Bridesmaid with Hot Pink Hair

mrscomposer · November 2014

Oh! This show was younger than I was, but it was around when my brother was little and I was nannying - did you guys hear that the lemur from Zaboomafoo died? I haz a sad.

hellohkb · November 2014

mikenberger said:

I have AW my pink hair in attempts to AW and steer the awful awful advice away.

Let's turn this thread into an AW to make the SS's heads spin!

raissyrais · November 2014

esstee33 said:

Hahahaha, wait, what? Did she seriously just take a random shot in the dark to try to insult someone based on musical preferences they may or may not even have?

Sounds like that asshole the other day who tried to make someone feel bad for the previous jobs they've had. I mean, how low can you go really?

levioosa · November 2014

hellohkb said:

mikenberger said:

I have AW my pink hair in attempts to AW and steer the awful awful advice away.

Let's turn this thread into an AW to make the SS's heads spin!

=( I don't have any pictures from when I had pink hair. Boo! But I'll enjoy seeing pictures from you ladies!

mrscomposer · November 2014

Yes! Not knotting at work today, so I actually have access to my pictures. I flip flop between plum purple and a nice deep red (margarita picture and black shirt picture). The platinum was the first dye job after I was done training and was able to control my hair again.

I also had purple streaks for my sister's wedding, and our cousin had actual purple hair. She's a fox. It doesn't ruin the pictures.

levioosa · November 2014

Ooh, if we're doing purple then I can join in!

I did a hair show, so my hair was purple for a little bit. Sadly I had to change it back before Halloween or else I would have been Rogue that year.

Nursesophie89 · November 2014

honeydukes16 said:

So I'm in the very early stages of planning my wedding, but I'm already worrying about one of closest friend's hot pink hair. She's a natural blonde, who started out with a small strip of hot pink in her hair 3 years ago. It has slowly taken over the majority of her hair color over the past few years, with only the bottom layer her natural color. I definitely want her in my bridal party, but the hair color has me concerned. My fiance and I plan on having a traditional wedding, mansion style, and the rest of my bridal party have natural hair colors. I had casually mentioned to my friend about her hair color before I was engaged and she said she'd have no issue changing her hair color, but another time said she refuses to change her hair color for anyone (including my wedding). All I keep envisioning is me having to plan my wedding colors around the hair so it won't clash, or that it will stick out like a sore thumb in pictures. Now, fiance and I don't plan on getting married until Summer 2016, but I highly doubt she has any plans on changing her hair color on her own during that time. Granted, she's also several years younger than myself and the rest of the bridal party. Thoughts? Suggestions? Recommendations on how not to sound Bridezilla about this?

Hi OP, I'm not sure why you've gotten so much shit about this. Sorry if I'm resurrecting an old post. I couldn't see if you resolved this issue as to be honest, I couldn't bring myself to read through all the vitriol on this thread. I thought this was a forum for people to come to get advice, but many people seem to have attacked you and ripped you to shreds. There are ways and means of telling someone you don't agree with their thoughts, without being nasty/attacking their character etc. it's very off putting to newbies like me to this forum. Anyhow, i too have a similar issue. One of my BMs hair is currently bright blue. But actually, this is the least of my worries at the moment due to her current behaviour.(another story for another day) What happened in the end? Did your friend agree to change her hair colour? I hope you didn't get driven away but all the 'helpful' people on here. X

beethery · November 2014

Nursesophie89 said:

honeydukes16 said:

So I'm in the very early stages of planning my wedding, but I'm already worrying about one of closest friend's hot pink hair. She's a natural blonde, who started out with a small strip of hot pink in her hair 3 years ago. It has slowly taken over the majority of her hair color over the past few years, with only the bottom layer her natural color. I definitely want her in my bridal party, but the hair color has me concerned. My fiance and I plan on having a traditional wedding, mansion style, and the rest of my bridal party have natural hair colors. I had casually mentioned to my friend about her hair color before I was engaged and she said she'd have no issue changing her hair color, but another time said she refuses to change her hair color for anyone (including my wedding). All I keep envisioning is me having to plan my wedding colors around the hair so it won't clash, or that it will stick out like a sore thumb in pictures. Now, fiance and I don't plan on getting married until Summer 2016, but I highly doubt she has any plans on changing her hair color on her own during that time. Granted, she's also several years younger than myself and the rest of the bridal party. Thoughts? Suggestions? Recommendations on how not to sound Bridezilla about this?

