AYG - Confessions - I Judge

allisong23

I flame my work keyboard, which doesn't like the letter 'p' or the right hand shift key.

Denise91980

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : You should know that she's mine and anything she has with you is just a fling :P
Posted by JenGin74[/QUOTE]

<div>You wanna wrestle for her? What flavor Jello are you into?</div><div>Lets do it!</div><div>
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Denise91980

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[QUOTE]<strong>I flame my work keyboard, which doesn't like the letter 'p' </strong>or the right hand shift key.
Posted by allisong23[/QUOTE]
It is a good thing you don't work for Sesame Street. 

jaycee7389

I also flame those who flamed the IUD thread. Everyone always talks about how this is the internet and people can post what they like but then they pick and choose what they don't want to talk about on here. (this includes sad stories/personal stuff). I mean, it's obvious this board isn't really WR.

eta: Some customers have made comments about the newspaper article about bf and my business where it states we are not married but live together. And i confess that I want to punch them in the face.

OBX2011

I'm beyond irritated with my caterer.  The tasting was mid-April and we still haven't received the final quote....even after several phone calls and e-mails.  WTH?? 

Good news is we are going to the beach this weekend and the "fun boat" will be making a rare appearance.....so yayyy for the beach, hot summer sun and a cool beer in hand

Wrkn925

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[QUOTE]Oh yeah, <strong>I also judge Showtime for cancelling United States of Tara.</strong> That show is awesome. Also, I think I might have bad taste or something because a lot of the shows I like have been axed :(
Posted by JenGin74[/QUOTE]

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My roommate cancelled Showtime, so I don't get to see any of them.  When we move, I'll have to get it and catch up.

I didn't know Tara was cancelled.  That breaks my heart.  I love that show.

That, Dexter and Nurse Jackie are my favorite shows ever.

allisong23

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : It is a good thing you don't work for Sesame Street. 
Posted by Denise91980[/QUOTE]

It is certainly ironic, seeing that in my present condition I am peeing all the freaking time.

Yoda2010

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[QUOTE]Confession:  One of the women at work announced on FB that she's pregnant. I think pretty much our whole office knows. I haven't offered congrats because I think it will sound insincere because I'm jealous. My plan (and I know it's stupid) is to just pretend that I don't know for as long as possible. I suck.
Posted by JenGin74[/QUOTE]

I totally understand how you feel. My SIL announced she is pregnant with her 3rd kid...on the same day I went into surgey to find out why I cant get pregnant. I felt horrible for feeling so...truly angry and just jealous. My "congrats" felt very insincere and I felt crappy even plastering on a fake smile. Just remember it will be you announcing your pregnancy some day :)

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : It is certainly ironic, seeing that in my present condition I am peeing all the freaking time.
Posted by allisong23[/QUOTE]

Plus you can't spell "pregly" without "p." ;)

Yoda2010

I judge myself for pestering H to stop smoking and now that he has I secretly wish he would sneak one when he is being so incredibly difficult to be around. Im awful, I know.

bltata

I flame all the old hags that stare at me like I'm a leper when I go to job interviews.  This includes employees and other candidates.  I was at one on Monday where these 2 older women, neither of which seemed to know what a hairbrush was, were staring me down like I didn't deserve to be there.  I'm 24 and have a college degree, and looked more polished than the both of them. 

Rosie109

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[QUOTE]I also flame those who flamed the IUD thread. Everyone always talks about how this is the internet and <strong>people can post what they like but then they pick and choose what they don't want to talk about on here</strong>. (this includes sad stories/personal stuff). I mean, it's obvious this board isn't really WR. eta: Some customers have made comments about the newspaper article about bf and my business where it states we are not married but live together. And i confess that I want to punch them in the face.
Posted by jaycee7389[/QUOTE]

Welcome to TK.

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]I flame all the old hags that stare at me like I'm a leper when I go to job interviews.  This includes employees and other candidates.  I was at one on Monday where these 2 older women, neither of which seemed to know what a hairbrush was, were staring me down like I didn't deserve to be there.  I'm 24 and have a college degree, and looked more polished than the both of them. 
Posted by bltata[/QUOTE]

So you assume they were judging you on your looks and age? How can you know for sure? Is it because you are judging them on their looks and age?

allisong23

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[QUOTE]<strong>I flame all the old hags</strong> that stare at me like I'm a leper when I go to job interviews.  This includes employees and other candidates.  I was at one on Monday where these<strong> 2 older women, neither of which seemed to know what a hairbrush was</strong>, were staring me down like I didn't deserve to be there.  I'm 24 and have a college degree, and looked more polished than the both of them. 
Posted by bltata[/QUOTE]

Pot, meet kettle.

SarahPLiz

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : How did you miss that? That was the longest thread in TK history! There were over 1100 posts. 
Posted by Denise91980[/QUOTE]
I confess that I think I missed this. Work sucks. That is all for today. Carry on.

Marrin713

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : So you assume they were judging you on your looks and age? How can you know for sure? Is it because you are judging them on their looks and age?
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

As an "old hag" - thanks Beatles!

Rosie109

They were just totally jealous of you.

bltata

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : So you assume they were judging you on your looks and age? How can you know for sure? Is it because you are judging them on their looks and age?
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

I actually have a friend from college who said that one of them actually came up and asked her if they were trying to go for a young demographic after I left in a very snotty tone.  So I know she was looking at me because I have a baby face.  And I do judge people who show up to job interviews dressed unprofessionally.

