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runningbride80

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Opinions : I'm perfectly willing to admit that I know most people wouldn't agree with me. I also know that there's no way it could actually be regulatedto a point where everybody, or at least a vast majority, would say "Oh, yeah, that's totally fair".  So it's more of a "Oh, in a perfect world, it could work" pipe dream ... but then again, in a "perfect world", everybody would just be responsible about their children and foster care in general wouldn't exist, KWIM?
Posted by megk8oz[/QUOTE]

This. I don't know that I'd be on board with the sterilization, but I definitely think people should have to take parenting classes, pass a test, get a license or something. Anything to potentially make the chronically irresponsible think before procreating.</div>

megk8oz

Sesh, I'm with you. I think Aprov has a point about prescription meds having the potential to be a slippery slope ... but even then I have minimal sympathy. I'm not proud of people that "get clean" and I don't pity people who aren't ... it's their own fault they weren't "clean" in the first place.

spechtholdn

Ohh drug addicts is a good convo too. I am 50/50 on this one. My ex was an addict. He wasn't when we met and it was horrible to see him start going downhill. I do think it's their choice and you can't do anything for them, but I have also seen firsthand how hard he tried at times to not do drugs. I also can understand how some people are more apt to breaking under peer pressure than others. I was always so strong willed that I never did, but he always would try things when others got on his case. Plus his mom was his main enabler (I do not agree with enabling an addict) but I do understand why she did it. It's very sad to see someone you love do all of these things.

baystateapple

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[QUOTE]State Fair food has no calories, fat, salt, or carbs.
Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

I'll keep that in mind tomorrow when I go <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-wink.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" />

MeaghanandMichael

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[QUOTE]This isn't an opinion per se, but more of a statement that could lead to an opinion. It has appeared to me, 9/10 times that people who drive luxury cars don't feel they have to use signals, obey the speed limit or slow down for yellow lights.
Posted by Shaye526[/QUOTE]

I agree with this big time. They also don't know how to park their huge SUVs and think that because their car is big, the rules of allowing space for other people to drive should not apply to them. I am super conscious of this because I drive a big car.

The other weird thing is that I notice people in absolute shitboxes doing the same thing often. The reason I notice this is because I often think, "well now wonder your car looks like it has been in 74 accidents."

Anysunrise

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[QUOTE]This isn't an opinion per se, but more of a statement that could lead to an opinion. It has appeared to me, 9/10 times that people who drive luxury cars don't feel they have to use signals, obey the speed limit or slow down for yellow lights.
Posted by Shaye526[/QUOTE]

The woman who owned the cottage my mom used to manage would have her employees back out of the driveway for her, because she couldn't do it. She'd still try, but would always have to get someone else to.

Shaye526

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Opinions : I agree with this big time. They also don't know how to park their huge SUVs and think that because their car is big, the rules of allowing space for other people to drive should not apply to them. I am super conscious of this because I drive a big car. <strong>The other weird thing is that I notice people in absolute shitboxes doing the same thing often. The reason I notice this is because I often think, "well now wonder your car looks like it has been in 74 accidents."</strong>
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

Yes. it always seems to be one extreme or the other. But maybe I'm biased and a little jealous because I have never and probably will never own a beautiful mercedes.

aprovencher21

I'm awful at backing up into my driveway.....even with a backup camera.  I think its cause people park in the street and my driveway is on a hill.  I just get nervous.

[Deleted User]

I hadn't thought about prescription drugs in my opinion post. I was thinking about drugs like meth, heroin, cocaine, etc. I do have a little more sympathy for those who get addicted just trying to recover after a surgery or bad accident or whatever happened. I agree that's a sneakier kind of addiction.

As for tiaras, they're NMS but I think they look really good on some people. I don't like the big pretty princess tiaras, but I do remember seeing some really elegant-looking ones at the bridal shop where I got my dress.

aprovencher21

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[QUOTE]I hadn't thought about prescription drugs in my opinion post. I was thinking about drugs like meth, heroin, cocaine, etc. I do have a little more sympathy for those who get addicted just trying to recover after a surgery or bad accident or whatever happened. I agree that's a sneakier kind of addiction. As for tiaras, they're NMS but I think they look really good on some people. I don't like the big pretty princess tiaras, but I do remember seeing some really elegant-looking ones at the bridal shop where I got my dress.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

I only think about prescription drugs because I know after my gallbladder surgery I spent quite a bit of time doped up to deal with the pain.  If I had any addictive tendencies I could see where that could be really tempting and almost start something without realizing anything was going on.

