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JK10910 · December 2009

OK, I haven't read through everything yet, but either I missed the thread where TJ came out as an "escort," or someone is confused (and it could be me). Every time I saw her talk about it, she said she worked "in the sex industry." To me, that does not automatically mean she was an escort. There are many jobs in the sex industry (even if she flat out said she worked for an escort service) that don't directly involve having sex with customers. So if I missed the direct confession, sorry, my bad, but I wanted to say that.

wadingmoose · December 2009

Just trying to lighten the mood. IT took me awhile to figure out how to spell it to.

bitchbitchbitch, is that better FishY?

alixzafiris · December 2009

Yeah, well my husband HELPED me put up our Christmas lights. Then he gave me a hug. I think that means he's the bestest husband ever in the world. Yep.

jessjo04 · December 2009

Well you think I'm a douche, I think youre a douche and I think your FI is a douche. Guess its just a world of douche around here. Thats very "I'm rubber and you're glue". And you arent supposed to defend yourself in FFF, adur.

wadingmoose · December 2009

H is terrified of heights and did the lights all by himself.

He's also fine with me quitting my job to go back to school, but he apparently won't move to MIssissauga so I can get into the program I'd REALLY like to take. Fuckhim. He's a douche.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · December 2009

According to you, Jess. FWIW I agree with you, but it's not my choice to make and doesn't affect me or you one way or the other. Plus Rach is 24. A lot of people who go directly into grad school from undergrad end up questioning their choices. She has a LOT of time to make a decision about her education and future career.

wadingmoose · December 2009

Also, Jess, I think you're being awfully aggressive about other people's relationships when you want to be left alone about yours.

Just sayin.

beatlesgirl25 · December 2009

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-12?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1b7acf15-53c8-4a70-832a-4932971d1512Post:e9c33d67-c788-49ce-91cf-5e2c037ab19e">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]OK, I haven't read through everything yet, but either I missed the thread where TJ came out as an "escort," or someone is confused (and it could be me). Every time I saw her talk about it, she said she worked "in the sex industry." To me, that does not automatically mean she was an escort. There are many jobs in the sex industry (even if she flat out said she worked for an escort service) that don't directly involve having sex with customers. So if I missed the direct confession, sorry, my bad, but I wanted to say that.
Posted by JK10910[/QUOTE]

I don't recall her coming out as an escort either, but she did indicate that her uh, position, in the sex industry was the reason no one was even close to touching her number of partners. So I take that to meant that whatever she was doing, she was also having sex with people. FWIW, I don't care if she was an escort and I don't know the story behind it.

alixzafiris · December 2009

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-12?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1b7acf15-53c8-4a70-832a-4932971d1512Post:48347992-34a3-4ba1-8d59-98cfbd18e418">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Well you think I'm a douche, I think youre a douche and I think your FI is a douche. Guess its just a world of douche around here. Thats very "I'm rubber and you're glue". And you arent supposed to defend yourself in FFF, adur.
Posted by jessjo04[/QUOTE]

There are no words. Just... no. I've got nothing.

kate51485 · December 2009

I have remained neutral til now but omg JessJo needs to STFU.

alixzafiris · December 2009

Moose I think you should let me talk to him about moving to 'Sauga. Then we could, like, be besties and totally visit like, every day and like, bask in each other's superfluous like, fabulousness.

Oh darnit. There I go lovefesting again...

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · December 2009

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-12?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1b7acf15-53c8-4a70-832a-4932971d1512Post:4da8c4db-61e6-4abe-a848-88e8b7b09717">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]H is terrified of heights and did the lights all by himself. He's also fine with me quitting my job to go back to school, but he apparently won't move to MIssissauga so I can get into the program I'd REALLY like to take. Fuckhim. He's a douche.
Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]

Is Mississauga in Ontario? I think my parents live relative close, but on the US side.

My mom mentioned that her husband knows some people at a school in Kingston. I'm like, "Yeah, it would be cool to go to school in Canada if I didn't study<em> United States</em> history."

