Can we judge things?

ohwhynot · December 2010

I judge Les for hating America. And our troops.

LesPaul · December 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Can we judge things? : Let's hold hands and be commie, SOCIALIST, LIBERAL Anti-American bitches together. ALLEGEDLY.
Posted by LessThanZero[/QUOTE]

Yes. While wielding the Snopes bat.

malloryb56 · December 2010

I cannot stand the size 6 people who think they need to lose weight. Especially the ones that complain about it in front of me, who is a size 12.

I could use to lose a few pounds and I'm working on it, but you don't hear me complaining because I'm actually using my gym membership.

cupcakesfrosting · December 2010

That's not the way I meant, J&K. She complains all the time that she can't fit into the pants she wore to her 8th grade graduation, because NOW she's a size 6. She's 24. Most people's bodies change a little as they get older. SHE says she's fat because she's a size 6. I judge that she complains about being fat, but refuses to do anything about that feeling, IE, stop eating crap, and working out at a gym that she pays almost $40 a month for. NOT that she thinks she needs to lose that weight.

Starmusica · December 2010

I judge the girl I saw on Friday wearing shorts with tights (which I don't like to begin with) in THIRTY DEGREE WEATHER. You, lady, are a freak. And the heels you paired with this outfit- NOT CUTE.

J&K10910 · December 2010

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[QUOTE]I cannot stand the size 6 people who think they need to lose weight. Especially the ones that complain about it in front of me, who is a size 12. I could use to lose a few pounds and I'm working on it, but you don't hear me complaining because I'm actually using my gym membership.
Posted by malloryb56[/QUOTE]

Thinner people have body image issues too. It's often a mental health thing, not a trying to make you feel bad about yourself thing.

Frankly, I hate when I say I'm doing WW or running and people immediately biitch me out and tell me I don' t need to lose weights. Bonus points if they say "Look at me! I'm way bigger than you."

Celles · December 2010

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[QUOTE]i judge people who don't like xmas
Posted by topcatiom[/QUOTE]

Why?

anna.oskar · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_can-judge-things?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:9a286f39-44ae-44a3-ad35-e47f78beb10dPost:2102c563-bfbb-4bb3-bd5a-cde54ae84d1f">Re: Can we judge things?</a>:
[QUOTE]I cannot stand the size 6 people who think they need to lose weight. Especially the ones that complain about it in front of me, who is a size 12. I could use to lose a few pounds and I'm working on it, but you don't hear me complaining because I'm actually using my gym membership.
Posted by malloryb56[/QUOTE]

So they are not allowed to be self-conscious, have image issues, or have a desire to change their body?

That's bullshit. A size 6 person can have just as many, or more issues with their body compared to a size 12 or 18.

AllAboutTheBenjamin · December 2010

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[QUOTE]I judge the girl I saw on Friday wearing shorts with tights (which I don't like to begin with) in THIRTY DEGREE WEATHER. You, lady, are a freak. And the heels you paired with this outfit- NOT CUTE.
Posted by Starmusica[/QUOTE]

I see girls wearing that crap up here, too. I don't get it. When it's zero degrees, I don't really think fashion (or whatever the hell they call it) matters.

Ps, I love your new sig!

jennylove810 · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_can-judge-things?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:9a286f39-44ae-44a3-ad35-e47f78beb10dPost:0801d240-151d-405b-945e-3e1f8cba08c1">Re: Can we judge things?</a>:
[QUOTE]I judge the girl I saw on Friday wearing shorts with tights (which I don't like to begin with) in THIRTY DEGREE WEATHER. You, lady, are a freak. And the heels you paired with this outfit- NOT CUTE.
Posted by Starmusica[/QUOTE]

This makes me laugh because I can absolutely see it in my head. And I love your new sig, so cute!

J&K10910 · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_can-judge-things?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:9a286f39-44ae-44a3-ad35-e47f78beb10dPost:3f66b3a6-1691-44c2-843e-3e2f1aa3c29b">Re: Can we judge things?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Can we judge things? : Exactly this. I read both posts the same way, Nates. You and J&K are in my head today, big time.
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

I like it up there. There's lots of fun info and smart people things.

ohwhynot · December 2010

Damn, but you are cute, Starmusica.

cupcakesfrosting · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_can-judge-things?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:9a286f39-44ae-44a3-ad35-e47f78beb10dPost:2f6e9246-26b3-4090-8ed0-84cebcbf6233">Re: Can we judge things?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Can we judge things? : My dad lost me in the largest mall in North American when I was 12. For four hours. Apparently, they decided to take an hour to change after we went to the indoor water park, and since it was just him, me and my brothers, I had to change alone. I came out and thought they left without me, so I wandered away. Yeah, he supposedly had the security guards out looking for me, but I didn't see a single one of them. My dad was actually the one who found me, sitting on a bench RIGHT outside the lost and found area. It was funny stuff. ETA: It was the largest mall in the world at the time, only the 5th largest now.
Posted by Anysunrise[/QUOTE]

I more judge our repeat offenders. People that do this at least once a week.

