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Re: Quick! Someone email E!

  • II do find it ironic that among a group of entirely non-jealous women it seems to always be the attractive/successful/well-off girls who get flamed by the majority. I guess that explains why Scooby and Butterfly were flamed.
  • Colleen, I never said I thought it was ok.  Just like I never said I had a PhD.  You can flame me for where I went to school or for thinking P2 is ridic or for my credit card debt issues, but let's keep it to the facts.
  • Maybe its just me, but how strangers in an internet forum present themselves as living is completely inconsequential to me.   You make a billion dollars a year and live on a yacht?  Good for you,  but that's totally irrelevant for me.  Your toilet is made of gold?  Lovely.  I don't care.  I have to question anyone who IS jealous or comparative to a person they don't know on the computer screen.  Most of you aren't even "real" to me.  I care if you can carry a conversation and tell a joke.  That's pretty much where my level of interest in you and your life ends. 

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  • Ooh, E.. people like you make the world suck.
  • Kati-You posted the definition and proved my point.  Did you see the first defintion?  A FOOLISH person.  No proof that's not what was intended when speaking of you.  From what I've see of you, it seems accurate.
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  • Colleen, I never said I thought it was ok. Just like I never said I had a PhD. You can flame me for where I went to school or for thinking P2 is ridic or for my credit card debt issues, but let's keep it to the facts.I did agree that it was not you that said you had a PhD, that was clarified.  Try to keep up genius.Also no one is flaming you for going to Harvard, I could give a rat`s a$$ where you or anyone goes to school.  We flame you for dropping it like it should make us care. We don`t.Also I could care less if your Mom, paid off your debt, good for you if she`s able to.  Again I just used it as an example of how one person who drops dollar anmounts wouldn`t see a problem with another person doing the same.
  • Oy, what a thread.East just said what I was going to say.  I couldn't care less who makes how much, what they have, or where they live, or what they do.  It's way too easy to make that shiit up, so there's no point in putting any stock in it.Getting worked up about what someone says is just silly.  No one can verify that what she said is true or false with any certainty, so why get all up in arms about it.  Whoop dee frickin do.
  • Anyway.  It`s been a slice.   Now I really must go and leave this little debate on the interwebz where it belongs. I have to get some sleep before I get back to writing the 2 papers I have due tonight (at a college that shall not be named.)Laterz!
  • You make a billion dollars a year and live on a yacht? Good for you, but that's totally irrelevant for me. Your toilet is made of gold? Lovely.Listen East, I'd really like it if you would stop taking digs at the present I gave you.  I'm sorry your yacht isn't big enough and your toilet isn't gold (I honestly thought you'd like the platinum!).  Perhaps you should be happy about what I gave you in payment for your.... services..... okay?
  • Eastie is never happy, she`s a miserable bitter hag.
  • Colleen, you are correct that I don't see a problem with discussing wedding budgets on the internet.  Or discussing anything, really.  I don't know anyone on here and probably never will so if I offend someone it won't really keep me up at night.  Same with when someone says something I find offensive.  People can say I try too hard all they want, but honestly if I was on here trying to make friends wouldn't I be kissing the a**es of the "cool kids" like everyone else instead of just stating my opinions even when unpopular?
  • This is the internet how do we know that people like Mrs E and  kati may be lying about income  or Harvard.  who knows if anybody on here is being real, Im just saying it wouldn't be the first time somebody lied on the internet.
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  • *sigh* okay fine. I'll confess. I'm really a man.I'm actually logged on from the penitentiary.  I'm not even engaged, and I definitely didn't attend college.  I found my sig pic on myspace.
