found it in a bunch of places on the internet too, like facebook statuses and stuff. The quote is really cheezy, by the way.
Screen Name:
kristan1022
23
23
Full-time grad student. Finished undergrad May 2010, on track to finish my masters in Library Science in December 2011
What SO Does:
Jeremy is currently full-time undergrad, graduating next month (YAY!!) with his BBA in Accounting. Currently working part-time as a sort of accountant-apprentice, but looking for full-time once he graduates!
State of Relationship:
We've been talking about getting married ever since I left to study abroad our sophomore year of undergrad (6 months in!) We're currently "long" distance. 2 hours isn't that far, but between work and school and continuously rising gas prices, we see each other maybe twice a month. For the past year he's been saying he doesn't want to get engaged til after he graduates, so we'll see what happens after next month
How Long You've Been Together:
3 years, 7 months
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged):
Not engaged yet but I think it would be nice to get married on our 5 yr dating anniversary (8/18/12)
Favorite Color:
Turquoise/Brown
Favorite Thing About Your SO:
How level-headed he is in every situation, especially in comparison to my frequent over-reacting and negativity.
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO:
How he takes an ETERNITY to make a decision, or just doesn't make one at all. "I don't care, what do you want to do?" UGH!
Hobbies/Activities:
Scrapbooking, reading, going to concerts, roadtrips (especially to New Braunfels to float the river!).
Describe Your Personality:
Generally very friendly, kind of shy at first in person. I get very overexcited about things and try to anticipate things farther in advance than I should.
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]):
I live at about a 7... naturally extremely sarcastic, and luckily so is SO. Usually it is all in good fun... if I'm upset I get it out there, no sugar-coating.
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself:
I'm currently in the process of trying to lose nearly half of my body weight... I don't know if that is interesting to y'all, but it's a fun journey so far!
Age: 18... but I'll be 20 by our wedding day
Significant Other's Age: 20
What You Do: Undergrad Student going for a BA in psychology
What SO Does: Sales consultant (cars) and infantry National Guard
State of Relationship: Living together, planning wedding, not yet engaged
How Long You've Been Together: 1.5 years, but we have been good friends for about 5
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged): not engaged
Fur Babies: Wish we had a dog
Favorite Color: Green and Blue (also our wedding colors)
Favorite Thing About Your SO: He motivates me
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: He likes to put stuff away 'for later' too much
Hobbies/Activities: I love to write poetry and read.
Describe Your Personality: Hmm, I'm quiet around strangers but I talk to much of you know me well. I like to be very helpful and I love to give and i'm usually very patient. I don't ask for much (Bf thinks its weird), I'm pretty simple and don't like to overdo things. I'm good at handling delayed gratification. I can be impulsive or spontaneous at unusual times. I love to laugh and I love to wrestle. I'm very insecure about myself but I try not to be. I like to think about things before I say/write them, except when I'm upset or defending a belief, I can get mean.
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): I'd say 2 I don't like to be mean, but I can be.
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: I graduated from both high school and community college (just a certificate) at he same time, I was valedictorian in my 45 senior class and I still dont drive...
Age:25
Significant Other's Age:26
What You Do:Work at Subway, going back to school for office technology
What SO Does:Manager of a Barbeque resturant and also in school for Network administration
State of Relationship:Incredibly strong
How Long You've Been Together: 1 year 5 months
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged):May 12, 2012
When You Got Married (if you're married):
Fur Babies:Sadly none right now but I do plan on getting a cat when we get married
Favorite Color:Blue
Favorite Thing About Your SO:The fact that he can read my mind almost word for word...it's amazing...he knows me that well!
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: He tends to tell stories over and over to people and he's a bit theatrical
Hobbies/Activities: reading, writing, playing sports and watching movies
Describe Your Personality:I'm a little shy but I warm up to people quickly...I'm quiet unless I know you and I try to do good in everything i do
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): I would say 1...2 every now and then and rarely it goes higher
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself I recently found out I have russian heritage so me and my SO are learning the russian language
Age:23
Significant Other's Age: 24
What You Do: I'm finishing my BS in advertising and pr and I am an office manager
for a commercial realestate company
What SO Does: a lot lol... Full time teller, Umpire for baseball and ticket sales rep
State of Relationship: Seriously committed, ring bought but not on finger YET
How Long You've Been Together: Official 11months (when you know, you know!)
