*I felt sorry for my husband before I met him. Take a number.*
Oh please hunny. Please tell me about your awful life.What you fail to see the difference in is that noone is trying to tell you how you should react in those situations. You on the other hand are throwing out ALL sorts of judgements about something that you have NEVER had to choose. And im on my last straw of patience here. People like you need to learn to STFU.