JenGin74

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[QUOTE]People may hate me for this one, but<font color="#800000"><strong> I don't feel sorry for drug addicts</strong></font> and I don't think I should be "proud" of them for getting clean. Sorry, you know what drugs do to you and you know they are addictive. You made your choice to start using, it's your own doing (this comes after a lecture where I was less than sympathetic towards a cousin my mom was telling me about. It may or may not have been enhanced by the fact that I hate him).
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

Neither do I. Not one tiny bit. They weren't forced to become addicts, they chose it. I also have a very strong opinion about this becasue of my ex, so I'm sure that has something to do with it.

JenGin74

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Opinions : I often feel this way unless its something like an addiction to prescription medications.  Often thats a silent and unknown addiction that kinda sneaks up on a person.
Posted by aprovencher21[/QUOTE]

I don't really feel bad for pill poppers either. I was on Vicodin for four years due to a bad car accident. My doctor explained that my meds could become addicting. I took less than I was supposed to (and spent a lot of time in pain) because I was determined NOT to get hooked on those pills.

Again, this probably has a lot to do with my ex. I saw how drugs destroyed him and I will NEVER let that happen to me.

Shaye526

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Opinions : Neither do I. Not one tiny bit. They weren't forced to become addicts, they chose it. I also have a very strong opinion about this becasue of my ex, so I'm sure that has something to do with it.
Posted by JenGin74[/QUOTE]

Just a question for you and seshat:

What about babies who are born addict because their mothers were addicts?

Or what about children who become addicted at early ages when they're not really sure what the consequences are and possibly live in an environment where it's prevalent?

I understand the sentiment of "it was their choice" because it is. I don't feel bad for the fact that they're hooked on drugs or alcohol, but for the simple fact that they felt that was all they could turn to as a solution for their emotional pain/ problems.

katiewhompus

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[QUOTE]Brookleyn made me think of my really unpopular one. If you want to have a kid, but aren't willing to adopt if you can't get pregnant, I think you are more concerned with it being genetically yours than doing the actual raising of the child. I can see being really, really upset if you can't get pregnant, but if your really want to be a mom or dad, why wouldn't you consider adoption or fostering? I know adoption is expensive, but that is a whole seperate issue.
Posted by jasmineh7777[/QUOTE]
(havent read all the posts, will go back and do so, wanted to quote this while  I can)

Surprisingly I completely agree. Yes there are a lot of financial issues and emotional issues with adoption, but I don't understand how people can want kids so badly but be completely opposed to getting one that "isn't theirs". Sure, try IVF for a while, ttc for a while, we probably will do just that. But at the end of the day if it doesn't work then we're going the adoption route. I think if you go forward with the attitude that "I'll have my own genetic kids or I won't have kids at all" that you aren't having kids for the right reasons in the first place.

I also love this adoption quote I found the other day "Infertility doesn't mean you shouldn't have a baby. Maybe it just means your baby was given to the wrong person and is waiting for you to find them."

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Children being born addicted is completely different to me. They didn't make the choice to start using. And I'm not sure what you mean by children who start early. do you mean like little kids who find drugs around the house and try it? Or teenagers who start using because all their friends are and they want to fit in?

Kids who don't understand what they're doing are totally different, like babies being born addicted they aren't aware of what could happen. teenagers who start becuase other people are doing it, no I don't feel sorry for them.

katiewhompus

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Opinions : Well, my two cents on the thing with you? I think you did go over the top with the callout write-over war, but you know that and you tookresponsibility for it so I respect that a lot. I also was annoyed how every one glazed over your VERY pertinent point that if you had been talking about how much money you saved or DIDN'T spend no one would have batted an eye. I had/have this issue as a chip on my shoulder for a long time with these boards. <strong>Also, if people are allowed to talk about buying awesome dresses at Costco, why can't you talk about  Manolos? WHO CARES?
</strong>Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

Stop picking on me just because I shop at Coscto! Just kidding :)
I'm going to end up quoting everything in this thread aren't I? Ok back to reading.

JenGin74

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Opinions : Just a question for you and seshat: What about babies who are born addict because their mothers were addicts? Or what about children who become addicted at early ages when they're not really sure what the consequences are and possibly live in an environment where it's prevalent? I understand the sentiment of "it was their choice" because it is. I don't feel bad for the fact that they're hooked on drugs or alcohol, but for the simple fact that they felt that was all they could turn to as a solution for their emotional pain/ problems.
Posted by Shaye526[/QUOTE]


I feel horrible for babies that are born addicted. They had no choice.