Hi OP, I'm not sure why you've gotten so much shit about this. Sorry if I'm resurrecting an old post. I couldn't see if you resolved this issue as to be honest, I couldn't bring myself to read through all the vitriol on this thread. I thought this was a forum for people to come to get advice, but many people seem to have attacked you and ripped you to shreds. There are ways and means of telling someone you don't agree with their thoughts, without being nasty/attacking their character etc. it's very off putting to newbies like me to this forum. Anyhow, i too have a similar issue. One of my BMs hair is currently bright blue. But actually, this is the least of my worries at the moment due to her current behaviour.(another story for another day) What happened in the end? Did your friend agree to change her hair colour? I hope you didn't get driven away but all the 'helpful' people on here. X

You do not own her hair!!!! CUT THIS SHIT OUT.

lyndausvi · November 2014

I have and will continue to do a lot of for my friends. I've loaned them thousands of dollars, I've let them stay in my home for extended period of time. I've dropped everything to be with them when they needed me. I've spent hours stuffing envelopes. I've spent entire nights tying ribbons on programs. I've gone out and purchased ice cream and wine and stayed up with them all night as they cried over a failed relationship.

I draw the line at changing my hair color, cutting my hair or adding extensions.

If that makes me a bad friend, so be it.

mikenberger · November 2014

Nursesophie89 said:

honeydukes16 said:

So I'm in the very early stages of planning my wedding, but I'm already worrying about one of closest friend's hot pink hair. She's a natural blonde, who started out with a small strip of hot pink in her hair 3 years ago. It has slowly taken over the majority of her hair color over the past few years, with only the bottom layer her natural color. I definitely want her in my bridal party, but the hair color has me concerned. My fiance and I plan on having a traditional wedding, mansion style, and the rest of my bridal party have natural hair colors. I had casually mentioned to my friend about her hair color before I was engaged and she said she'd have no issue changing her hair color, but another time said she refuses to change her hair color for anyone (including my wedding). All I keep envisioning is me having to plan my wedding colors around the hair so it won't clash, or that it will stick out like a sore thumb in pictures. Now, fiance and I don't plan on getting married until Summer 2016, but I highly doubt she has any plans on changing her hair color on her own during that time. Granted, she's also several years younger than myself and the rest of the bridal party. Thoughts? Suggestions? Recommendations on how not to sound Bridezilla about this?

Hi OP,

I'm not sure why you've gotten so much shit about this. Sorry if I'm resurrecting an old post. I couldn't see if you resolved this issue as to be honest, I couldn't bring myself to read through all the vitriol on this thread. I thought this was a forum for people to come to get advice, but many people seem to have attacked you and ripped you to shreds. There are ways and means of telling someone you don't agree with their thoughts, without being nasty/attacking their character etc. it's very off putting to newbies like me to this forum.

Anyhow, i too have a similar issue. One of my BMs hair is currently bright blue. But actually, this is the least of my worries at the moment due to her current behaviour.(another story for another day) What happened in the end? Did your friend agree to change her hair colour? I hope you didn't get driven away but all the 'helpful' people on here. X
----------------- (stupid boxes.)

I hate it when I'm so rude as not to allow someone to dictate how I wear my hair.

VulgarGirl · November 2014

Nursesophie89 said:

honeydukes16 said:

So I'm in the very early stages of planning my wedding, but I'm already worrying about one of closest friend's hot pink hair. She's a natural blonde, who started out with a small strip of hot pink in her hair 3 years ago. It has slowly taken over the majority of her hair color over the past few years, with only the bottom layer her natural color. I definitely want her in my bridal party, but the hair color has me concerned. My fiance and I plan on having a traditional wedding, mansion style, and the rest of my bridal party have natural hair colors. I had casually mentioned to my friend about her hair color before I was engaged and she said she'd have no issue changing her hair color, but another time said she refuses to change her hair color for anyone (including my wedding). All I keep envisioning is me having to plan my wedding colors around the hair so it won't clash, or that it will stick out like a sore thumb in pictures. Now, fiance and I don't plan on getting married until Summer 2016, but I highly doubt she has any plans on changing her hair color on her own during that time. Granted, she's also several years younger than myself and the rest of the bridal party. Thoughts? Suggestions? Recommendations on how not to sound Bridezilla about this?

