FFF!

csousa1

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF! : It's cool.  I don't get the Hunger Games obsession. That was actually going to be my UO for the day anyway. Everytime there's a new "omghungergamesisthebestthingever" thread, I get just a teensy bit irritated.  It's irrational, because I did enjoy reading the series.  I just don't think it's worth all of the hype.  The books are enjoyable,<strong> but their massively flawed. </strong> It makes me sad that they get love around here from people who either don't like or have never read HP.  I don't get it.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

I flame the CRAP out of this, Grammar Queen.

I am so unnecessarily gleeful at catching Elle - of all people - make a grammar slip up :) That can't happen very often.

Swazzle

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[QUOTE]Oh, random thought since we're talking about HP so much. <strong>Nobody actually thinks I'm going to hate them for saying they're not an HP fan, right?</strong>  I mean, I love being the board's resident Scarhead and all, but <strong>I'm not a crazy bitch</strong>. ...even if I did defriend somebody on facebook once for asking in a status if "HP is really as good as Twilight".
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

<div>No, I don't.  And yes I would definitely think you were a crazy bitch if you did hahaha</div>

csousa1

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF! :<strong> I concur
</strong>Posted by IrishDreamer[/QUOTE]

<3 you :)

csousa1

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:9bb6a68f-3529-474a-8f1d-532d87e511f9Post:0e6d5091-fb1f-4d59-9369-944a20f7c95c">Re: FFF!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF! : I accept my flame and as always thank you for the ego boost. And I will try to complain less. However, fair warning: when I see you <strong>Sunday</strong> I'm hauling you into a dressing room and stripping down to my skivvies and making you stare at 217 lbs of droopy lumps and cellulite to see if you can see my perspective at all before I shut up. :)
Posted by LivLeighton[/QUOTE]

I flame you both for hanging out without me. You are now both on the wrong side of 5 - of my friendship scale.

That's right, I'm pouting bitches!

Swazzle

We suck at FFF.

Elle1036

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF! : I flame the CRAP out of this, Grammar Queen. I am so unnecessarily gleeful at catching Elle - of all people - make a grammar slip up :) That can't happen very often.
Posted by csousa1[/QUOTE]

Oohhhh...  Shiiiit.

Did that really happen?

I flame myself for utter stupidity.

bethsmiles

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[QUOTE]We suck at FFF.
Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

Yup.

Elle1036

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9bb6a68f-3529-474a-8f1d-532d87e511f9Post:d3c127b8-5f9b-4775-be1c-18f5182f735f">Re: FFF!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF! : I honestly never noticed that HG was written badly, even when I read it the second time, but that sort of thing really doesn't bother me.  If a book is interesting/entertaining I'll just get lost in it regardless.  I wasn't even bothered by the ending until I heard everyone's opinion here, reread it & realized you were all so right about that, I totally agreed. 
Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

Like I said, it's irrational that I feel that way.  *shrug*

I, too, have read and really enjoyed poorly-written books.  I think it only bugs me in this case because HG has become such a phenomenon.

jemmini6

I flame myself because I apparently suck at message board cliques because I couldn't even begin to tell you who was in a clique with who.  

I also sort of flame FFF threads, especially how it went down last week.  I just think if you think someone is making a mistake, or being an asshat in a thread, you should just say it in that thread where it's relevant and not bring up a whole new thread just for the purpose of re-hashing how someone screwed up.  This weeks is much better so far though, I'm cool with hammering out board issues or other random stuff.

thejucheidea

I flame all of the women on the Just Engaged board who ask questions about things that belong on other boards.

I also flame all of the chicks on the Budget board who bitch and bitch about how they are forced to have a wedding for $1000 because their mommies and daddies aren't paying for their wedding, so it's either made do with the money they can make themselves or the dreaded courthouse wedding. Go from being the daughter of millionaires to the daughter of people who declared bankruptcy because of the economy, and tell me how it feels when your credit is ruined by your own mother because of the bankruptcy and you can't get sh*t for loans. Be happy with what you have, for serious. You can always find a way around, but if you continue to complain, then I have one statement for you: 'life's a bitch and then you die.' Deal with it. Focus on the fact that you're marrying the one you love and realize that the wedding is one day of the rest of your lives.

