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LeiselEB · July 2012

For those interested, here is the long story (and I apologize to those who don't care, because it's a pretty long post)

This is the text pretty much word for word:

"Hi, I'm really stressed and need to get this off my chest. I love you but you are not the same person you used to be. A. when I ask you to hang out you say you have to check your schedule but I know you only say that to me. B. I demoted people out of my wedding so you could be in it and you're not even grateful for that...you haven't helped me once...i loved the shower but you didn't even talk to me there?! you never offer to help me make wedding things even though other people have and as a bridesmaid you are supposed to be involved. I still want to be your friend but you shouldn't be a bridesmaid....these are pictures I'm going ot have forever and with you not hanging out with me or giving me time like you used to, I don't think it's good for you to be in the wedding. You are still invited...maybe you can help do bridesmaids hair now?! Now you don't have to hang out with everyone all weekend long so it'll be less awkward for you this way. It's really for the best!! Please tell me you understand!"

My friend is a hairdresser, so she literally does have to check her schedule before making plans - she doesn't have set hours. And she said she couldn't do hair for the wedding because the bride wants all their hair done at a salon my friend does not work at, and she doesn't feel comfortable "working" there for a day. My friend dated one of the groomsmen several years ago and has since moved on, but the bride thinks that her being there will make it awkward for some reason, I guess.

The bride is an entitled bitchh, basically. This is the girl who put Hooters on her wedding invitations as a "great place to kill time between the ceremony and reception".

midgetthemighty · July 2012

OMG They are so adorable! What are some of the names you came up with?

cookie0803 · July 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-96?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:fb0a289e-b49d-4d83-8b5d-eb94aa74a013Post:944cb232-ed72-4828-947c-44c9262e5f8b">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I found that really amusing. Then someone said, "Hey join the afternoon thread instead of starting this post" and she ignored that part and just got upset.
Posted by JessAndTrav[/QUOTE]

Exactly! Kinda seemed like a GBCK.

Midge, I thought the same thing.

Mica, sorry you couldn't get your kitties :(

LeiselEB · July 2012

Mica, I wish you could get your kittens today

What names are you thinking of?

MyUserName1 · July 2012

Oh, this is the hooters wedding. Explains everything.

I left for a while, but now I'm catching up:

Natrasha- you can thank cashews for that one, not me. But i"ll take credit if you'd like (:

LDY- We'll take you to our favorite beer/wine store that has a bar full of unusual things on tap when you road trip here. The staff knows us, not only by name, but they know what's going on in our lives too.

aragx6 · July 2012

Jesus Leisel, that's a ridiculous story.

...And I have like 10 pages to catch up on!

Winnertag1 · July 2012

That bride sounds ridiculous, "you havent helped me plan anything" "I demoted other people for you", she sounds like an entitled brat. Your friend is probably lucky she doesnt have to deal with her craziness on her wedding day.

brandichamberlain · July 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-96?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:fb0a289e-b49d-4d83-8b5d-eb94aa74a013Post:cf4dd7fc-fb50-4895-8622-541031b7f9aa">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]For those interested, here is the long story (and I apologize to those who don't care, because it's a pretty long post) This is the text pretty much word for word: "Hi, I'm really stressed and need to get this off my chest. I love you but you are not the same person you used to be. A. when I ask you to hang out you say you have to check your schedule but I know you only say that to me. B. I demoted people out of my wedding so you could be in it and you're not even grateful for that...you haven't helped me once...i loved the shower but you didn't even talk to me there?! you never offer to help me make wedding things even though other people have and as a bridesmaid you are supposed to be involved. I still want to be your friend but you shouldn't be a bridesmaid....<strong>these are pictures I'm going ot have forever and with you not hanging out with me or giving me time like you used to, I don't think it's good for you to be in the wedding. You are still invited...maybe you can help do bridesmaids hair now?! </strong>Now you don't have to hang out with everyone all weekend long so it'll be less awkward for you this way. It's really for the best!! Please tell me you understand!" My friend is a hairdresser, so she literally does have to check her schedule before making plans - she doesn't have set hours. And she said she couldn't do hair for the wedding because the bride wants all their hair done at a salon my friend does not work at, and she doesn't feel comfortable "working" there for a day. My friend dated one of the groomsmen several years ago and has since moved on, but the bride thinks that her being there will make it awkward for some reason, I guess. The bride is an entitled bitchh, basically. <strong>This is the girl who put Hooters on her wedding invitations as a "great place to kill time between the ceremony and reception".
</strong>Posted by LeiselEB[/QUOTE]

She sounds like a complete asshole.