When you say "children who become addicted", how young are you talking about?  if you're talking teenagers, then no. No sympathy there. There's plenty of drug education and I think they should know better. I was a wild (very wild) teenager, and even I knew the limits as far as drugs were concerned.

If you're talking pre-teens, I have some sympathy because if their parents were paying more attention to them, they probably would have realized what was going on before the child became addicted.

[Deleted User]

My unpopular opinion is that there is entirely too much judgement on TK. You get judged if you spend too much. You get judged if you spend too little. You get judged if you're harsh. You get judged if you're too nice.If you talk about any of your choices, most of the time, there will be someone who thinks you're an asshole for it.  It's just silly and  a huge waste of time.  I just don't get why people care so much.

I also think the Heels thing is ridiculous. She made a choice to leave. It was an awesomely healthy choice for her. I actually admire her for what she did. Who gives afuck how she chose to say goodbye? Again, why do people care that much?

And totally unrelated, but I had weight loss surgery 7 years ago and it was the best decision of my life. My surgery was a little bit different than most, but I have a completely normal lifestyle now. I can eat as much as I did before. The only things I can't eat a ice cream, onions, and peppers. It's not for everyone, but it saved my life in so many ways.

aprovencher21

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Opinions : Stop picking on me just because I shop at Coscto! Just kidding :) I'm going to end up quoting everything in this thread aren't I? Ok back to reading.
Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

I love Sams CLub with a fiery passion.  If we didn't shop there I think I'd go broke feeding FI.  Maintaining his muscle mass (and because his job is labor intensive) costs quite a bit of money.  I had no idea how much it costs to feed a guy till we moved in together.  We buy his coldcuts and my salads in bulk because we both eat so much of that during the week.  Also, he love love loves yellow mustard.  We go through a huge bottle like every two weeks.  Totally need Sams club.

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I know what you mean, aprove. H is a landscaper and burns calories like crazy. He eats two helpings of dinner before I'm half done with the first. Feeding him is an expensive thing. He goes through OJ like you wouldn't believe.

Shaye526

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[QUOTE]Children being born addicted is completely different to me. They didn't make the choice to start using. And I'm not sure what you mean by children who start early. do you mean like little kids who find drugs around the house and try it? Or teenagers who start using because all their friends are and they want to fit in? Kids who don't understand what they're doing are totally different, like babies being born addicted they aren't aware of what could happen. teenagers who start becuase other people are doing it, no I don't feel sorry for them.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

Sorry, I didn't explain that. I guess I meant someone like Drew Barrymore for instance. She started drinking and doing drugs at an early age. I know she was a child star so it's slightly different but along the same lines.

I wasn't disagreeing with your or Jen I just wanted to clarify.

I think I find it hard to have such a cut and dry opinion on it because drug and alcohol problems just run rampant in my family. I go back and forth. Sometimes I'm angry at certain family members for being so stupid and getting themselves into the situations they're in. And other times I just feel sad and sympathetic towards them because they're my family. It's just a very complicated situation for me.

katiewhompus

Oh, and I think it's not that two parents are working, but that we seem to be working more and more. Both of my parents worked until I was around 16, but they were both teachers and done with work at 4 (out of home work anyways).

When Scott and I were both working 50 hours a week there was no way we were having kids. There were many nights when neither one of us would be home until 11 and we both agreed that wasn't an environment we wanted our kids to be placed in. He still works 50 hours a week, but now he's home by 4pm most days so it's better. I'm also trying to find a job that pays a little more but lets me be home at least by 5 because we can't afford to live on one income.

And I don't think Cher talks too much about money. Yes when I saw the tiaras were in the hundreds my eyes bugged out, but you know what, if you can afford it then go to it. I know plenty of people who thought I was crazy for buying a new car, or buying a wedding dress instead of renting one. There will always be someone poorer than you who thinks you spend too much, and there will always be someone richer than you who you think spends too much. Just deal with it.

JenGin74

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Opinions : Sorry, I didn't explain that. I guess I meant someone like Drew Barrymore for instance. She started drinking and doing drugs at an early age. I know she was a child star so it's slightly different but along the same lines. I wasn't disagreeing with your or Jen I just wanted to clarify. I think I find it hard to have such a vut and dry opinion on it because drug and alcohol problems just run rampant in my family. I go back and forth. Sometimes I'm angry at certain family members for being so stupid and getting themselves into the situations they're in. And other times I just feel sad and sympathetic towards them because they're my family. It's just a very complicated situation for me.
Posted by Shaye526[/QUOTE]

I can see where you're coming from. It's hard when it's family. My grandfather was an alcoholic and my mother did drugs while she was pregnant with me.

