AYG - Confessions - I Judge

sarabear23

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : Yeah, unfortunately, that's a lesson sometimes that needs to be learned the hard way. And yes, in many situations. You've done what you can do; you're being her friend. At this point, she'll have to figure out her value for herself. She needs to know who she is at her core and be true to that, because that's how she'll find the right person. And it may be next week, next month, or 5 years. PS - in all seriousness, does she live someplace where she can have a pet? Being able to get my first dog really helped me focus on something else besides me. Obviously, she has to be willing to commit to caring for the pet as well, though. It's a major step.
Posted by missy68[/QUOTE]

Yeah, she has a couple dogs and a bunch of cats. However, she doesnt work, and her parents are pretty poor, so they cant afford vet bills or anything. Her one dog isnt doing well, and she cant really do anything about it either, so I'm sure that's getting to her. It's sad.

SilverLining1

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : I know I dont have to open it or read it if I choose, it was just in your face. And it was like the third one in as many weeks. And yes I did a search, they are on every board. It's a little much. I'm a woman (I think), and I have these chats with my ladies, I've even discussed with you. But it  just seems excessive lately. 
Posted by kd.joseph[/QUOTE]

<div>Would you have preferred that I NOT label it as exactly what it was? And I felt comfortable posting it because I've seen it before. I DID try searching first, but whenever I search something on TK, I get taken to the same useless page that just has a bunch of unrelated posts. </div>

kd.joseph

I have a cofession!

I sing along with John Travolta everytime "Sandy"comes on!

JenGin74

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[QUOTE]I have a cofession! I sing along with John Travolta everytime "Sandy"comes on!
Posted by kd.joseph[/QUOTE]

UNCOUTH!

kd.joseph

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : Would you have preferred that I NOT label it as exactly what it was? And I felt comfortable posting it because I've seen it before. I DID try searching first, but whenever I search something on TK, I get taken to the same useless page that just has a bunch of unrelated posts. 
Posted by SilverLining1[/QUOTE]

Yep.

And I searched Birth Control on here and several came up.

You can say, " I have a question about your BC preference" Simple.

kd.joseph

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : UNCOUTH!
Posted by JenGin74[/QUOTE]

I know, and every time I see your siggy I sing "Hammer Time"!

SilverLining1

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : Do you want to talk about my period? I know you do! Yeah I kind of want to get to know someone as a person first you know? It's like a first date sometimes, you'll know when you can discuss these things.
Posted by kd.joseph[/QUOTE]

<div>I can understand that. I've been posting on TK for a few months, and a decent amount on SB, but I know I'm not exactly well known :P None of my friends have experience with IUDs. Also, I didn't really have time to kind of "get to know" you guys first. I know there were lots of other options to find more personal experiences, but this seemed to be the easiest way to get a less biased answer.</div>

SilverLining1

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : Yep. And I searched Birth Control on here and several came up. You can say, " I have a question about your BC preference" Simple.
Posted by kd.joseph[/QUOTE]

<div>But it would have been the same question. Would that not have irritated you just as much?</div><div>
</div><div>ETA that I understand that the "search" function works for you, but it doesn't for me.</div>

ZombieNates

So, hated words:
Chill Pill
Chillax
Moist
Panties
Moist+Panties
Throbbing
ETA: Clots

allisong23

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : Rando on E last week kept trying to tell us about her clots.  Not cool. Also, sorry I just said "clots."  There's no good way to use that word.  Ever. 
Posted by The Mel and Todd Show[/QUOTE]

*shudder*

The Mel and Todd Show

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[QUOTE]So, hated words: Chill Pill Chillax <strong>Moist</strong> Panties Moist+Panties Throbbing
Posted by ZombieNates[/QUOTE]

That is the worst word in the English language, I swear it.  I'm especially bothered when it sneaks up on me, like in a recipe. 

Denise91980

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[QUOTE]So, hated words: Chill Pill Chillax Moist Panties Moist+Panties Throbbing ETA: Clots
Posted by ZombieNates[/QUOTE]

So Nates...I have some advice for your wedding day:
Make sure you take a chill pill and chillax. Be careful  that you don't chillax too much, otherwise Nate's throbbing member will not make your panties moist for you to consummate the marriage. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-kiss.gif" border="0" alt="Kiss" title="Kiss" />

[Deleted User]

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[QUOTE]Either way, I've said it before- but I think it's annoying when people start telling people what is and is not ok to discuss on here.  ESPECIALLY if it's labeled as such, and therefore easy for you to avoid.  I just don't understand why seeing "IUD" as a thread title can possibly be so irritating, that's all.  
Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

But who said it was not okay to discuss it besides that one random girl? KD and I just talked about how we didn't care for the topic in another thread. No one said "HOLY SHIIT BITCH, IF YOU TALK ABOUT THAT THING YOU'RE SHOVING UP YOUR PUSSY I'M GOING TO THROW MY BALLS AT YOU". We just bitched about it and moved on. I don't know why it's such a big deal that we don't like the topic.

And I will also agree with the fact that I think it's weird when newer posters talk about that kind of stuff.

Steph0871

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[QUOTE]So, hated words: Chill Pill Chillax Moist Panties Moist+Panties Throbbing ETA: Clots
Posted by ZombieNates[/QUOTE]

<div>I HATE YOU.</div>

kimheartsscott

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : Rando on E last week kept trying to tell us about her clots.  Not cool. Also, sorry I just said "clots."  There's no good way to use that word.  Ever. 
Posted by The Mel and Todd Show[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>Ugh, that was so weird and unnecessary.  "Birth is traumatic, yo!  PM me for the deets!"</div>

Steph0871

I have another annoyance.

