How would you take this?

mashedpotato · July 2009

if not for his lack of computerskills, Mr. Potato would be stepping out on you? no, just one less place I have to snoop.kidding, I just mean I can see how some things could be misunderstood.

wingedbride · July 2009

k-dogg, i have been sitting here trying to figure if that is her brother or her SO.

FallinAgain · July 2009

Kristen, I wondered (and hoped that's a ten yr old prom pic, too) but bigger fish to fry.

rajah92708 · July 2009

I can see to/from the numbers texts were sent, but cannot see the actual message, just by logging in to our Verizon account. I will try to grab his phone tonight when we're at home. Good suggestion about checking her FB profile for her cell number....it's the same one to which several texts have been sent/received in the past few days. Damn. I am not one to hold back or to hide how I'm feeling. I'll probably talk to him about this when I get home.

shanollee · July 2009

I was afraid to ask her for fear she'd put a curse on me. A pox on you, Kristen. A POX ON YOU!!!

modb1rd · July 2009

oh hey, I think I came off flip with the condom comment. I didn't mean to be. However this shakes out, there are going to be trust issues and babies and diseases don't help those.

Mrs.Expchic · July 2009

Call the number. Or give me the number and I'll call it.

Jen&Joe06 · July 2009

Holy hell. I am so used to just skipping over ticker like siggys that I didn't even read it.

wingedbride · July 2009

one thing...you must come back and share.

Novemberrocks · July 2009

Good suggestion about checking her FB profile for her cell number....it's the same one to which several texts have been sent/received in the past few days. DUDE. I'm sorry Rajah...this sucks.

modb1rd · July 2009

google the numbers too

Mrs.Expchic · July 2009

I'm sorry you have to go through this, Rajah. I know what that pit in your stomach feels like.

Jen&Joe06 · July 2009

There is a chick on 3rd tri who suspected her husband was cheating and didn't use protection (and continued to not only ride him but also blow him) and she now thinks she has an STD. So yah...I totally agree with you Mod. Better to be safe then sorry.TM'ing with someone he worked with for 2 weeks is not a good thing at all. Are these TM's from before or after the FB message?

pdxmouse · July 2009

Oh Rajah, I'm so sorry. If he denies anything demand he shows you the texts. Good luck.

modb1rd · July 2009

oh Rajah, I am so sorry that the cell phone numbers match. I am really really sorry.

AngieP900 · July 2009

Mod, you are wise. Although I think I'd be too furious for any sexy time at this juncture. I don't think this sounds like it has a good end. Also, if it's some woman he briefly worked with in what I guess is a highly staffed place, how did you know it was her? I am guessing maybe he talked about her enough in that 2 week time?

FallinAgain · July 2009

I am not one to hold back or to hide how I'm feeling. I'll probably talk to him about this when I get home. Wait to scope out the cell messages.Also, you can play off the FB snooping by saying that you didn't realize you were on his rather than your account. That has happened to me a lot when my H doesn't log off and I'm always like WTF are these people I don't know on my FB.

jens_a_ten · July 2009

Sorry Rajah, this sucks balls. What are you going to do if you confront him and he admits it?

CaliopeSpidrman · July 2009

I say you maim first and ask questions later.

rajah92708 · July 2009

Mod, no worries. I knew what you meant. It made me smile a little. Exp- I might take you up on that. I am a puss at that kind of thing.

Mrs.Expchic · July 2009

expchic@hotmail.com

rajah92708 · July 2009

I don't know what to do, regardless of what answer he gives me. I have seen enough to be PISSED. I would like to calm down first.

FallinAgain · July 2009

I posted before the cell nmber match. That sucks, so sorry.

Goodie2shewz · July 2009

If you google the number and find a name, there is a website called public data dot com. Depending on your state, you can run a DL check, criminal history, or DMV check using the name. You will get DPS records with last addresses etc. for the DL check.Something to keep in your back pocket if you should need that information later.

AngieP900 · July 2009

Raj, that sounds like a good idea. I make no sense when I am made and can only form a complete sentence if it is a destructive one.Good luck, I'm sorry for you.

shanollee · July 2009

That really sucks, I'm so sorry. I have no advice on how you should approach the issue because I'm such an emotional train wreck when I'm angry/frustrated/sad/any other negative feeling. So I can't even imagine being in your shoes right now. Best of luck to you

mashedpotato · July 2009

argh, this sucks, I'm sorry.

noisy_penguin · July 2009

That fuccking blows. I'm really sorry.

pdxmouse · July 2009

I know this is totally jumping the gun, but if you leave get your name off joint accounts asap. I didn't think to do this wih my ex-h and he totally fukced my finances for a few years because of it.

SarahBethBR · July 2009

Wow, I'm so sorry the numbers match.

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