GRAAAAHHHHH

And, hm, NEY-related... the chick who met her SO through WoW, I admit that I judged you for playing WoW. WoW is known in our household as the relationship ruiner because people get so frighteningly into it at the expense of relationships. I don't understand the appeal of it.

csousa1

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[QUOTE]I flame all of the women on the Just Engaged board who ask questions about things that belong on other boards. I also flame all of the chicks on the Budget board who bitch and bitch about how they are forced to have a wedding for $1000 because their mommies and daddies aren't paying for their wedding, so it's either made do with the money they can make themselves or the dreaded courthouse wedding. Go from being the daughter of millionaires to the daughter of people who declared bankruptcy because of the economy, and tell me how it feels when your credit is ruined by your own mother because of the bankruptcy and you can't get sh*t for loans. Be happy with what you have, for serious. You can always find a way around, but if you continue to complain, then I have one statement for you: 'life's a bitch and then you die.' Deal with it. Focus on the fact that you're marrying the one you love and realize that the wedding is one day of the rest of your lives. GRAAAAHHHHH And, hm, NEY-related... the chick who met her SO through WoW, I admit that I judged you for playing WoW. <strong>WoW is known in our household as the relationship ruiner because people get so frighteningly into it at the expense of relationships. I don't understand the appeal of it.
</strong>Posted by ahstillwell[/QUOTE]

WoW pretty much ruined my first long term relationship. There were a lot of things wrong, but many of them stemmed from that damn game.

motoLyn

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[QUOTE]I have a (mini) flame for Moto for that WP thread earlier this week. Mini because it seems like it's resolved at this point but at the time I super side-eyed it, which I said in the thread, but I just never think replacing a WP member is OK for any reason, epsecially not to make your sides even. 
Posted by LivLeighton[/QUOTE]

Ohhhhh no you didn't!

 Lol, I take the mini flame, I didn't see it the way that you ladies saw it and so now I'm leaving things be and see what my BMs hash out among themselves. 

Liv you and I are going to have some pretty words when we meet up at  Tigers ;-)

Elle1036

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9bb6a68f-3529-474a-8f1d-532d87e511f9Post:73561c47-9953-449a-847b-83d26d7d508c">Re: FFF!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF! : Ohhhhh no you didn't!  Lol, I take the mini flame, I didn't see it the way that you ladies saw it and so now I'm leaving things be and see what my BMs hash out among themselves.  Liv you and I are going to have some pretty words when we meet up at  Tigers ;-)
Posted by motoLyn[/QUOTE]

And this, ladies and gentlemen(?), is how to respond to a flame.

*applause*

doubleSS07

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[QUOTE]Oh, random thought since we're talking about HP so much. Nobody actually thinks I'm going to hate them for saying they're not an HP fan, right?  I mean, I love being the board's resident Scarhead and all, but I'm not a crazy bitch. ...even if I did defriend somebody on facebook once for asking in a status if "HP is really as good as Twilight".
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

I flame Elle for saying "crazy bitch" because now I keep singing that Buckcherry song in my head!

BTW no I don't think you'd hate someone for not being in to HP.  I admit I'm not that in to it but then again I've never read the books or seen the movies.  Doesn't mean I never will just means I haven't yet.  I think its because I've never really been in to the magic, syfy, vampire type books/movies.

Ollie08

I flame Shoes for starting this thread around lunch time on the east coast. Maybe that's why no one in is playing?

I also flame myself for posting and then going to eat. Will respond in a second.

peekaboo2011

I flame both Ollie and SKP because we haven't had a Get-Together, and my last day in FL is March 10.

AudgiePodge

I flame anyone that blames a game (or anything, really) for breaking up a relationship. The game isn't the cause.

Swazzle

Does anyone remember a while ago Shoes mentioned in a thread that there was someone that shouldn't be getting married but then when everyone asked her who she was referring to she wouldn't say?  I think it was in the last "Shoes Predicts" thread. Tsk Tsk.

IrishDreamer

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[QUOTE]Does anyone remember a while ago Shoes mentioned in a thread that there was someone that shouldn't be getting married but then when everyone asked her who she was referring to she wouldn't say?  I think it was in the last "Shoes Predicts" thread. Tsk Tsk.
Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I remember it - what about it?

Elle1036

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF! : I flame Elle for saying "crazy bitch" because now I keep singing that Buckcherry song in my head! BTW no I don't think you'd hate someone for not being in to HP.  I admit I'm not that in to it but then again I've never read the books or seen the movies.  Doesn't mean I never will just means I haven't yet.  I think its because I've never really been in to the magic, syfy, vampire type books/movies.
Posted by doubleSS07[/QUOTE]

That is an awful song and now it's in my head, too!