Also- I flame the OP in this thread.
<a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_i-give-up-on-budgeting">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_i-give-up-on-budgeting</a>

Matty143 · July 2012

Liesel, I would absolutely get my money back and seriously, she asked her to help and do hair!?
Hell no.

button6004 · July 2012

Mica, those are some cute little kittens.

mica178 · July 2012

Leisel, that bride sucks.

H originally wanted to keep the girl cat as Alex (to annoy his brother with the same name) and name the boy cat Tigger.

I originally wanted Taco (after the famous Taco Cat) and Jagger. Or Chairman Meow and Liger.

Last night, we thought up Damien and Dempsey. (H is a huge Damien Dempsey fan, our first dance was to a Damien Dempsey song, and the name meanings are perfect for cats -- "to tame" and "proud.")

cookie0803 · July 2012

Leisel, that's really shitty. At least your friend won't have to deal with her "duties" anymore. Sounds like a relief!

midgetthemighty · July 2012

Holy crap Leisel. She should for sure try to get her money back but I'm not sure she'll get through to her. We may be seeing a post about "how dare a BM I kicked out ask for her money back" in just a few days.

mica178 · July 2012

I especially love the part where the bride demoted people to get your friend into the WP. Good grief.

Lizzieyounce · July 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-96?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:fb0a289e-b49d-4d83-8b5d-eb94aa74a013Post:cf4dd7fc-fb50-4895-8622-541031b7f9aa">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]For those interested, here is the long story (and I apologize to those who don't care, because it's a pretty long post) This is the text pretty much word for word: "Hi, I'm really stressed and need to get this off my chest. I love you but you are not the same person you used to be. A. when I ask you to hang out you say you have to check your schedule but I know you only say that to me. B. I demoted people out of my wedding so you could be in it and you're not even grateful for that...you haven't helped me once...i loved the shower but you didn't even talk to me there?! you never offer to help me make wedding things even though other people have and as a bridesmaid you are supposed to be involved. I still want to be your friend but you shouldn't be a bridesmaid....these are pictures I'm going ot have forever and with you not hanging out with me or giving me time like you used to, I don't think it's good for you to be in the wedding. You are still invited...maybe you can help do bridesmaids hair now?! Now you don't have to hang out with everyone all weekend long so it'll be less awkward for you this way. It's really for the best!! Please tell me you understand!" My friend is a hairdresser, so she literally does have to check her schedule before making plans - she doesn't have set hours. And she said she couldn't do hair for the wedding because the bride wants all their hair done at a salon my friend does not work at, and she doesn't feel comfortable "working" there for a day. My friend dated one of the groomsmen several years ago and has since moved on, but the bride thinks that her being there will make it awkward for some reason, I guess. The bride is an entitled bitchh, basically. This is the girl who put Hooters on her wedding invitations as a "great place to kill time between the ceremony and reception".
Posted by LeiselEB[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>Oh my. Wow. What a peach.</div>

zizibet · July 2012

Wow Leisel, that's something...special. JFC. She definitely needs to punch her.
Mica, that sucks about the kittens.
Leisel, if you've ever had polenta at an Italian restaurant, that's grits.
No flames, so I'll head over to the afternoon thread.

LeiselEB · July 2012

Oh, I know. She's out of her mind.

I feel bad for my friend because she actually cares about this girl and considered her a close friend.

MattsPenguin · July 2012

Mica! They are so cute!!

Liesel, just to reiterate what everyone else has said, that is UTTERLY ridiculous. I feel really badly for your friend. And she did it over text message!?! What a dipshit.

specialk84 · July 2012

Leisel, she should definitely punch her in the face.