Koopa17 · December 2009

Well I had to put up my own fucking xmas lights and I got scratches on my wrist from the pointy bushes. SCRATCHES.

Also it took me 2 days. And no they aren't all spectacular and on the roof.

SarahSmile23 · December 2009

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-12?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:1b7acf15-53c8-4a70-832a-4932971d1512Post:a9b88cdb-3925-40e3-8037-4d29d419c224">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I don't really care for missmerrymac and I don't even know why.
Posted by TheSaltyPeanut[/QUOTE]
I know why I don't care for her. She said she is anti-Salvation Army and never came back to explain why when some of us inquired. So it just seems like an ignorant statement based on a lack of knowledge of this great company. I volunteered to serve the children at the Boys and Girls Club a Thanksgiving meal and the expressions on their faces were pricess. How can anyone be against that?

salt78 · December 2009

Koopa - Our FIs are a$$holes. Wanna come cry in the corner with me?

Koopa17 · December 2009

Yes, Salt. Yes I do.

JK10910 · December 2009

Ok, there's a difference, I think, between moving just for the heck of it, and moving for a better job. You know...job...money...things that we all kind of need to get by in this world. So it's not like Rich is saying "huh, hate this place. let's move to Thailand!" There's a reason for the move. This whole conversation is ridiculous.

alixzafiris · December 2009

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-12?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1b7acf15-53c8-4a70-832a-4932971d1512Post:4829a932-1cfb-41b1-a6c2-eb6c856813dd">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Is Mississauga in Ontario? I think my parents live relative close, but on the US side. My mom mentioned that her husband knows some people at a school in Kingston. I'm like, "Yeah, it would be cool to go to school in Canada if I didn't study United States history."
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

Yes, it's about 45 minutes from where I live now. I lived in Missisauga all through high school.

Andplus, we <em>do</em> actually study US History in Canada, believe it or not. You can start taking it in high school and definitely follow it through to post-secondary.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · December 2009

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-12?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1b7acf15-53c8-4a70-832a-4932971d1512Post:2cc1a841-748c-478d-9e77-1c8a169abb1c">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I know why I don't care for her. She said she is anti-Salvation Army and never came back to explain why when some of us inquired. So it just seems like an ignorant statement based on a lack of knowledge of this great company. I volunteered to serve the children at the Boys and Girls Club a Thanksgiving meal and the expressions on their faces were pricess. How can anyone be against that?
Posted by SarahSmile23[/QUOTE]

1) I'm pretty sure that's not the actual reason Salty dislikes me, just you.

2) Contrary to popular belief, I'm not here ALL the time. I didn't check back on that post until 2 days later and couldn't respond.

Salvation Army is a religious organization. I disagree with their stance on homosexuality. Therefore, I simply do not give them my money. I contribute to many other charities, including some that do similar work, but without the religious convictions I disagree with.

Stackeye210 · December 2009

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-12?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1b7acf15-53c8-4a70-832a-4932971d1512Post:e84e82a6-b8b3-457e-9e7a-c702535d53dd">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I have remained neutral til now but omg JessJo needs to STFU.
Posted by kate51485[/QUOTE]

I AGREE. And since she claims Rach can't stick up for herself.......I will. Is there only one PhD program in the country? I'm sure she can find a program where she's moving if she so chooses in the future. Get over it!

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · December 2009

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-12?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1b7acf15-53c8-4a70-832a-4932971d1512Post:3bfe5a0d-f3e2-4875-8e71-48b789eb954d">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Yes, it's about 45 minutes from where I live now. I lived in Missisauga all through high school. Andplus, we do actually study US History in Canada, believe it or not. You can start taking it in high school and definitely follow it through to post-secondary.
Posted by alixzafiris[/QUOTE]

It does actually make sense. I mean, a lot of people study European history in grad programs in the US. I just think it would be a PITA to move to another country when I'm already in the US, to study US history.