It is NOT "could of done this..." or "would of..."   It's "could've" as in "could HAVE."

kd.joseph

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : But it would have been the same question. Would that not have irritated you just as much? ETA that I understand that the "search" function works for you, but it doesn't for me.
Posted by SilverLining1[/QUOTE]

Nope wouldnt have irritated as much. Sorry, it bothered me that is all. And you would have got your answers either way. And in the thread you could have been a little more specific. You got some good answers from Mery, and others as well.

It's no biggie.

missy68

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[QUOTE]So, hated words: Chill Pill Chillax Moist Panties Moist+Panties Throbbing ETA: Clots
Posted by ZombieNates[/QUOTE]

Well, at least now I know what to cook for dinner.


NOTHING!

ZombieNates

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : But who said it was not okay to discuss it besides that one random girl? KD and I just talked about how we didn't care for the topic in another thread. No one said <strong>"HOLY SHIIT BITCH, IF YOU TALK ABOUT THAT THING YOU'RE SHOVING UP YOUR PUSSY I'M GOING TO THROW MY BALLS AT YOU".</strong> We just bitched about it and moved on. I don't know why it's such a big deal that we don't like the topic. And I will also agree with the fact that I think it's weird when newer posters talk about that kind of stuff.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

So are you saying you DON'T want to read the recap of my wedding night?

Also, Denise, I HATE YOU.

Steph0871

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : So are you saying you DON'T want to read the recap of my wedding night? 
Posted by ZombieNates[/QUOTE]

<div>ok, now I love you again.</div>

SilverLining1

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : Nope wouldnt have irritated as much. Sorry, it bothered me that is all. And you would have got your answers either way. And in the thread you could have been a little more specific. You got some good answers from Mery, and others as well. It's no biggie.
Posted by kd.joseph[/QUOTE]

<div>Okay. I'll keep it in mind not to be too glaring with topics like that :)</div>

kd.joseph

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : But who said it was not okay to discuss it besides that one random girl? KD and I just talked about how we didn't care for the topic in another thread. No one said "HOLY SHIIT BITCH, IF YOU TALK ABOUT THAT THING YOU'RE SHOVING UP YOUR PUSSY I'M GOING TO THROW MY BALLS AT YOU". We just bitched about it and moved on. I don't know why it's such a big deal that we don't like the topic. And I will also agree with the fact that I think it's weird when newer posters talk about that kind of stuff.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

I'm quite sure the thread you started was about things that bothered us, mostly wedding related. But along those lines. And it happened to be right there.

I didnt post in the thread, I just let it be. It's like at work I have to hold my tongue till the customer leaves and I can b!tch to a CW. It's not all that. Really.

kd.joseph

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : Okay. I'll keep it in mind not to be too glaring with topics like that :)
Posted by SilverLining1[/QUOTE]

TY as you can tell by the previous posts we can get gross, it just doesnt have to be out there for everyone to see.

And I have come to the conclusion "moist" hating is a generational thing. My step-daughter hates it, but it doesnt bother me in the least. It's not as bad as "IUD"! J/K!

missy68

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[QUOTE]I It's like at work I have to hold my tongue till the customer leaves and I can b!tch to a CW. It's not all that. Really.
Posted by kd.joseph[/QUOTE]

KD, you could be like my office-sharing coworker. She farts all the time. I don't know whether she expects me to ignore it, she doesn't think I'll hear it, thinks I'll excuse it, or what.
But I've even caught her spraying the air afterward with Love's Baby Soft.

kd.joseph

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : KD, you could be like my office-sharing coworker. She farts all the time. I don't know whether she expects me to ignore it, she doesn't think I'll hear it, thinks I'll excuse it, or what. But I've even caught her spraying the air afterward with Love's Baby Soft.
Posted by missy68[/QUOTE]

Way to ruin LBS for me Missy!

SilverLining1

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : I'm quite sure the thread you started was about things that bothered us, mostly wedding related. But along those lines. And it happened to be right there. I didnt post in the thread, I just let it be. It's like at work I have to hold my tongue till the customer leaves and I can b!tch to a CW. It's not all that. Really.
Posted by kd.joseph[/QUOTE]

<div>I'm just gonna put it out there that I wasn't really offended. It's not like you started a whole thread to bitch about my thread. The only person who irked me was the girl who posted "or ask your doctor", then ran to the other thread to yell "I just posted in that thread omg I know". Then when Mery and Jas called her out, she said she misunderstood me. I mean, you can only kiss one @ss at a time. </div>

Denise91980

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG - Confessions - I Judge : KD, you could be like my office-sharing coworker. She farts all the time. I don't know whether she expects me to ignore it, she doesn't think I'll hear it, thinks I'll excuse it, or what.<strong> But I've even caught her spraying the air afterward with Love's Baby Soft.
</strong>Posted by missy68[/QUOTE]

That just made me laugh so hard!  I have a co-worker who clips her toenails and every time I hear the clipping, I cringe. She also exercises while asking people about suicidal and homicidal ideations.

missy68

No kidding. Me, too. The two didn't mix.


ETA:  she's a fingernail clipper, too. I've been known to clip a broken nail, but I try to do it quietly or when she isn't in the room.

Ciaram22

I am frustrated with H for not helping with the baby more yesterday and for getting almost 10 hours of sleep. It was his first day back at work but he only fed him once and changed him once. I haven't gotten more than 6 hours of sleep since he was born and most of them being in 2 to 3 hour stints at a time.

mica178

I didn't know they still made Love's Baby Soft.  I remember the ads from the early 90s.

Ciara -- He should try to help you more, it's hard enough being a new mom.