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MeaghanandMichael · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:f5c269eb-47a5-4b6d-b318-bb5bbbe45614">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Really, I think they should just be honest about what they're doing. We want SB to an all-inclusive, impenetrable group like AFSB was. Then hey, things are fine. But pretending that's not what they're doing? Lame.
Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]

Can I be honest right now and say this is wrong? I would add my usual, "we would love to see you over there" spiel because that is honestly how I feel, BUT you are throwing a tantrum that is weeks old and it is only getting worse because clearly no one is biting.

nda_roxybabe · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:77c8f589-8560-4d99-84a3-07b5266f80ae">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : That comment right there seems to imply that someone would need to be welcomed or given permission to post.
Posted by FutureMrsTR[/QUOTE]

Haha good observation. Thats not how I meant it. I meant that no one cares who post where

MissLeahM · June 2010

I flame my mom for wanted me to do a dollar dance, aka postituting myself on the dance floor.

Celles · June 2010

I think the fact that SB is lobbying so hard for a name change demonstrates that it ISN'T trying to be the new AFSB. If everyone who "migrated" from E went to Chit Chat instead of SB, would there be the same drama? Or is it simply because the perception some people have that the new SB is attempting (and failing) to emulate AFSB? I'm genuinely curious. I wasn't around for AFSB so -- as Lala pointed out once upon a time -- I DON'T get it.

I post on both boards because I like people on both boards. SB feels more intimate at the moment, so I'm a little more comfortable posting totally random stuff there because I don't think I'm as likely to be flamed. But there are also a couple of posters on SB that I don't particularly care for, and I find myself grinding my teeth too often to consider it my "home board."

wadingmoose · June 2010

P2's husband isn't the only one who has been affected by his cancer. While we're handing him a free pass to forget things, how about we hand his wife a free pass to have irrationally angry moments.

It's not easy watching someone you love go through cancer and I can't imagine the stress and emotional roller coaster she has been on while he's been going through this.

AmoroAgain · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:4c2c1304-47ca-43eb-8752-39bf2a3fb7cf">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I flame amoro for not knowing what the fuuck all-inclusive means. This above flame doesn't make sense.
Posted by SarahSmile23[/QUOTE]

You're right. I did make a typo there. But I'm sooo glad your highness came by to tell me about ! I meant all exclusive.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · June 2010

Sarah, that's a super cute sig pic. Your H really does look like Ben Affleck from that angle.

maratea · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:f5c269eb-47a5-4b6d-b318-bb5bbbe45614">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Really, I think they should just be honest about what they're doing. We want SB to an all-inclusive, impenetrable group like AFSB was. Then hey, things are fine. But pretending that's not what they're doing? Lame.
Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]

There are several new posters over there, and as long as they're not stupid, they've been welcomed. Part of the reason I post over there more is because on E I felt like people would ignore me and only respond to their friends or regs. On SB, it seemed like everyone talked to everyone, regardless of status.

Kati0105 · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:77c8f589-8560-4d99-84a3-07b5266f80ae">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : That comment right there seems to imply that someone would need to be welcomed or given permission to post.
Posted by FutureMrsTR[/QUOTE]

Exactly.

jasmineh7777 · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:b18d1383-cdfb-4148-a63d-462e8b93dfb1">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : But she HAD to Dani, to prove her loyalty!! *eyeroll* Yet another reason why there's something going over there. I really don't care, I don't want to be part of that group, but don't pretend about your purpose. <strong>That just implies that you think we're stupid enough to flal for it.</strong>
Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]

That just sounds paranoid. If people on SB wanted it to be private, they would start a private board. Just as no one here wants to be thought of as stupid, the people on SB certainly aren't stupid, and realize that it is a public board.

mandapanda78 · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:a63542e8-5f25-4567-bc2a-a5877227197d">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I thought Amoro saying Nebb was ridiculous for getting upset about the FB thing is crazy because if that had happened to her she would have flipped out.
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

<div>Whoa, you can predict other people's reactions to situations that haven't even happened? That's an amazing talent! Can you also predict the lottery? Because I'd love some winning numbers.</div>

mandysmear · June 2010

Nebb shared with the class/world that her ex-BF commented on her photos.

That'd be like someone saying, "oh mandy's husband is a chef." And I turned around and was like "HOW DARE YOU TALK ABOUT MY PERSONAL LIFE ON THE KNOT!!!" I have shared that here. It's common knowledge around these here parts.

That was the most ridiculous thing. And I think it's totally okay to say, "yeah nebb unfriended me." I didn't see the big deal in that at all. Not like she was NEBB FIRST LAST NAME who lives in BLANK and works at BLANK and went to school at BLANK SCHOOL defriended me.

And nebb has every right to defriend whomever she wants. I am an advocate in internet safety. So, yeah, my take on the situation.

[Deleted User] · June 2010

P2's husband didn't just forget though, she said he ran into a friend and lost track of time. I'd be irritated too.

nda_roxybabe · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:8d40201a-7170-4d66-89ef-4355db0fc4c0">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : If what happened? All that happened is someone said "Nebb unfriended me and I was sad because I like her". The person who got unfriended has just as much right to talk about it as Nebb does to not talk about it. If you don't like it, don't be FB friends with knotties. Nothing else personal was revealed.
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

If people had said "amoro unfriended me" I could just see Amoro freaking out and saying "thats private! That doesn't belong here!"

AmoroAgain · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:8d40201a-7170-4d66-89ef-4355db0fc4c0">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : If what happened? All that happened is someone said "Nebb unfriended me and I was sad because I like her". The person who got unfriended has just as much right to talk about it as Nebb does to not talk about it. If you don't like it, don't be FB friends with knotties. Nothing else personal was revealed.
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]
Actually, I could list all the knotties I've defriended, or they could do it for me, and I wouldn't give a crap. Because I did it for a reason.