Fur Babies: a yorkie poo named tinkerbell (he is slightly obsessed despite his hard body building exterior lol)
Favorite Color: Pink
Favorite Thing About Your SO: How easy it is to be in love with him and how happy life is together
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: Weird mouth noises
Hobbies/Activities: I love shopping for deals, reading, being outside, crazy nights out and quiet nights in. (the last one is all i've really had time to do lately, hoping the outside thing will become more frequent with nicer weather!)
Describe Your Personality: energetic, optimistic, loving, a little anxious, and I get loud when I am not getting the attention I crave ( a little like my dog lol)
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): 2-3 if its romantic, 9-10 if its not
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself:
I was engaged once before and ended terribly, he was not a very nice guy and we were completely wrong for each other... So happy to have found the amazing man I am with now!
Age: 25
What You Do: Part time marketing, part time high school sailing coach
What SO Does: Grad student
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged): Could be any where from 1-4 years?
When You Got Married (if you're married): n/a
Fur Babies: None of our own, but we rent a house on a farm with sheep, cows, chickens, and a goat!
Favorite Color: Blue, but I've been on a purple kick lately.
Favorite Thing About Your SO: He is adventerous, kind, funny, and so sweet to me!
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: He is always worried my mom is judging him
Hobbies/Activities: Sailing, beach walking, swing dancing, hiking, any kind of art
Age: 28
Significant Other's Age: 26
What You Do: Data Services Specialist for a Web Management company
What SO Does: Technician at an automatic transmission shop
State of Relationship: Not engaged just yet, but planning for it. Moving in together soon.
How Long You've Been Together: 8 months (since 8/17/10)
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged): We've got a tentative date of August 18th 2012.
When You Got Married (if you're married):
Fur Babies: My daughter has a black bear hamster named Big Fatty Daddy... my SO has 3 cats at his parents' house.
Favorite Color: Pink
Favorite Thing About Your SO: His sense of humor and how he TOTALLY gets me.
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: He smokes cigarettes, and he still drinks beer fairly often, which I don't like either habit. But certainly not the worst things to deal with.
Hobbies/Activities: Web Design, video games, going for walks, spending time with our daughter...
Describe Your Personality: I'm in the process of discovering what happened to my personality LOL. I used to be really outgoing and stuff and now I'm more of a homebody and I find myself not wanting to be center of attention anymore... I think it's cause I'm getting old haha. But in general I have a really messed up sense of humor, I'm pretty vulgar, I love joking around with people and just having fun. I'm a very cheerful person 99% of the time, and I love making people smile and laugh. I try to brighten everyone's day
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): I'd say a 2-3, I'm pretty hard to piss off, but if you do, be warned because it can jump to a 10 rather quickly if you light the fuse (which is pretty hard to find usually)
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: Hmm.. I have OCD and Trichotillomania (eyelash pulling) I'm working on overcoming both, I am almost there with the Trich. I have a 5 year old daughter, my SO is not her biological father, but he's the only daddy she's really had. He's wonderful to her and she ADORES him. He treats her as his own and I'm very blessed.
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Student/Mutual teller
Student/Pest control
Not engaged yet but we've been talking
3 years on May 21st
When we are ready!
2 dogs (Roxy and Niles), a cat (Minou), and a crazy bird (Rascal).
Blue.
He's so giving and compassionate, not to mention he makes me laugh
He doesn't realize people use him
Cooking, I am a food network fanatic!
Outgoing but still to myself.
Like a 5 lol
Screen Name: I'mJacksPGBelly
Age: 27
Significant Other's Age: 35
What You Do: Sales
What SO Does: IT Implementation Consulting
State of Relationship: No ring yet, but he's asked, and I've said yes.. Most likely will be official-with-a-ring by end of year.
How Long You've Been Together: Since October 2009
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged): We're planning for sometime next summer.. maybe June, most likely to be a small destination wedding.
Fur Babies: None.. he's allergic to most. :P
Favorite Color: Green
Favorite Thing About Your SO: How he makes me laugh every day, and how communicative he is, so that we can work together through anything
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: He gets stressed when he feels like things aren't going according to plan. I'm more of a go-with-the-flow sort, so this gets interesting at times.
