I guess you're right. No one should be proud of what they got for Christmas. I guess I should take down the picture of me and the bottle of wine I got. I'm clearly missing the spirit of the season.
"In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:d444ebda-1913-4e76-aa04-d281b6336ccb">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : Yes, I did... she is on welfare/state aid, gets food stamps, and (purposely, which she admitted at work) failed for several months to report that she was working at all, let alone FT to the state because she "likes getting their free money". Posted by KellyBrian2013[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:05e75f87-163c-4fd7-acac-39e2e7500389">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]I judge any SAHM who constantly posts on twitter and facebook about how they have the hardest job in the world and don't get vacations. You know what I don't see? The working moms that I know posting things like "I hope my boss takes an extra long nap today so I can catch up on some rest" the way I see my SAHM friends posting about their babies. I'm sure it's not easy being home all day with small children, but I don't see how staying home all day with your baby and cleaning, etc. is that much more challenging than working all day and THEN going home to clean, do laundry, etc. Posted by djhar[/QUOTE]
<div>I judge this too and I'm SAHM. I'm not busy and my job isn't the "hardest job". It was a lot harder when I was worker and being a mom.</div><div> </div>
My husband got me a really nice watch and a wii. Damn him for being generous!
I agree that posting that shiit for the world to see is snotty, but I don't think that's the point.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:55ed0ea1-4fac-4366-8e16-9b81c5d0e72a">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : *hangs head in shame* I hear you, DJ. In that vein, I judge one of my sister's friends who constantly puts up things on FB like "Who wants to babysit my kids tonight? I pay in cookies!" and then two hours later "I guess I know who my REAL friends are! Don't ask me to do any favors for you someday!" Holyshit. They're YOUR kids. Not wanting to sit for them for free, last minute, =/= not being a friend. Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]
That would drive me fucking nuts, Bay. Good lord.
"Halloween may have loose women scantily clad... But Christmas has a pregnant virgin.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:76d190e2-ea0d-4317-a333-1b9b1f091585">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]I pay for groceries with diamonds. Currency is for chumps. Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:bd06ffa0-e5f7-49da-99b5-e79ff674d8d8">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : It's not just old people here! That's the worst part! Posted by krizzo17[/QUOTE]
Why aren't young people allowed to use checks? I love my Disney checks thankyouverymuch. I normally use my debit card but sometimes I prefer my checks. You can put notes on checks, major plus sometimes.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:e23c7b5f-3965-42f9-9062-5c4e611b1633">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : I don't like the word hubby. Don't really have an explanation as to why, though. Posted by crfb87[/QUOTE]
Me neither! But I think it's because it reminds me of "chubby hubby", and I feel like they're calling their husband fat.
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In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:92f5298f-1359-45c1-be82-31b3267ae93f">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : Why aren't young people allowed to use checks? <strong>I love my Disney checks thankyouverymuch</strong>. I normally use my debit card but sometimes I prefer my checks. You can put notes on checks, major plus sometimes. Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:45e6bad7-4a8b-41f3-9d89-ee91d7369c85">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]North Dakotans poop snowballs. Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]
<div>Oh, well that makes everything ok. I apologize, I was unaware of this fact.</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:02994b9f-4bd5-4f2b-af46-6926125e8dd1">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]Fishy and AATB! Your town was on the radio the other day. Apparently your cops are using drones to spy on people. Tin foil hat time, my friends. Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]
Haha I know. We have a UAV/UAS mission about an hour north of us, near one of the best flight schools in the world or someshit. NorDakoter. Spyin' on yer peoples.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:5641447b-270e-48f6-a8d2-49a2c6a66413">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : Ha, who doesn't like getting free money? I'm just sayin. Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]
Touche.