Wrkn925

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : So you assume they were judging you on your looks and age? How can you know for sure? Is it because you are judging them on their looks and age?
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]


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ETA: Too slow...

DodgersBride

I flame the church secretly that took my sister name off the church appoint book for her July 16th wedding and adding a Quinceañera in her time slot. We are waiting to have this resolved.

Rosie109

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : I actually have a friend from college who said that one of them actually came up and asked her if they were trying to go for a young demographic after I left in a very snotty tone.  So I know she was looking at me because I have a baby face.  And I do judge people who show up to job interviews dressed unprofessionally.
Posted by bltata[/QUOTE]

I can't say any of that information helps.

bltata

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : I can't say any of that information helps.
Posted by Rosie109[/QUOTE]

You're entitled to your opinion, but it still bothered me.

Marrin713

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[QUOTE]I flame the church secretly that took my sister name off the church appoint book for her July 16th wedding and adding a Quinceañera in her time slot. We are waiting to have this resolved.
Posted by DodgersBride[/QUOTE]

That's crazy.  Wonder why?  BTW - July 16 is an excellent day for a wedding. :)

JenGin74

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : So you assume they were judging you on your looks and age? How can you know for sure? Is it because you are judging them on their looks and age?
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

Maybe you had a booger and that's what they were staring at

K Byte

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[QUOTE]I flame the church secretly that took my sister name off the church appoint book for her July 16th wedding and adding a Quinceañera in her time slot. We are waiting to have this resolved.
Posted by DodgersBride[/QUOTE]
Oh hell no! I would be mad as hell if this happened to me. That was my biggest worry when I was wedding planning, that a vendor would overbook and I'd be left without a church/reception site/DJ/etc. I hope you guys get everything resolved!

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : I actually have a friend from college who said that one of them actually came up and asked her if they were trying to go for a young demographic after I left in a very snotty tone.  So I know she was looking at me because I have a baby face.  And I do judge people who show up to job interviews dressed unprofessionally.
Posted by bltata[/QUOTE]

Right, but you said you were polished when you showed up, not dressed unprofessionally. I get where you're going with this, I just thought it was a wee bit hypocritical to lash out at their hair, etc. when you don't want to be judged by the same criteria. Also, 24 IS young to many companies, so just because someone might not yet be sold on your brand new credentials doesn't necessarily make her an old hag.

bltata

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : Maybe you had a booger and that's what they were staring at
Posted by JenGin74[/QUOTE]

LOL I would sure hope not.  I feel like I would have to completely reevaluate my interview if that were true.

SarahPLiz

Also, I judge young women (and old ones for that matter) who have the following hairstyle:

especially when the ponytail is less than 3 inches long and sticks out of the back of your head. It may look all pretty from the front with a headband, but it looks like a rats nest from the back from all the teasing. ANd if the pony is short, it looks like you forgot to finish fixing your hair. Seriously, buy another mirror and take a peek back there before you walk out of your house. 

Also, it makes your head look misshapen (conehead anyone?), and that's just not pretty on anyone. 

FTR. I see young people with this hairstyle all the time, dressed up (in church, job interviews, college tours) and I can't help but want to hand them a mirror and a comb. 

bltata

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : Right, but you said you were polished when you showed up, not dressed unprofessionally. I get where you're going with this, I just thought it was a wee bit hypocritical to lash out at their hair, etc. when you don't want to be judged by the same criteria. Also, 24 IS young to many companies, so just because someone might not yet be sold on your brand new credentials doesn't necessarily make her an old hag.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

Maybe I worded it a little bit strangely, I'll admit that.  I know I was wearing a very well fitted suit and heels and had my hair and makeup looking neat but not overdone.  This was an entry level position so my brand new credentials don't necessarily hurt me, either.  I just mentioned the 2 ladies' hair because I don't see the point in wearing a suit but having your hair look like you just rolled out of bed and didn't attempt to touch it.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

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[QUOTE]I confess that I'm kind of glad we gave the dog back to her original owner. She was a wonderful dog, but besides the fact that I'm apparently allergic to dogs, H and I realized that we just aren't pet owners. So soon after the wedding, H and I felt very disconnected from each other. He had to get up early and go to bed early to deal with the dog before work, and I had the opposite schedule. Plus, we just didn't feel connected to Rox. Maybe in a few years, we will feel comfortable getting a dog, but not right now.  I feel bad, but for a little bit, it had me questioning whether or not we're ready for kids. I know it's totally different, though, so I'm not going to question myself anymore. There is an emotional bond I would have with my child, especially after carrying them for so long.
Posted by SEWF[/QUOTE]

I agree about dogs and I get where you're coming from. We have cats. Cats are relatively easy (even though they wake us up at 5am for breakfast). I'm afraid a dog will be too much work. And that I won't love it enough to justify it and I'll end up resenting the work because I'm not a super "dog person." (it has to be certain breeds, I think) Then I feel awful, like why wouldn't I love an animal? How will I ever be ready for kids? But yeah, I don't think I'm ready for a dog. I have too much going on. But then... kids add like 17 hours of work to your day, so... Ugh.