Mica, out of all of those, I really like Chairman Meow and Taco. Like, as in want to steal them for any future cats.

H is taking me to an alpaca farm for our anniversary. I keep trying to get him to buy us some alpacas. I really REALLY want an orangey-brown male alpaca. I want to name him Nacho. A mature male alpaca is called a "macho." Thus, I would have a sweater made from Macho Nacho.

brandichamberlain · July 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-96?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:fb0a289e-b49d-4d83-8b5d-eb94aa74a013Post:71b9b994-37be-4ddf-b382-71c209f6f593">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Leisel, that bride sucks. H originally wanted to keep the girl cat as Alex (to annoy his brother with the same name) and name the boy cat Tigger. I originally wanted Taco (after the famous Taco Cat) and Jagger. Or Chairman Meow and Liger. Last night, we thought up <strong>Damien and Dempsey</strong>. (H is a huge Damien Dempsey fan, our first dance was to a Damien Dempsey song, and the name meanings are perfect for cats -- "to tame" and "proud.")
Posted by mica178[/QUOTE]

I love the bolded, although all of the names are cute!

MyUserName1 · July 2012

I love Dameon and Dempsey.

I always want to name cats overdramatic things. My cat was named Desdemona (yes, after Othello.) and I named my roomate's cat Salome (yes, after the dancer from the Bible.)

Lizzieyounce · July 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-96?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:fb0a289e-b49d-4d83-8b5d-eb94aa74a013Post:76c6fa15-91e0-4582-b630-94dde1ac956f">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Is it me or is MerandTrick constantly trying to put words into people's mouths?
Posted by edielaura[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Well she's certainly good at pulling words out of her ass.

</div>

laurenclaire1386 · July 2012

See, this is a prime example of an etiquette faux pas that people ARE ACTUALLY INTERESTED IN and didn't require its own thread. Doin it right.

MyUserName1 · July 2012

Is everyone exceptionally funny today, or is just my afternoon beer laughing?

LeiselEB · July 2012

Mica, Chairman Meow is adorable. But I like all your other options as well.

specialk84 · July 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-96?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:fb0a289e-b49d-4d83-8b5d-eb94aa74a013Post:e1c690b7-650c-43ff-8436-8c6e1316f940">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Is everyone exceptionally funny today, or is just my afternoon beer laughing?
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

<div>I'm exceptionally funny every day. </div>

mica178 · July 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-96?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:fb0a289e-b49d-4d83-8b5d-eb94aa74a013Post:201a9b4f-cb91-43e0-a784-0d8b8583bc98">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Hey bitchy Hooters bride, i would like my money back for the dress. Also you are a <strong>massive cuntcanon</strong>. I will not do hair nor will i attend the wedding. friends off for life. that might be my response if I was your friend, L.
Posted by crfb87[/QUOTE]

<div>Oh, the imagery.</div>

cookie0803 · July 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-96?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:fb0a289e-b49d-4d83-8b5d-eb94aa74a013Post:6db9e667-3439-4e39-bac9-3c4720ca236d">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]H is taking me to an alpaca farm for our anniversary. I keep trying to get him to buy us some alpacas. I really REALLY want an orangey-brown male alpaca. I want to name him Nacho. A mature male alpaca is called a "macho." Thus, I would have a sweater made from Macho Nacho.
Posted by specialk84[/QUOTE]

That would be amazing. I sincerely hope this happens.

laurenclaire1386 · July 2012

Chairman Meow is cracking me up.

LeiselEB · July 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-96?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:fb0a289e-b49d-4d83-8b5d-eb94aa74a013Post:1f642ec2-2822-45fe-9285-6b94ff7facee">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Wow Leisel, that's something...special. JFC. She definitely needs to punch her. Mica, that sucks about the kittens. Leisel, if you've ever had polenta at an Italian restaurant, that's grits. No flames,<strong> so I'll head over to the afternoon thread.</strong>
Posted by zizibet[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>I must be in an alternate universe again...is there an afternoon thread started?</div>

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