I was never into Fantasy before HP either, so I understand your point-of-view.  I'm still not big on it.  HP is just...  the only exception.  (Does that change the song in your head?)

bethsmiles

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[QUOTE]<strong>Does anyone remember a while ago Shoes mentioned in a thread that there was someone that shouldn't be getting married but then when everyone asked her who she was referring to she wouldn't say? </strong> I think it was in the last "Shoes Predicts" thread. Tsk Tsk.
Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

I remember! I still wish she would say who it is.

peekaboo2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9bb6a68f-3529-474a-8f1d-532d87e511f9Post:c01af567-863d-45f9-b415-f72eff52aba6">Re: FFF!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF! : Yeah, I remember it - what about it?
Posted by IrishDreamer[/QUOTE]

<div>We want to know who she was referring to.</div>

Ollie08

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:9bb6a68f-3529-474a-8f1d-532d87e511f9Post:fd2cde48-38d1-4698-9c42-e6f33604b5b4">Re: FFF!</a>:
[QUOTE]I really don't get this... CCO got flamed all over the place last week for her supposed pre-planning. I think the difference is that with new posters (U/O I hate the term 'newbs'), we don't know them, and they bust in here all 'we're unofficially engaged and I want to buy this amazing dress.' With regular posters (U/O Also hate the term 'regs') we know a bit more about them, and know that a couple posts in a thread telling them to chill out or distracting them with pretty shoes is enough to get them back on track. It isn't a double-standard, it's two completely different situations.
Posted by cu97tiger[/QUOTE]

I disagree. I think the difference you're implying is that some of the regular posters don't argue their point. They let it go a little easier. Or play up on the whole <em>I'm just venting to my friends</em> BS.

To be honest, there are several posters here that were around for a while that still posted threads about anticipating engagements and everyone is super sweet and all that. But the second a new poster comes in and posts about it they get torn a new one and told to read the sticky at the top of the page.

I admit I have never been all "save the new girl", to me it just further emphasizes the cliqueyness of the board.

I also flame myself for this post because this was soooo last week's FFF, but I didn't participate then, so yeah.

motoLyn

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF! : And this is why you are awesome. <3
Posted by LivLeighton[/QUOTE]

n Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9bb6a68f-3529-474a-8f1d-532d87e511f9Post:1920c630-f4a5-4faf-a874-3cf862e331ea">Re: FFF!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF! : And this, ladies and gentlemen(?), is how to respond to a flame. *applause*
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

I survived my first flame, mini as it maybe, though I think I singed my eyebrows, ehhh at least its not the first time. 

IrishDreamer

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:9bb6a68f-3529-474a-8f1d-532d87e511f9Post:dfa01e02-9d10-4249-b15b-8918ac5bdb0c">Re: FFF!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF! : We want to know who she was referring to.
Posted by peekaboo2011[/QUOTE]

Remember the Friday moments we were talking about?? Yeah - since I ate lunch my whole afternoon is full of them.

Swazzle

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9bb6a68f-3529-474a-8f1d-532d87e511f9Post:dfa01e02-9d10-4249-b15b-8918ac5bdb0c">Re: FFF!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF! : We want to know who she was referring to.
Posted by peekaboo2011[/QUOTE]

<div>Exactly, & I belatedly flame her for pulling that :)</div>

Ollie08

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:9bb6a68f-3529-474a-8f1d-532d87e511f9Post:b3959883-4be2-468f-9a29-8fb1e9648e53">Re: FFF!</a>:
[QUOTE]Does anyone remember a while ago Shoes mentioned in a thread that there was someone that shouldn't be getting married but then when everyone asked her who she was referring to she wouldn't say?  I think it was in the last "Shoes Predicts" thread. Tsk Tsk.
Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

I missed that, but now I want to know.

So c'mon shoes, spill it.

GoldenPenguin

I flame Sousa for calling out Elle on her grammar slip-up before I could get to it.

I also flame whoever it was who said there are cliques on the board (I'm sorry, I'm forgetting who originally posted it on Page 1) and aren't explaining themselves. I really want to know who is thought to be in with who.

I flame anyone who said in the last FFF that they don't like twatwaffle, douchenozzle, douchecanoe, etc. They're funny.

I flame myself for really wanting a Diamond Candle & not saying it on the earlier thread.

csousa1

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:9bb6a68f-3529-474a-8f1d-532d87e511f9Post:d7596764-eb51-4252-bedf-41e75ee3100f">Re: FFF!</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame anyone that blames a game (or anything, really) for breaking up a relationship. The game isn't the cause.
Posted by AudgiePodge[/QUOTE]

I definitely don't believe my relationship was ruined just because of a game. It exacerbated things to a shocking level that I would not have expected a video game to be capable of. But that relationship was doomed from the beginning and I am beyond grateful that it ended. My only regret was that it didn't end sooner.

csousa1

I believe Shoes did clear that up - didn't she say it was Molly? Because we all desperately wanted her to get away from that creep and find someone worthy of her amazingness.