  • You think you're joking, but that is exactly why it makes no difference who name or number drops what.  It really would be THAT easy to take something from FB or Myspace and assume an identity.  It's been done a million times.East is right, as long as I'm entertained, I could care less what your life consists of.  Harvard or Community College, WHATEVER.  Sincerely, A Lurker
  • Wow--did three people manage to get flamed in one thread, all the while flaming each other? Impressive
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  • Yes, Almerz, I am totally lying about everything. How did you guess? I just built up a fake persona for everyone here and the the knotties I have met. Again, people can think what they want if it makes them feel better about themselves. Schaal, it is people like you with their sizist comments and judgement that suck. You don't even know me to make that judgement. IRL- I am very generous, non judgemental, a philanthropist, a volunteer, and many more things that you don't deserve to know. I can say that I don't lead a selfish lifestyle, how many of you can say that? I don't need to buy a decent personality as Amaro said, mine is fine as is. People can pretend to be so self rightous here but irl, many of you who commented about me self admittedly are scared of their own shadow.
  • Babbles, I agree completely.  That's why it was absurd to me that everyone was so offended by what E said.  And that's why I'm much more likely to discuss $ and education and other sensitive topics on here with people who don't know me from Adam than people I encounter IRL.
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  • I have a double PhD, go to Harvard AND Yale, crap on a gold toilet and i split my time between two boats so big that the name "yacht" is insulting. say crack again
  • I was joking with my comment, but hey, I'm sorry if you're uncomfortable with your size.  That isn't my fault.  I was talking about the morbidly obese, and if that's what you consider yourself to be, then I'm sorry for you.  In what way, I guess you won't know.I'm sure you're a lovely person when IRL.  Actually, a lot of people are wonderful IRL and douchebags online.  That doesn't mean that that douchebag side doesn't live in them when they're zipping their lips shut in public.But I definitely laughed when you said you aren't judgmental.  That's a crock of shiit.
  • My size has nothing to do with why I was disgusted by your comments. I am not the only one who was surprised that you are really that judgemental. I have never hid my size here and am sure as hell not ashamed about it. I am working through my goals dispite peoplle like you who are close minded about anyone over a size 1r. You are really in no position o comment about being a douch considering things you have said.
  • Please show me one post where I've been judgmental over "anyone over a size 1r".  That's not the case at all.  I'm not even a 1, and thin people can look just as sickly as those who are obese.  And I'll say AGAIN, that I was talking about morbidly obese people clocking in around 300lbs.You seemed a little more than ashamed of your size when you repeatedly made woe-is-me posts about how disgusting I'd find you in a wetsuit.  And hey, I've never disputed that I can be a douche.  But at least I realize and admit it.
  • I wrote size 12 and it came out like that. My comment about being in my wetsuit was sarcasm. If I really was woe is me, I wouldn't even look at a beach. I know women who are a lot smaller than I am, two who were in this post who have even said they wouldn't wear a bathing suit.
  • Hell, a size 12 doesn't bug me.  In fact, a size 12 is the smallest size of all 5 of my bridesmaids.  I understand that weight varies, and not everyone is meant to be rail-thin.  Even I don't want to be rail-thin.  But people aren't meant to be morbidly obese.  And I don't mean the general guidelines of obesity, because we all know those BMI readings can be bullcrap.Also, if you were being sarcastic and expected me and others to inherently understand that, then you should also be able to understand that other posters do the same.  Not everything is worth sharpening your claws over.
  • I've read this post and the one on page two and I still can't figure out how Amoro is involved in all this or why she even brought it up if she wasn't involved.
  • Amaro tries to involve herself in anything related to me negatively.  That is how.  If you had people in your BP over a size 12 and they read what you wrote, they would drop you. 
  • I love your assumptions.. especially because you're so nonjudgmental!  I can confidently tell you that you're 100% wrong, because my friends know my thoughts on obesity and they also know that I'm concerned for their well-being.But I've come to realize that you'll twist anyone's words to fit your agenda no matter what they say (but you aren't judgmental), so I'm just going to not bother with you anymore.
  • Always remember, people who go to fancy schools have rich parents or are super smart, but not necessarily both and mostly the former! Going to Harvard on a full scholarship or teaching at Harvard would impress me.
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