AYG - Confessions - I Judge

jaycee7389

oh hay..i have a bronze badge now. *cookie for me*

JenGin74

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[QUOTE]Missy, I heard a rumor that Jennifer Love Hewitt was being considered for the replacement.  *gag*
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]


I read this morning that it was a false rumor

Celles

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[QUOTE]Missy, I heard a rumor that Jennifer Love Hewitt was being considered for the replacement.  *gag*
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

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eta - Oh, thank goodness.

Girlie1030

DNA, training for one will help in training for the other.  My husband does tri's and I think a sprint distance is certainly achievable even if you will be doing a 1/2 the following month. 

maratea

DNA- I won't judge your FI because he is probably a decent guy, but I do judge him telling you that you can't do it. Use that as a motivator to train and show him up.

AllAboutTheBenjamin

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[QUOTE]Soooo I don't know what this is but its bothering me.  I recently ran in a marathon relay 6.5 mile leg.  Now I am really torn I really want to sign up for a Sprint Triathalon (.5 mile swin, 12 mile bike, 3.1mile run) in September but I also really want to run the half marathon in October.  I have found a training schedule for over the summer (I teach so I get summers off) I really want to do both and I think training for one will also help train for the other.  I really think I can do it. My FI told me he doesn't think I can do it.  I am crushed.  My FI runs half marathons regularly and I don't know if he is trying to be realistic or if he feels that I am stealing his thunder. But it kind of hurt my feelings and I am really torn I don't want to choose one or the other.
Posted by DNAtime[/QUOTE]

Um, your FI definitely lost some of my respect by telling you that.

I think you can do anything you set your mind to.  The human body is an incredible machine that can do amazing things.  Don't let him sell yourself short. 

I'm hoping that is not the kind of thing he says to you on a daily basis.

AllAboutTheBenjamin

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : I read this morning that it was a false rumor
Posted by JenGin74[/QUOTE]

That's why it's a rumor :)  Even the thought of it makes me irritated.

beatlesgirl25

Missy, I hear Jennifer Love Hewitt is going to be the new main lady detective. I don't think I'll be watching. Also, she just finished up a story arc last season as a traumatized, reclusive rape victim, so I'm not sure how that's going to translate to her suddenly being an SVU detective. Unless they do that L&O thing where they just re-use actors who appeared in past seasons as victims/perps, like Casey Novak. ETA: If it's a rumor about JLH, then never mind. I hope it is.

Mand, he does sound like a total douchebag. Sorry you have to sit near him. I would have totally said something, so you're a nicer person than I am.

I agree, DNA your FI sounds pretty unsupportive. That's not okay.

SarahPLiz

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[QUOTE]Soooo I don't know what this is but its bothering me.  I recently ran in a marathon relay 6.5 mile leg.  Now I am really torn I really want to sign up for a Sprint Triathalon (.5 mile swin, 12 mile bike, 3.1mile run) in September but I also really want to run the half marathon in October.  I have found a training schedule for over the summer (I teach so I get summers off) I really want to do both and I think training for one will also help train for the other.  I really think I can do it. My FI told me he doesn't think I can do it.  I am crushed.  My FI runs half marathons regularly and I don't know if he is trying to be realistic or if he feels that I am stealing his thunder. But it kind of hurt my feelings and I am really torn I don't want to choose one or the other.
Posted by DNAtime[/QUOTE]
You can do both, and you should. Swimming and cycling are great cross training to avoid over use injury in runners. PLENTY of triathletes are also distance runners. In Austin, Tri season goes from March- Sept and running season goes Sept- Feb, and most training programs encompass both. Tell your FI to suck it, and go do it anyway.<div>
</div><div>I did my first tri to spite my ex, because he can't swim, and it was one of the best decisions I ever made. Just don't practice open water swimming by yourself ;)</div>

MandK9

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[QUOTE]Missy, I hear Jennifer Love Hewitt is going to be the new main lady detective. I don't think I'll be watching. Also, she just finished up a story arc last season as a traumatized, reclusive rape victim, so I'm not sure how that's going to translate to her suddenly being an SVU detective. Unless they do that L&O thing where they just re-use actors who appeared in past seasons as victims/perps, like Casey Novak. ETA: If it's a rumor about JLH, then never mind. I hope it is. Mand, he does sound like a total douchebag. Sorry you have to sit near him. I would have totally said something, <strong>so you're a nicer person than I am</strong>. I agree, DNA your FI sounds pretty unsupportive. That's not okay.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

Nah, just more timid. :) Confrontation is something I need to work on.

JenGin74

I have a flame.

I'm pretty sure it was the knottie that's a cop (I forget her SN). Anyway, I was reading a post a few days ago (It may have been the epic post) and she was flaming someone and saying something like "We don't like ..... " (we meaning SB) and it got on my nerves in a don't speak for me kind of way.

I thought to myself "who the fvck are you and why are you speaking on behalf of a board that you just started posting on?"

I also could be extra judgy because I really don't dig her. Too much drama.

DNAtime

Thanks all. I haven't told him how I feel about it yet.  I am wondering if he feels like I am stealing his thunder or something since he is signed up for the half marathon I want to run already. 

I dont know if he thinks that I don't know how much work its going to be or what.

Normally he is supportive so it took me by suprise.  Its mostly with running, he has been so supportive but lately I think he is underestimating me.  When I told my relay partner I was going to run 11 minute miles he told me he didn't think I could do it. 
I ran in 10:50 miles thank you very much.  This such a new thing. 


I am planning on telling him how I feel that I really want to do both and that I need him to support me.  I will keep you posted. 