Hobbies/Activities: Tennis, dancing, reading, video/computer games, bike rides, getting sushi, activities with our kids (his daughter, my son)
Describe Your Personality: I am very opinionated, but I am very open to new ideas. I just want to hear some solid logic behind an argument, and you might just change my mind. I tend to be a "nurturer" and to root for the under-dog. But I do enjoy a good dose of sarcasm, I love to laugh, and tend to find some kind of humor or innuendo in just about anything.
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): Probably 3-5. I tend to be more cordial than not in replies.. I don't default to being sarcastic. BUT, because I default to being cordial, if someone comes after me with snark without good cause, I don't really have a problem unleashing on them.
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself:
I'm a dreamer. I relate very, very well to the John Lennon song "Imagine."
I am non-religious, but I am very spiritual. I follow something similar to Buddhist philosophy, and it is very important to me in the way I live my life, and how I expect people to treat each other.
In the aftermath of a really messy divorce from a very emotionally abusive relationship, I have become quite feminist. Fighting the current system which skews towards male dominance and female dependence, and changing what women are taught to expect for themselves has become a passion of mine.
I write. My interest has always been writing fantasy fiction (I'm working on a few pieces right now), but will most likely begin working on a non-fiction about women in abusive relationships, and how to get women to start demanding more for themselves.
Screen Name: csousa1 - not my last name, don't worry!
Age: 26
Significant Other's Age: 27
What You Do: Inside Sales Associate at a computer resale company in MA
What SO Does: Works at construction company out of Boston
State of Relationship: just passed our 2 year anniversary, have been living together for a year and 4ish months
How Long You've Been Together: 2 years
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged): NEY, if it happens soon then probably next year - if not, who knows!
When You Got Married (if you're married):
Fur Babies:
Kali - very hyper chocolate lab, she is GORGEOUS because she is very sleek and not at all barrel chested
and these are not ours but my sis and FBIL are living with us, so they are adopted furbabies -
Oreo - 6 lb black and white kitty with a fierce temper who likes to chirp - yes chirp - at birdies
Smokey - 17 lb grey and white kitty who likes to snuggle and eat and is addicted to licking and rolling around on plastic grocery bags
Favorite Color: pink
Favorite Thing About Your SO: he is fiercely loyal and protective of those he loves
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: he's a bit too much of a home-body, and can cut people out of his life (friends) just a tad too easily
Hobbies/Activities: reading and cooking - I LOOVE cooking
Describe Your Personality: pretty easy going, love to laugh, hate confrontation, don't always stick up for myself enough, like to make everyone happy and fed and comfortable
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): 2
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: I cannot wait to be a mommy.
Age: 21
Significant Other's Age: 24
What You Do: Law student
What SO Does: Accountant
State of Relationship: Moving in together in a few months
How Long You've Been Together: 1 year and 8 months
Fur Babies: None now, but hopefully after we move in together
Favorite Color: Blue
Favorite Thing About Your SO: He is so kind and caring towards everyone and he makes me laugh
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: He is very methodical about every decision he makes which makes the decision process slow
Hobbies/Activities: As my screen name indicates I love to ski. I also like to read and spend time with friends and family.
Describe Your Personality: I am reserved when I first meet people, but I typically warm up to most people quickly. I am very strait forward and I don't like drama.
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): 2
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: I hiked the Grand Canyon and I'm fluent in Spanish.
Age: 20
Significant Other's Age: 26
What You Do: Going for an English Major, secretary at a small business
What SO Does: Prepares lift kits for Lifted trucks
State of Relationship: Almost engaged
How Long You've Been Together: 3 years
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged):
When You Got Married (if you're married):
Fur Babies: A cat names sou sou
Favorite Color: turquoise
Favorite Thing About Your SO: His warm heart
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: i can't think of one!
Hobbies/Activities: writing poetry, exploring, attending local band concerts
Describe Your Personality: Shy at first, but very laid back, optimistic and happy go lucky.
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]):
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: I once had 19 cats : )
jcavasos11
Age:
23
Significant Other's Age:
28
What You Do:
receptionist in the oil field
What SO Does:
mechanics
State of Relationship:
not engaged, but happily living together
How Long You've Been Together:
1 Year 4 Months
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged):
planning on a wedding in 2012
Fur Babies:
Chloe-10 month old black lab/german short hair cross
Tobe-3 1/2 year old chihuahua
Herman-Beta fish lol
Favorite Color:
Blue-anything camo
Favorite Thing About Your SO:
He is always so supportive. Can bring a smile to me any bad day I have. Always happy to go visit my family!
