I really need to spill this to someone and get some advice. I've talked to a couple friends and I'm getting counseling tonight, but I need some outside opinions. I need to make sure I'm not overreacting.
I've mentioned it a little here and there, but DH rides bulls occasionally. He did a lot while we were dating, never was any good at it, and pretty well stopped completely when we got engaged.
A couple weeks ago, he rode in a local bullriding. I wasn't happy about it, becaue he hadn't even contributed half of rent, and now, here he was, dishing out a $60 entry fee to ride. We argued about it, but in the end, I couldn't stop him. Since then, he's been absolutely obsessed with riding full time. He's not helping me with household bills, he's calling into work, and now the kicker: he's planning on quitting his job entirely to ride bulls full time.
I don't know what to do. We sat down and discussed it last night, and I told him I can't handle it if he quits his job. As most of you know, I work three jobs and kill myself to make ends meet. He told me, three times, that I didn't need to be with him if I couldn't support his dream and that we needed to end things if that's how I was going to be about it.
He left, and went to stay with his parents. I haven't spoken him today either. I plan on staying with a friend tonight and this weekend, to help clear my head and help him see that I'm serious about a seperation.
Please help. I'm so distraught. I'm sick to my stomach. I finally cried myself to sleep last night at 2am. I don't know if I should end things or just stick it out and see where all this leads. But his willingness just to let things end over him doing this hurts me so much. He's not even trying to make things work. I don't know what to do.
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