Hi OP, I'm not sure why you've gotten so much shit about this. Sorry if I'm resurrecting an old post. I couldn't see if you resolved this issue as to be honest, I couldn't bring myself to read through all the vitriol on this thread. I thought this was a forum for people to come to get advice, but many people seem to have attacked you and ripped you to shreds. There are ways and means of telling someone you don't agree with their thoughts, without being nasty/attacking their character etc. it's very off putting to newbies like me to this forum. Anyhow, i too have a similar issue. One of my BMs hair is currently bright blue. But actually, this is the least of my worries at the moment due to her current behaviour.(another story for another day) What happened in the end? Did your friend agree to change her hair colour? I hope you didn't get driven away but all the 'helpful' people on here. X

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slothiegal · November 2014

Nursesophie89 said:

honeydukes16 said:

So I'm in the very early stages of planning my wedding, but I'm already worrying about one of closest friend's hot pink hair. She's a natural blonde, who started out with a small strip of hot pink in her hair 3 years ago. It has slowly taken over the majority of her hair color over the past few years, with only the bottom layer her natural color. I definitely want her in my bridal party, but the hair color has me concerned. My fiance and I plan on having a traditional wedding, mansion style, and the rest of my bridal party have natural hair colors. I had casually mentioned to my friend about her hair color before I was engaged and she said she'd have no issue changing her hair color, but another time said she refuses to change her hair color for anyone (including my wedding). All I keep envisioning is me having to plan my wedding colors around the hair so it won't clash, or that it will stick out like a sore thumb in pictures. Now, fiance and I don't plan on getting married until Summer 2016, but I highly doubt she has any plans on changing her hair color on her own during that time. Granted, she's also several years younger than myself and the rest of the bridal party. Thoughts? Suggestions? Recommendations on how not to sound Bridezilla about this?

Hi OP, I'm not sure why you've gotten so much shit about this. Sorry if I'm resurrecting an old post. I couldn't see if you resolved this issue as to be honest, I couldn't bring myself to read through all the vitriol on this thread. I thought this was a forum for people to come to get advice, but many people seem to have attacked you and ripped you to shreds. There are ways and means of telling someone you don't agree with their thoughts, without being nasty/attacking their character etc. it's very off putting to newbies like me to this forum. Anyhow, i too have a similar issue. One of my BMs hair is currently bright blue. But actually, this is the least of my worries at the moment due to her current behaviour.(another story for another day) What happened in the end? Did your friend agree to change her hair colour? I hope you didn't get driven away but all the 'helpful' people on here. X

This is the only sensible thing you said because it should be the least of your worries because IT IS NOT AN ISSUE AT ALL.

jdluvr06 · November 2014

Wow... I can't believe this thread is still going. It's been what? Like two months?

iloveu4ever · December 2014

She might change it without you know it.

rjmurphkan · December 2014

I just wouldn't ask her to be in my wedding, if it really matters that much to you. But it's your wedding.

climbingsingle · December 2014

OMG. Let this post die already!

triciathesav · December 2014

I must say let the thread die already but then I'm a bride with pink, purple and blue hair so I'm "ruining" my own wedding lol

[Deleted User] · December 2014

WTF! I skipped a lot of the thread, but seriously, OP what are you thinking?!?

You do not have the RIGHT or GOOD SENSE to ask someone to drastically alter their appearance for you. Let them be themselves! How difficult is that?

My SIL asked me if it was okay if our nephew cut his hair prior to our wedding (our formal wedding) or kept it longer. I told her that it didn't matter. She is his mother and can do with his hair as she pleases.

Our reader sent her outfit to me for approval. I was shocked! I didn't care what she wore as long as she was comfortable. The outfit was a perfect representation of her, which is what mattered.

Get over yourself! Fun hair rocks! I would totally do it if our company policy allowed it, but it doesn't, so I stretch the "natural" highlights as far as I can and go with some fun nail polish instead, which is probably still considered tame.

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