Also, Meaghan. You're full of crap. You too, SS.

SarahSmile23 · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:9c1aa3eb-6635-451d-bc0c-181d6fac6e17">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : You're right. I did make a typo there. But I'm sooo glad your highness came by to tell me about ! I meant all exclusive.
Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]
Any time! But, for future reference, I prefer Your Majesty.

wadingmoose · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:3ae69735-3b7a-463e-b843-d57b4cf98ecf">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : There are several new posters over there, and as long as they're not stupid, they've been welcomed. Part of the reason I post over there more is because on E I felt like people would ignore me and only respond to their friends or regs. On SB, it seemed like everyone talked to everyone, regardless of status.
Posted by maratea[/QUOTE]

The irony here is that SB is ultimately most of the old E regs.

sucrets4 · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:a64b208c-ca88-4547-b653-5cce07d95dd4">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]P2's husband isn't the only one who has been affected by his cancer. While we're handing him a free pass to forget things, how about we hand his wife a free pass to have irrationally angry moments. It's not easy watching someone you love go through cancer and I can't imagine the stress and emotional roller coaster she has been on while he's been going through this.
Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]

Okay, being angry <strong>at that event</strong> is one thing and I can understand being upset. But to pick on him about how he put his dish in the dishwasher and then not feeling bad about it at all the next day is shitty, imho. Holy unrelated and petty.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · June 2010

I'm jumping on the Celles bandwagon. I participate in discussions on SB because some people I like post over there. That's really all I have to say about that. But even before some E regs jumped ship to SB, I would board hop to my local, my club board, invites and paper, and sometimes WP. So I never thought I was "defecting."

danieliza1127 · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:4724bb09-6871-4632-a9e7-c592aebc7d92">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I think the fact that SB is lobbying so hard for a name change demonstrates that it ISN'T trying to be the new AFSB. If everyone who "migrated" from E went to Chit Chat instead of SB, would there be the same drama? Or is it simply because the perception some people have that the new SB is attempting (and failing) to emulate AFSB?
Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]

There is back story that I think hasn't been revealed on the boards, so know that. Secondly, I will only speak for myself here, I never thought for a second that they went there to emulate AFSB. In my opinion and observations, they went there to have more control over a/the/their own board and to get away from certain E regs.

mandysmear · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:a64b208c-ca88-4547-b653-5cce07d95dd4">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]P2's husband isn't the only one who has been affected by his cancer. While we're handing him a free pass to forget things, how about we hand his wife a free pass to have irrationally angry moments. It's not easy watching someone you love go through cancer and I can't imagine the stress and emotional roller coaster she has been on while he's been going through this.
Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]

♥ You always say things so much more eloquently than I ever could.

MeaghanandMichael · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:a9311550-3260-4cb2-9ce3-dcb74e6d70f5">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : If people had said "amoro unfriended me" I could just see Amoro freaking out and saying "thats private! That doesn't belong here!"
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

*snort*

Carry on Amoro, carry on. The rest of us will go back to enjoying our dinner while the child at the next table throws her spaghetti and screams for attention.

salt78 · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:a64b208c-ca88-4547-b653-5cce07d95dd4">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE] It's not easy watching someone you love go through cancer and I can't imagine the stress and emotional roller coaster she has been on while he's been going through this.
Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]

<div>THIS THIS A MILLION TIMES THIS. </div>

AmoroAgain · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:a9311550-3260-4cb2-9ce3-dcb74e6d70f5">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : If people had said "amoro unfriended me" I could just see Amoro freaking out and saying "thats private! That doesn't belong here!"
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

I'm really glad that you live in my head Roxy. Because, I really wasn't sure how I would respond to something, until you told me how. THANK YOU.

Then again, no. I have issues when people reveal the contents of PRIVATE MESSAGES because they're, you know, PRIVATE. But the nature of defriending? Come on. That's stupid to get pissed about.

wadingmoose · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:9922ea4c-bec7-412b-bb4a-65aa78a92475">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Okay, being angry at that event is one thing and I can understand being upset. But to pick on him about how he put his dish in the dishwasher and then not feeling bad about it at all the next day is shitty, imho. Holy unrelated and petty.
Posted by sucrets4[/QUOTE]

And possibly caused by the stress and anger that the whole situation has involved for both of them. Sure it's petty, but unless you've been there, I don't think you know how you would handle it. Especially now that his chemo is over. Some of that residual stress and anger is going to come out - potentially in inappropriate ways.

nda_roxybabe · June 2010

Manda - it's all 7's when you win I want a cut.

MattsPenguin · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:f44e3190-fbe0-4c15-96eb-aec2e585733a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Think before you post.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

Will do.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:a9311550-3260-4cb2-9ce3-dcb74e6d70f5">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : If people had said "amoro unfriended me" I could just see Amoro freaking out and saying "thats private! That doesn't belong here!"
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

Actully, Amoro herself admitted in that thread that she's defriended a ton of people. If someone asked, "did you defriend me?" I'm sure she's fess up.

maratea · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:3396744c-cb95-446f-a5ea-d8fe541d760f">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : The irony here is that SB is ultimately most of the old E regs.
Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]

True, but those "old" E regs were also the only ones who would respond to me on E in the first place. I still like both boards, I just tend to post on SB more because that's where I get the most response.

SarahSmile23 · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:b3bd733f-5818-48f9-b95c-fc7f6b8c49ab">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Actually, I could list all the knotties I've defriended, or they could do it for me, and I wouldn't give a crap. Because I did it for a reason. Also, Meaghan. <strong>You're full of crap. You too, SS.
</strong>Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]

awesome.

got anything else you want to rehash endlessly? because it's awesome when every single FFF sounds exactly like the previous week's.

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