 I was raised by my aunt and uncle and they talked to me about drugs and risks at a very early age and they never let up about it. I was very lucky that they were there to keep me from going down that path.

aprovencher21

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[QUOTE]I know what you mean, aprove. H is a landscaper and burns calories like crazy. He eats two helpings of dinner before I'm half done with the first. Feeding him is an expensive thing. He goes through OJ like you wouldn't believe.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

Exactly!! FI loves his whole milk (bleh).  We go through a gallon every 3-4 days.  Thankfully he doesn't really eat much fat so its okay that he likes his whole milk.  When we first moved in together FI would only drink soda.  He'd drink a 2 liter of Coke a day.  Ick.  I finally got him to give up the soda for water, milk, and some juice.  I really don't drink soda (unless having a migraine) and I really don't want to raise kids with soda.

JenGin74

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[QUOTE]Oh, and I think it's not that two parents are working, but that we seem to be working more and more. Both of my parents worked until I was around 16, but they were both teachers and done with work at 4 (out of home work anyways). When Scott and I were both working 50 hours a week there was no way we were having kids. There were many nights when neither one of us would be home until 11 and we both agreed that wasn't an environment we wanted our kids to be placed in. He still works 50 hours a week, but now he's home by 4pm most days so it's better. I'm also trying to find a job that pays a little more but lets me be home at least by 5 because we can't afford to live on one income. <strong>And I don't think Cher talks too much about money. Yes when I saw the tiaras were in the hundreds my eyes bugged out, but you know what, if you can afford it then go to it. I know plenty of people who thought I was crazy for buying a new car, or buying a wedding dress instead of renting one. There will always be someone poorer than you who thinks you spend too much, and there will always be someone richer than you who you think spends too much. Just deal with it.</strong>
Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

Yup. I think, for the most part, people in general need to appreciate what they have and stop worrying so much about other people's things.

katiewhompus

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Opinions : Yup. I think, for the most part, people in general need to appreciate what they have and stop worrying so much about other people's things.
Posted by JenGin74[/QUOTE]

Yep. I started this recently with ttc. Instead of praying every night for a baby I now just thank the universe for everything I have already. It's helping the jealousy I get when friends get pregnant too. I may not have a baby (yet) but I have a lot of other things going for me right now.

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Opinions : Yep. I started this recently with ttc. Instead of praying every night for a baby I now just thank the universe for everything I have already. It's helping the jealousy I get when friends get pregnant too. I may not have a baby (yet) but I have a lot of other things going for me right now.
Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

I love this outlook. I need to start doing this more.

aprovencher21

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[QUOTE]Oh, and I think it's not that two parents are working, but that we seem to be working more and more. Both of my parents worked until I was around 16, but they were both teachers and done with work at 4 (out of home work anyways). When Scott and I were both working 50 hours a week there was no way we were having kids. There were many nights when neither one of us would be home until 11 and we both agreed that wasn't an environment we wanted our kids to be placed in. He still works 50 hours a week, but now he's home by 4pm most days so it's better. I'm also trying to find a job that pays a little more but lets me be home at least by 5 because we can't afford to live on one income. And I don't think Cher talks too much about money. Yes when I saw the tiaras were in the hundreds my eyes bugged out, but you know what, if you can afford it then go to it. I know plenty of people who thought I was crazy for buying a new car, or buying a wedding dress instead of renting one. There will always be someone poorer than you who thinks you spend too much, and there will always be someone richer than you who you think spends too much. Just deal with it.
Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

::Muah:: thanks Katie.  I should also say two things about when I posted those links.  Up until when I posted them prices were never on the site.  I was totally confused when Jenny said something about them being pricey.  Then I was kinda embarrassed.  I also have a 50% coupon so it makes it easier to spend money.....cause I convince myself its a deal. 

aprovencher21

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Opinions : Yup. I think, for the most part, people in general need to appreciate what they have and stop worrying so much about other people's things.
Posted by JenGin74[/QUOTE]

Ditto this. 

JenGin74

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_opinions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a01eea2-042a-4947-956c-1aee76dc6974Post:7de60fa6-0c7a-45c1-b57f-7dcd0031abd9">Re: Opinions</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Opinions : Yep. I started this recently with ttc. Instead of praying every night for a baby I now just thank the universe for everything I have already. It's helping the jealousy I get when friends get pregnant too. I may not have a baby (yet) but I have a lot of other things going for me right now.
Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

I'm not quite there yet with the baby thing. I still get jealous. I'm not ungrateful for everything we have, but I'd gladly give it all up for a baby.