Our mall is small compared to like, Mall of America, or whatever, but the size isn't the point.. It's more that instead of looking for their child, they continue to look for a new sweater, or whatever. I've had parents tell me, "Oh, ya, I noticed she was gone a while ago, but I figured she'd come back."

After 30 minutes of not being to find the family, we call the police. After 30 minutes of them being there, they take the child into custody and CPS is called for abandonment. I've been there almost 2 years. This happens sometimes once a month.

Starmusica · December 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Can we judge things? : Thinner people have body image issues too. It's often a mental health thing, not a trying to make you feel bad about yourself thing. Frankly, I hate when I say I'm doing WW or running and people immediately biitch me out and tell me I don' t need to lose weights. Bonus points if they say "Look at me! I'm way bigger than you."
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>THIS. body image is subjective. And you can need to loose weight and not be heavy or overweight... you may just have a few extra to lose! J&K, this is why I stopped going to the WW meetings in college. I had gained 20 pounds that I wanted to lose but the people at the meetings were SO RUDE about it. I now only do WW online...</div>

mgmlove · December 2010

I judge people who post but don't read the whole thread then come in guns ablazin' when the topic has changed or been addressed.

(Side Note: I did not read the whole thread before posting this)

jennylove810 · December 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Can we judge things? : So they are not allowed to be self-conscious, have image issues, or have a desire to change their body? That's bullshit. A size 6 person can have just as many, or more issues with their body compared to a size 12 or 18.
Posted by anna.oskar[/QUOTE]

I don't think Mallory was saying they're not allowed to have image issues or be self-conscious. I read it more like she was saying these people are complaining to the wrong person.

SamiGraceT · December 2010

*doesn't change her bathroom light bulb*

HOWEVER - bathroom has 10' ceilings and I come in at 5'1", and do not have a ladder that means I can reach the stupid bulb and not fall off the ladder. However, FI put an long lasting CFL in, so no more problems.

I judge my idiot downstairs neighbor who doesn't know how to replace his furnace filter, despite the fact the landlady has detailed instructions AND the filter right there to be replaced. Seriously, dumb @$$? She lives 3 hours away, that's why duh, you change the dumb filter when you are down in the basement every f-ing day. Nope, he doesn't get it. So he calls her, she calls me, I go change the filter, voila.

J&K10910 · December 2010

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[QUOTE]That's not the way I meant, J&K. She complains all the time that she can't fit into the pants she wore to her 8th grade graduation, because NOW she's a size 6. She's 24. Most people's bodies change a little as they get older. SHE says she's fat because she's a size 6. I judge that she complains about being fat, but refuses to do anything about that feeling, IE, stop eating crap, and working out at a gym that she pays almost $40 a month for. NOT that she thinks she needs to lose that weight.
Posted by cupcakesfrosting[/QUOTE]

I agree that it's frustrating when people constantly biitch about things without making the effort to change. Habits take time to change though. Especially going to the gym and such. But I can definitely agree that listening to that day in and day out while she's not doing anything about it would probably rub me the wrong way too.

cupcakesfrosting · December 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Can we judge things? : Thinner people have body image issues too. It's often a mental health thing, not a trying to make you feel bad about yourself thing. Frankly, I hate when I say I'm doing WW or running and people immediately biitch me out and tell me I don' t need to lose weights. Bonus points if they say "Look at me! I'm way bigger than you."
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

I totally understand that. My CW tells me constantly "You don't NEED that ice cream cone, CCF." Well, of COURSE I don't need it. But it's not always a need with me. It's a want. A compulsive thing. If I decide I want a salad while I'm out with her, she gets a huge burger, and XL fries, and then sort of side-eyes me for eating a salad. It's a little ridiculous sometimes.

anna.oskar · December 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Can we judge things? : I don't think Mallory was saying they're not allowed to have image issues or be self-conscious. I read it more like she was saying these people are complaining to the wrong person.
Posted by jennylove810[/QUOTE]

Her second sentence supports what you say, but it was the first sentence that bothered me. "

[QUOTE]<strong>I cannot stand the size 6 people who think they need to lose weight. </strong>Especially the ones that complain about it in front of me, who is a size 12.[/QUOTE]

Starmusica · December 2010

aww thanks guys! I was super excited about the tree......

I will never understand fashion over comfort in snow or super cold weather. When its cold here, I layer like a crazy person, wear silly hats and thick scarves and I don't care if its not stylish. The girl I saw was with a guy and they had that "date vibe" but really, I don't buy that as an excuse. I felt cold just looking at her.