SarahPLiz

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[QUOTE]Thanks all. I haven't told him how I feel about it yet.  I am wondering if he feels like I am stealing his thunder or something since he is signed up for the half marathon I want to run already.  I dont know if he thinks that I don't know how much work its going to be or what. Normally he is supportive so it took me by suprise.  Its mostly with running, he has been so supportive but lately I think he is underestimating me.  <strong>When I told my relay partner I was going to run 11 minute miles he told me he didn't think I could do it.  I ran in 10:50 miles thank you very much. </strong> This such a new thing.  I am planning on telling him how I feel that I really want to do both and that I need him to support me.  I will keep you posted. 
Posted by DNAtime[/QUOTE]
See, that would piss me off too. Maybe he thinks that this sort of talk will motivate you. He's wrong. You need to talk to him and tell him that its not very encouraging and you don't appreciate him not having any faith that you can set acheivable goals for yourself. He needs to learn to support you in a way that makes you feel supported. <div>
</div><div>ANd do the tri. Its awesome. And if he gets all pissy because he's not doing tris and you are, then maybe he needs to grow up and learn how to be proud of someone other than himself. </div>

JenGin74

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : I believe you are talking about Dana, but I might be wrong.  She;s the same one that's pregnant and said some stupid comment about her laughing so hard might not be good for baby.  I'm no MD but <strong>I'm pretty sure you can't laugh your baby out of you</strong>.  If you can someone please correct me.
Posted by kodakitty[/QUOTE]


Yeah, I think that's her.  (and the bolded part made me lol)

jaycee7389

dana? i know she said she was a cop

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : Nah, just more timid. :) Confrontation is something I need to work on.
Posted by MandK9[/QUOTE]

No, you're being the more mature one, not arguing with a 16 year-old and all. ;) I have a hard time confronting as well unless I'm heated about something, which I would be in this case.

AllAboutTheBenjamin

Well obviously, everyone knows that people who laugh can't get pregnant.  Just stop watching Parks and Recreation, people.  Do it for the babies.

JenGin74

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[QUOTE]Well obviously, everyone knows that people who laugh can't get pregnant.  Just stop watching Parks and Recreation, people.  Do it for the babies.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]


Holy fvck! And I've wasted months and thousands of dollars on doctor bills. Who knew?

kimheartsscott

Confessions:  When Scott woke me up this morning to give me a kiss and say I love you before work (it sounds cute, but my squinty eyed grumbley morning monster impression really really isn't) he said "happy anniversary" and I had no idea WTF he was talking about for a minute there.  It's the 9 year anniversary of our first date and I forgot it last year as well.

Also, I'm annoyed Scott's first group of highschoolers since beginning teaching are graduating tonight because I'm going to my brother's graduation tonight.  I would love to go to both.

JenGin74

Scott is pretty awesome.

beatlesgirl25

Jen, your sig is hilarious.

JenGin74

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[QUOTE]Jen, your sig is hilarious.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

It makes me laugh :)

I think I actually stole it from a knottie a couple of years ago and I've had it saved on my computer ever since

kd.joseph

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[QUOTE]Confessions:  When Scott woke me up this morning to give me a kiss and say I love you before work (it sounds cute, but my squinty eyed grumbley morning monster impression really really isn't) he said "happy anniversary" and I had no idea WTF he was talking about for a minute there.  It's the 9 year anniversary of our first date and I forgot it last year as well. Also, I'm annoyed Scott's first group of highschoolers since beginning teaching are graduating tonight because I'm going to my brother's graduation tonight.  I would love to go to both.
Posted by kimheartsscott[/QUOTE]

Well I have to say, the first part I react the same way, like yeah I know, now leave me alone. So you are not alone there. But the second part made me smile. How sweet, I'm glad we are not the only ones who celebrate our dating anniversary.

beatlesgirl25

That's awesome, I hadn't seen it before but it's so perfect for these boards. I also still love Nannerpus. Have you seen this new banana hero? I call him dragnana.



For the Most Epic Breakfast Ever.

[Deleted User]

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : I know you were referring to steph's post in that last part, but I just want to say that I don't excuse anyone. It was clearly identified, and if you (general you) don't want to read or talk about BC don't open it.
Posted by jaycee7389[/QUOTE]

So, it's not okay to talk about posts we don't like to read? Uh. Really? No. That's just lame. Of course anyone can post what they want. They have every right to. And I have every right not to want to read it. It's not like I posted in the thread and told her to shut the fuuck up. Jesus. Get over yourself.

Steph0871

This is late, but KD- I just meant... I understand being annoyed by BC talk if it's randomly in the middle of a thread. In my opinion, having it identified in the title means you don't have to open it. It's way easier to ignore.  So, if that chit-chat bugs you, you can skip it quite easily.

DNAtime

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : I'm taking this as medical advice and using <strong>Dr. AATB's birth control method</strong>. Sounds much more pleasant than anything else I've heard all you other quacks suggest.
Posted by kodakitty[/QUOTE]

I would like to use laughter as BC too!

JenGin74

Beatles - Dragnana is the most awesome thing I've seen so far this week

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : So, it's not okay to talk about posts we don't like to read? Uh. Really? No. That's just lame. Of course anyone can post what they want. They have every right to. And I have every right not to want to read it. It's not like I posted in the thread and told her to shut the fuuck up. Jesus. Get over yourself.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

Cew, are you saying then that you <em>aren't</em> the type of person to encourage people to ask a lot of questions about their mental and physical health? ;)

JenGin74

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : So, it's not okay to talk about posts we don't like to read? Uh. Really? No. That's just lame. Of course anyone can post what they want. They have every right to. And I have every right not to want to read it. <u><strong>It's not like I posted in the thread and told her to shut the fuuck up.</strong></u> Jesus. Get over yourself.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

But if you had I would have laughed and laughed