But her "free" money is coming from the taxes out of my paycheck... which is MUCH smaller than her paycheck, I assure you.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:e6e0508e-ea66-4594-b11b-4211ea208f96">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : But that's what it's there for. To be used. Abused, no. Used, yes. Having a purse is not abusing the system. Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]
I'm not saying that having a purse is abusing the system. If I were in that situation I wouldn't keep things like that. I'd do whatever it took to get money for rent, groceries or whatever things I needed. It's just not OK for someone to have something of value like that and use food stamps.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:55ed0ea1-4fac-4366-8e16-9b81c5d0e72a">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : *hangs head in shame* I hear you, DJ. In that vein, I judge one of my sister's friends who constantly puts up things on FB like "Who wants to babysit my kids tonight? I pay in cookies!" and then two hours later "I guess I know who my REAL friends are! Don't ask me to do any favors for you someday!" Holyshit. They're YOUR kids. Not wanting to sit for them for free, last minute, =/= not being a friend. Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]
<div>I notice a lot of SAHMs on my FB are always talking about knowing who their real friends are. They never explain why. Now I will assume it is because no one will babysit for them and no one wants to be paid in cookies. </div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:db809f44-a992-432e-b598-6e6cb4a76534">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : I'm not saying that having a purse is abusing the system. If I were in that situation I wouldn't keep things like that. I'd do whatever it took to get money for rent, groceries or whatever things I needed.<strong> It's just not OK for someone to have something of value like that and use food stamps. </strong>Posted by ILoveToRobot[/QUOTE]
That is the most ridiculous thing I've heard in awhile. Gold star for you today.
"Halloween may have loose women scantily clad... But Christmas has a pregnant virgin.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:db809f44-a992-432e-b598-6e6cb4a76534">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : I'm not saying that having a purse is abusing the system. If I were in that situation I wouldn't keep things like that. I'd do whatever it took to get money for rent, groceries or whatever things I needed. It's just not OK for someone to have something of value like that and use food stamps. Posted by ILoveToRobot[/QUOTE] You're being willfully dense now, aren't you? I've alraedy explained twice how this particular system works FROM EXPERIENCE.
SELLING THE PURSE WON'T GET YOU OFF FOOD STAMPS.
"In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:77b6480f-17d0-4b87-b367-5c53fb1f48f1">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : Touche. But her "free" money is coming from the taxes out of my paycheck... which is MUCH smaller than her paycheck, I assure you. Posted by KellyBrian2013[/QUOTE]
So people that are on food stamps should have nothing of value? Why don't we make them sell their houses and cars and give them a box to live in and a tricycle to drive around. You are an idiot.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:091f5f26-5755-4751-b8e6-8678f0f634d2Post:1694517c-794b-4e37-92c8-a3323c364cd1">Re: I judge..</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : You're being willfully dense now, aren't you? I've alraedy explained twice how this particular system works FROM EXPERIENCE. SELLING THE PURSE WON'T GET YOU OFF FOOD STAMPS. Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]
I never said selling the purse would get you off food stamps.
Re: I judge..
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Bear in mind that making 1000 dollars a month is ABOVE what is considered poverty level.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : Yes, I did... she is on welfare/state aid, gets food stamps, and (purposely, which she admitted at work) failed for several months to report that she was working at all, let alone FT to the state because she "likes getting their free money".
Posted by KellyBrian2013[/QUOTE]
Ha, who doesn't like getting free money?
I'm just sayin.
[QUOTE]I judge any SAHM who constantly posts on twitter and facebook about how they have the hardest job in the world and don't get vacations. You know what I don't see? The working moms that I know posting things like "I hope my boss takes an extra long nap today so I can catch up on some rest" the way I see my SAHM friends posting about their babies. I'm sure it's not easy being home all day with small children, but I don't see how staying home all day with your baby and cleaning, etc. is that much more challenging than working all day and THEN going home to clean, do laundry, etc.
Posted by djhar[/QUOTE]
<div>I judge this too and I'm SAHM. I'm not busy and my job isn't the "hardest job". It was a lot harder when I was worker and being a mom.</div><div>
</div>
Vacation with Alix, Andy, Mandy, and FLORENCE. AND HER MACHINE.
The Margarita Evolution
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : *hangs head in shame* I hear you, DJ. In that vein, I judge one of my sister's friends who constantly puts up things on FB like "Who wants to babysit my kids tonight? I pay in cookies!" and then two hours later "I guess I know who my REAL friends are! Don't ask me to do any favors for you someday!" Holyshit. They're YOUR kids. Not wanting to sit for them for free, last minute, =/= not being a friend.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]
That would drive me fucking nuts, Bay. Good lord.
"Halloween may have loose women scantily clad...
But Christmas has a pregnant virgin.
Way cooler." - anna.oskar
[QUOTE]I pay for groceries with diamonds. Currency is for chumps.
Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]
VENDOR!!!!!1111!!
Fatty girl blog
"Halloween may have loose women scantily clad...