J&K10910 · December 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Can we judge things? : THIS. body image is subjective. And you can need to loose weight and not be heavy or overweight... you may just have a few extra to lose! J&K, this is why I stopped going to the WW meetings in college. I had gained 20 pounds that I wanted to lose but the people at the meetings were SO RUDE about it. I now only do WW online...
Posted by Starmusica[/QUOTE]

I don't LOOK fat. I don't look thin either. But I had borderline high BP and cholesterol and was about 20 lbs overweight when I started WW. I just hide it well. My body didn't take well to me being an athlete all through my teen years and then becoming mostly sedentary through college and after.

katiewhompus · December 2010

Star, people wearing mini skirts had a huge factor in where I went to college, as stupid as I realize that sounds. We go to college A and it's 20 degrees, misty rain/snow and 90% of the student body is walking around in heels and mini skirts, shovering their asses off. Go to college B (where I ended up going) and they are walking around in school sweats and hoodies. We went to both schools on a Saturday.

Starmusica · December 2010

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[QUOTE]Star, people wearing mini skirts had a huge factor in where I went to college, as stupid as I realize that sounds. We go to college A and it's 20 degrees, misty rain/snow and 90% of the student body is walking around in heels and mini skirts, shovering their asses off. Go to college B (where I ended up going) and they are walking around in school sweats and hoodies. We went to both schools on a Saturday.
Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>that is UNREAL. I rarely dress up for class and if I do, I dress up professionally. I went to a super artsy undergrad full of wannabe hipsters. Everyone there was fairly wealthy (I lived at home - I wasn't part of that crowd), but they grunged down because it was cool. My law school is up the street and I can still tell just by looking at people whether they attend my undergrad. I loved the school but the students were insane.</div>

saxy414 · December 2010

I judge the parents who think their child can do no wrong. I sent a note home with a 7th grader I've had problems with allll year today, and I have a feeling I'm going to have a bit of a battle on my hands because this kids is kind of the "ringleader" of a group of bullies, but according to mom, he's just not "ready for the responsiblity" of being a leader and being popular, so he's a little rambunctious. Sure, if her definition of "rambunctious" is disrespectful, rude, disruptive, and putting other kids in headlocks in the middle of music class. If you're getting notes and phone calls from every teacher your son has, it's time to reassess the situation.

SamiGraceT · December 2010

In the fashion judging....

I judge those who wear a micro mini skirt, UGGS and then the jersey that's almost as long as the skirt.

I really judge them when they proceed to complain that it's cold.

saxy414 · December 2010

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[QUOTE]Star, people wearing mini skirts had a huge factor in where I went to college, as stupid as I realize that sounds. We go to college A and it's 20 degrees, misty rain/snow and 90% of the student body is walking around in heels and mini skirts, shovering their asses off. Go to college B (where I ended up going) and they are walking around in school sweats and hoodies. We went to both schools on a Saturday.
Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

I loved my school, but I totally went to college A. I was not one of them, because I actually looked at the weather before I walked out, but we had girls in heels in the snow to go to class, or mini skirts and Uggs.

One Saturday night, my parents were visiting, and a group of girls ran by the coffee place in mini skirts and halter tops--in January. My mom said, "Sheesh, if you got it, flaunt it, but put a coat on outside!"

SCBojangles1138 · December 2010

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[QUOTE]I judge the parents who think their child can do no wrong. I sent a note home with a 7th grader I've had problems with allll year today, and I have a feeling I'm going to have a bit of a battle on my hands because this kids is kind of the "ringleader" of a group of bullies, but according to mom, he's just not "ready for the responsiblity" of being a leader and being popular, so he's a little rambunctious. Sure, if her definition of "rambunctious" is disrespectful, rude, disruptive, and putting other kids in headlocks in the middle of music class. If you're getting notes and phone calls from every teacher your son has, it's time to reassess the situation.
Posted by saxy414[/QUOTE]

THIS! One of the many reasons I chose grad school (not in education).

I also judge ppl who don't use turn signals. Maybe I've said it before, but even the cops down here don't use them and it nearly causes an accident around me at least a couple times per month!

Bubbalub · December 2010

I judge a friend of ours who is too "busy" to come to my sister's 35th birthday get-together but is constantly inviting people over to her house because she's lonely. Whatever, clearly you're not too busy to see people or hang out, you just don't want to make any sort of effort to do so.

I judge the woman at Target today who insisted on walking down the crowded aisles with her basket BESIDE her, instead of pushing it in front of her, effectively preventing anyone else from walking past her. Idiot.

K Byte · December 2010

I judge everyone who fails miserably at driving in snowy weather here in Cleveland. No one moves here just for fun or anything, I know they've all experienced snow before, but every time it snows or rains a lot you would swear all the drivers were just imported from L.A. or Arizona or something. It's awful. Half the people pretend there's no snow or ice on the ground and drive like maniacs, and the other half act like the slightest snowfall is a blizzard and drive way too damn slow which is also a huge hazard.

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