JK10910 · December 2009

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-12?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1b7acf15-53c8-4a70-832a-4932971d1512Post:46357ebe-42c7-4718-9b20-e8f4f9810bd0">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I don't recall her coming out as an escort either, but she did indicate that her uh, position, in the sex industry was the reason no one was even close to touching her number of partners. So I take that to meant that whatever she was doing, she was also having sex with people. FWIW, I don't care if she was an escort and I don't know the story behind it.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

That makes sense. FWIW, I still think that a position in the sex industry could blow up your number even if you're not being paid for sex. If you're always in a sexually charged environment where promiscuity is rewarded, it's normalized for you, even if you're not actually exchanging sex for money.

beatlesgirl25 · December 2009

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-12?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1b7acf15-53c8-4a70-832a-4932971d1512Post:070aa66c-3349-4ef1-990e-df51a8b401a2">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Ok, there's a difference, I think, between moving just for the heck of it, and moving for a better job. You know...job...money...things that we all kind of need to get by in this world. So it's not like Rich is saying "huh, hate this place. let's move to Thailand!" There's a reason for the move. This whole conversation is ridiculous.
Posted by JK10910[/QUOTE]

And let's not forget there's another important element to this. They aren't able to be "out" with their relationship in their current community, so by moving away they'd have more freedom. Not trying to put words in Rach's mouth, but she has said it is one of her reasons for moving, so she and her FI can finally stop hiding their relationship and worrying about his job security as a result of it.

mandysmear · December 2009

Fuckhim. He's a douche.

DED. Bahahahhahhahahah.

SarahSmile23 · December 2009

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-12?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:1b7acf15-53c8-4a70-832a-4932971d1512Post:422684f1-91b6-4c9d-9a78-3942b2768727">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I agree and in JE&P and your IQ level will drop even more.
Posted by lyndausvi[/QUOTE]

Try being the mod over there. Most of the girls are sweet and excited to be engaged. But some are whiny babies.

lpstl · December 2009

I kind of have a love/hate thing going on when FFF start early, or when I'm away. I love it because it gives me something to do, but I hate it because I feel like I miss out on the fun.

I used to feel a little sorry for jessjo, but after the complete BS she's spewing about rach her douche factor just skyrocketed.

salt78 · December 2009

I agree with Stack.
It's not like where Rach is going there are no schools.

She has plenty of time to finish up somewhere else if she chooses. All the times I have read stuff like "she's giving up her PhD" on here seems a little melodramatic.

Stackeye210 · December 2009

Not to mention she just said her FI is a professor. I'm sure HE of all people understands the importance of an education.

SarahSmile23 · December 2009

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-12?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:1b7acf15-53c8-4a70-832a-4932971d1512Post:4cc8c889-5846-469b-a1e7-a11c5de6dc81">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : 1) I'm pretty sure that's not the actual reason Salty dislikes me, just you. 2) Contrary to popular belief, I'm not here ALL the time. I didn't check back on that post until 2 days later and couldn't respond. Salvation Army is a religious organization. I disagree with their stance on homosexuality. Therefore, I simply do not give them my money. I contribute to many other charities, including some that do similar work, but without the religious convictions I disagree with.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

That's lame. Do you research every single thing those companies believe, too? Not everybody is going to share every single belief with you. And since nothing they do deals directly with homosexuality, I'm not sure why this is even an issue. I have volunteered there many times and have never ever ever heard homosexuality mentioned. People are more worried about where to get their next meal than in debating politics. I'm pro gay marriage and pro Salvation Army. I have seen so many people who have been helped by the SA that I am disgusted you would say anything negative about them. You don't have to donate to them, but to say you are anti-SA is just wrong, IMO.

salt78 · December 2009

This is the first time I've ever heard that about the Salvation Army!! ZOMG those bell ringing homophobes better stay the hell away from me when I go to the grocery store!!!!

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