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO:
He has TMJ, and it drives me crazy (He grinds his teeth when he sleeps and when he eats his jaw always pops)
Hobbies/Activities:
Hunting, shooting my rifles and bows, riding horse, coyote calling, mountion lion hunting, fishing, anything outdoors! And crotcheting
Describe Your Personality:
I am really shy when you first meet me. But my shell with open. I am always ready to do whatever! Spunky!
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]):
Depending on the day/situation I can be a 10. Any other day 1-3
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself:
I broke my clavical on a carnival ride. But was thinking (in my head) that the guy that was operating the carnival ride was really cute and that I wanted him to pick me up and kiss my cheek (I was like 11) Low and behold, my screaming helped me get my partial wish...he picked me up, no kiss lol. My twin, broke his same clavical years later! (Not on a carnival ride)
Age: 22
Significant Other's Age: 29
What You Do: Finishing up my BFA in Theater, currently working at a YMCA
What SO Does: Sales manager for an appliance distributer
State of Relationship: No ring yet, but only because my mother insists that I graduate from college first (but that's only a few weeks away
How Long You've Been Together: 4 1/2 years
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged): we're thinking spring 2014, because we'll have been together for 7 years, and 7 is a lucky number
Fur Babies: A spastic but overly adorable 2 year old cat named Marguerite
Favorite Color: pink
Favorite Thing About Your SO: He is so genuinely loving and a wonderful friend. His laugh is infectious and his eyes are beautiful
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: He is just as stubborn as I am sometimes, and he tends to react to negative situations very quickly and very vehemently, and THEN takes time to sit back and think about things.
Hobbies/Activities: acting, singing, dancing, reading, shopping, scrap booking
Describe Your Personality: I'm a princess, but I'm very shy until I get to know someone. My friends say I'm a lot like Giselle in Enchanted
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): depends on the day and situation. Normally only about a 2 or 3, but I can go up to a 10
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: I love finding out trivia and random facts from movies. I am a huge vault of useless Disney knowledge. I love everything Disney. My BF and I are planning to honeymoon in Walt Disney World. (and I'm still hoping that maybe he'll pop the question there too
IrishDreamer
Age:
24 (Will be 25 on May 3)
Significant Other's Age:
29
What You Do:
I'm the office manager for a construction/remodeling company and a full-time student - Business administration and secondary education: English/communication
What SO Does:
He's graduating on April 30 to be a teacher: High school- history/social studies/government and he owns a lawn care company with his dad
State of Relationship:
Engaged to be engaged lol
How Long You've Been Together:
1 year, 2 months aaaand 4 days
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged):
according to him...a year or two lol
When You Got Married (if you're married):
Fur Babies:
We aren't allowed to have pets at our apartment ...but we want a puppy
Favorite Color:
blue/green
Favorite Thing About Your SO:
he pushes me to be the best i can...and to do what I want...not what others wante me to do, or for me
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO:
He's so damn set in his ways...he despises change...and I've never had stability in my life (i've never lived somewhere longer than 2 yrs)
Hobbies/Activities:
Swimming, karaoke, playing games, driving
Describe Your Personality:
I'm a dork....I'm a goofball, sweet, caring,...I'm just me
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]):
propably a 3-4. I try not to say nasty things, but I'm very honest and open
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself
Ummm....oldest of 5, my youngest sibling is 9. I lived in FL for 13 years, and I've changed my college major 6 times lol
We got into a really bad car accident, and from that point on it really opened my eyes to how much of myself and my own life I had given up to be with him. Also, how much of an alcoholic he was, and how i was completely miserable in my life. I packed my stuff in my car and drove out of state to stay with some family for a little bit...filed the papers and am much happier now!
Glad to know I'm not alone
Year of birth: 1982
Significant Other's years of birth: 1980
What You Do: Just graduated in Italian, English, and Dutch philology, starting advanced training in communications and pr
What SO Does: engineer
State of Relationship: living together, both waiting for me to find a job so we can get engaged
How Long You've Been Together: Since September 2008
Fur Babies: 2 black FIV-positive cats I got from a shelter. Simba is my big boy and approx. 9-11 years old; Rossini is my "baby" being 5 years old.
Favorite Color: green
Favorite Thing About Your SO: his smile, the fact he loves swing and jazz music as much as I do, his interest in history, and that I can be myself around him
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: he snores, his definition of "clean", and that he does not enjoy taking walks...