But Christmas has a pregnant virgin.
Way cooler." - anna.oskar
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : It's not just old people here! That's the worst part!
Posted by krizzo17[/QUOTE]
Why aren't young people allowed to use checks? I love my Disney checks thankyouverymuch. I normally use my debit card but sometimes I prefer my checks. You can put notes on checks, major plus sometimes.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : I don't like the word hubby. Don't really have an explanation as to why, though.
Posted by crfb87[/QUOTE]
Me neither! But I think it's because it reminds me of "chubby hubby", and I feel like they're calling their husband fat.
50 in 2012 Reading Challenge: 2 books read
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Wait...drones?
Vacation with Alix, Andy, Mandy, and FLORENCE. AND HER MACHINE.
The Margarita Evolution
"Halloween may have loose women scantily clad...
But Christmas has a pregnant virgin.
Way cooler." - anna.oskar
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : Why aren't young people allowed to use checks? <strong>I love my Disney checks thankyouverymuch</strong>. I normally use my debit card but sometimes I prefer my checks. You can put notes on checks, major plus sometimes.
Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]
Oh Midge. I <3 you. :)
Books read in 2012: 21/50
[QUOTE]North Dakotans poop snowballs.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]
<div>Oh, well that makes everything ok. I apologize, I was unaware of this fact.</div>
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[QUOTE]Fishy and AATB! Your town was on the radio the other day. Apparently your cops are using drones to spy on people. Tin foil hat time, my friends.
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]
Haha I know. We have a UAV/UAS mission about an hour north of us, near one of the best flight schools in the world or someshit. NorDakoter. Spyin' on yer peoples.
"Halloween may have loose women scantily clad...
But Christmas has a pregnant virgin.
Way cooler." - anna.oskar
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : Ha, who doesn't like getting free money? I'm just sayin.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]
Touche.
But her "free" money is coming from the taxes out of my paycheck... which is MUCH smaller than her paycheck, I assure you.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : But that's what it's there for. To be used. Abused, no. Used, yes. Having a purse is not abusing the system.
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]
I'm not saying that having a purse is abusing the system. If I were in that situation I wouldn't keep things like that. I'd do whatever it took to get money for rent, groceries or whatever things I needed. It's just not OK for someone to have something of value like that and use food stamps.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : *hangs head in shame* I hear you, DJ. In that vein, I judge one of my sister's friends who constantly puts up things on FB like "Who wants to babysit my kids tonight? I pay in cookies!" and then two hours later "I guess I know who my REAL friends are! Don't ask me to do any favors for you someday!" Holyshit. They're YOUR kids. Not wanting to sit for them for free, last minute, =/= not being a friend.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]
<div>I notice a lot of SAHMs on my FB are always talking about knowing who their real friends are. They never explain why. Now I will assume it is because no one will babysit for them and no one wants to be paid in cookies. </div>
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : I'm not saying that having a purse is abusing the system. If I were in that situation I wouldn't keep things like that. I'd do whatever it took to get money for rent, groceries or whatever things I needed.<strong> It's just not OK for someone to have something of value like that and use food stamps.
</strong>Posted by ILoveToRobot[/QUOTE]
That is the most ridiculous thing I've heard in awhile. Gold star for you today.
"Halloween may have loose women scantily clad...
But Christmas has a pregnant virgin.
Way cooler." - anna.oskar
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : I'm not saying that having a purse is abusing the system. If I were in that situation I wouldn't keep things like that. I'd do whatever it took to get money for rent, groceries or whatever things I needed. It's just not OK for someone to have something of value like that and use food stamps.
Posted by ILoveToRobot[/QUOTE]
You're being willfully dense now, aren't you? I've alraedy explained twice how this particular system works FROM EXPERIENCE.
SELLING THE PURSE WON'T GET YOU OFF FOOD STAMPS.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : Touche. But her "free" money is coming from the taxes out of my paycheck... which is MUCH smaller than her paycheck, I assure you.
Posted by KellyBrian2013[/QUOTE]
Oh, I'm sorry that life isn't fair for you.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.. : You're being willfully dense now, aren't you? I've alraedy explained twice how this particular system works FROM EXPERIENCE. SELLING THE PURSE WON'T GET YOU OFF FOOD STAMPS.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]
I never said selling the purse would get you off food stamps.