Hobbies/Activities: my b-clarinet, ballet, singing belcanto (soprano)
Describe Your Personality: I am caring, lazy, a chocolate-lover, nuts about my cats, addicted to sleep, and a worry head.
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): 1
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: I'm from Germany and that's where I live. But I like to refer to myself as European, since I'm 1/4 German, 1/4 Belgian, 1/4 Greek, and 1/4 Polish. If you could hear me talk, you'd think I was Texan, since I picked up the accent while being a foreign exchange student. Having family all over Europe, I added my host parents to the list. I skype/e-mail with them frequently, calling them "Momma" and "Daddy". A tiny part of me even feels Texan ;o)
Age: 24
Significant Other's Age: 27
What You Do: Student, soon to be realtor
What SO Does: Right now he works in a warehouse, but they just laid him off so he's pursuing his dream of becoming a police officer. He's got 2 interviews and physical agility tests coming up so our fingers are crossed.
State of Relationship: Engaged, no ring yet, and its still under wraps; we're waiting on our careers to stabilize before we throw that one at everybody. We had a brief break up (3 weeks), we call it our "hiatus", in which he freaked because he was falling for me (silly boy); but we're back together now and things have never been better.
How Long You've Been Together: 8 months
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged): May 18, 2013 (this is our goal, maybe sooner, maybe later, but this is where we are right now.)
Fur Babies: One kitty cat (Puff) and cockatiel (Dusty) and a parrotlet (Levi)
Favorite Color: Mine is purple and his is green.
Favorite Thing About Your SO: His ambition and drive to succeed; not to mention he's just the sweetest and so romantic.
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: He works out almost excessively and I'm not a gym rat at ALL.
Hobbies/Activities: We both enjoy tea, travelling, and outdoor things like hiking and camping.
Describe Your Personality: I'm very honest and very kind. I never do anything to consciously be mean.
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): 5, it depends on my mood and how snarky you happen to be.
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: I'm finishing my BA in English in December and from there will hop straight to a community college to earn my real estate license, I help my uncle who is a realtor right now and I'd love to make a career out of it.
Age: 23
Significant Other's Age: 25
What You Do: Paralegal
What SO Does: Mechanic
State of Relationship: Living Together
How Long You've Been Together: Since October 2009
When You're Getting Married (if you're engaged): N/A
When You Got Married (if you're married): N/A
Fur Babies: None for now! Maybe someday.
Favorite Color: Meh, I really don't have one. But without trying to be BSC, I do favor brown and green for wedding colors. :-)
Favorite Thing About Your SO: We are best friends, and have been since I was 19. That foundation makes our relationship so great. We get each other really, really well. And I feel that he knows me better than I know myself. He is very lienient and forgiving - doesn't hold a grudge.
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: At this particular point in time, his current career situation. But we have plans for something better that we are working towards.
Hobbies/Activities: Tinkering with cars to make them faster. Motorcycles. Going out to dinner is a big thing for us - we are major foodies. Outdoor summer activities. Reading.
Describe Your Personality: I'm very low key and earthy - so is my SO. I don't have a large group of friends, only a few really good ones. I am highly focused and goal-oriented... maybe a tid bit obsessive over my goals actually... and have turned into a bit of a work-o-holic. I am generally easily pleased by the simple things in life.
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): 1. I've lurked most all of the boards of The Knot and have found that snark is a pretty popular personality trait around here. I don't really understand that - this is a wedding website and people are here to be happy (right?). Anyway, I think you can give your opinion/advise/constructive criticism without being aggressive. I don't believe it's my job to "put someone in their place."
Anways...
We're at the point in our relationship where we have figured out what we want to do with our lives and have discussed some general, flexible, unofficial timelines about when such things will be done. So right now we are focusing in on what changes we need to make in our lives in order to achieve the goals we have together. My SO is making a career change shortly as a step towards this. Really, saving money at this point has been our number one priority.
We want to take the next step (aka: get engaged) when we feel we are financially ready to do so. I am excited for this (duh!), but I am not rushing for it either. So why are you on The Knot? Well, it feeds my inner little girl I suppose. I also look at houses for sale on a daily basis, even though we aren't ready to buy yet either. I guess it's all a motivating tool... thinking about what I have to look forward to on a daily basis keeps me focused on my work that will lead up to everything. =]