game? you might judge me for this but...?

salt78

[i]--Salt -I once ate mushrooms that were bought outside a convenience store. They were fake, and I just threw up a lot. (yes, dumb I know)[/i] Hahahahaha I'm sorry, but that is hilarious.

tidetravel

This upcoming baby shower has turned into a huge clusterfuuck and somehow I have found myself in the middle of it.  I feel sorry for my friend planning it, because MIL and my other friend are being whiny, childish douches.  It REALLY makes me want to tell her to scrap the whole thing.

beatlesgirl25

Whit, is this ex-bff the same one from awhile back who was supposed to be your BM/MOH and was stressing you out by not wanting to buy her very affordable dress? Your thread on this was one of the first I posted on for TK.

Carebear517

I judge people who drink while pregnant. Even if it's just a glass here and there.

laladypoet

smokey, you have the wrong SN then.

mandysmear

Mike and I have some issues Lala, we for sure do.  I know it's not a walk in the park, but it has been pretty awesome.  I don't know.  Maybe because we lived together for 3 years beforehand?  Tough to say.  Everyone is different.  Jessjo's comment aside, I think that her and her H do need to work through some issues.  Like her drinking in secret and what not.

smokeybailey

Oh and I pee with the door open at home too.  So does my BF.  My mom did the same as I was growing up.  It seems normal to me.Even if I close the door, I have to remember to lock it because my d@mn cats let themselves in. 

RachNRich

Sorry lala---I HATE THE WORLD!

Nebb

I dont smoke, but people who are all up in arms over smokers (where they smoke, 3rd hand smoke, it should be banned in apartments blablabla) really annoy me. I have lived with heavy smokers all my life so I just dont care, I guess.

jessjo04

I shower every other day. I fart and blame it on the cats, 'cause I like my dog too much to blame it on her- no one would believe me anyway.

Brie2010

I sometimes resent how FI proposed a little bit.  It was very genuine, which I appreciate, but sometimes I wish he had put at least a smidge of thought into the execution.

mandybear7

I'm a high school teacher and basketball coach and I can't stand some of my students/players.

Kati0105

jessjo, I can kind of understand how you feel.  FI and I have been fighting more than usual lately and part of me feels like we should be happier and less at each other throats while we are in the process of planning the wedding and getting ready to commit to each for life but then I feel like I am one of those lame "this is supposed to be the happiest time of our lives!!!1111!!" posters.

cupcake_rampage

I confess that I am probably the most judgmental person that I know, even though I don't say it aloud as often as others do.  Most of the "judgments" I've read in this thread, I've thought that and worse.I know that I have brought issues both from my last relationship and my childhood into the relationship with my current fiance, and I haven't figured out how to fix them yet.  At least I'm not the only one of us who is doing this...I judge my mom and most of the people I personally know who smoke weed, especially those who claim it is for medical reasons (our state gives out medical cards for pretty much nothing, and the doctor who saw my mom admitted it).  NOT because I think they shouldn't be, even though I personally think it's kind of gross, but because a lot of people around here get all righteous, like they should be able to break whatever law they want just because they think it's stupid.  I don't.  I think laws are there for a reason, and I judge California/the US gov't for not just making weed legal since no one is going to prosecute, really.  This is a huge bone of contention for me.I unfriended someone on Facebook because he kept posting all kinds of conspiracy theory bullshit, and I'm sorry, but I just can't stand it.

Pirata13

When I'm at home, I always pee with the door open unless we have companySalt, I do this too. I don't think it bothers FI, because sometimes he peeks around the corner and says "She's even pretty when she pees."Last time he held the boy cat around the corner and said "Look, boyfriend, mommy's even pretty when she pees." Gizmo looked really confused.Crikey, I can't wait til this wedding is over so we can afford to get out of the house once in a while...

beatlesgirl25

Scarlet, I feel you on the post-wedding eating thing. Except I was on a crazy weight loss race before the wedding, and lost 20 lbs. I've gained a few back already in the first month, because I'm too lazy to exercise anymore. I feel like crap. Oh, and I also visibly show my disgust at smokers if I can smell them (either their direct smoke or the smell of it in their hair/skin), even though I used to smoke and would love to now. It's just a different smell coming from someone else.

jforeman5

Jforeman, my dad was an assshole. He accidentally started his house on fire when he was smoking a cigar (he was on oxygen for emphezyma (?)). He lived for a few weeks and I didn't go see him. My brothers were really mad at me, but I've never regretted it. Thank you so much for saying that. I get so much Sh!t from my family about it, and it is so nice for once to hear that I am not alone. Also, I don't wash my hands after I pee either. But I definitely wash them when I get home and before I cook.

RachNRich

When I met FI, I weighed about 120, and I'm 5'7''. Over two years, I gained 15 lbs--which isn't a lot, but I hated it. I felt disgusting. I've recently lost the 15 pounds. And I still feel disgusting.

ScarletGem

I judge harshly every person who says they prefer to purchase a pet instead of adopt/rescue, online and IRL.Yes!  When some extended family got a designer dog from a breeder, I definitely judged. 

salt78

I compare myself to like every woman I meet. I feel kind of uncomfortable around really really pretty people. It probably has at least something to do with jealousy.

goheels05

My HS sweetheart and his wife recently moved back to the area after living in DC.  How did I find this out?  Because I stalk the county property listings, and I was actually looking for his brother and found him instead.Ugh, this next part's really bad.maybe I should wait until I know there's no lurky loos reading this . . .

lpstl

Pete can't manage money worth a shiit, and consequently had to borrow some from his father today for our kitchen (because he spent what was set aside in his account on god knows what). I'm kind of indifferent about it because we still have separate accounts and most of the funds are in my account. I have to get a handle on it though, so we're doing a joint account very soon. I'm already preparing myself for the fighting. I'm sick of random strangers making small talk with me about my pregnancy. I hate small talk and 90% of the time someone says something that makes me want to punch them in the face.

Mariah&Steven

*Steve always wants the sex.  I don't.  He thinks I'm not attracted to him anymore...but that's not the case.  I seriously think it's my BC and I wish I could get off of it so that maybe my sex drive would come back.  But I seriously just do not need it every day or every other day...I could probably go a good week or two without it and be totally fine.

smokeybailey

lala-that is a little ironic.  My ex used to call me smokey because he used to always do Ice Cube's lines from Friday.  But my cat's name is smokey so it works now.Also, not only have I never smoked a cigarette, I have never smoked pot.  Nor have I ever tried any drugs.  However, Jack, Jim, Cap'n, Jose, Johnny, and I are all very close. 

Kati0105

maybe I should wait until I know there's no lurky loos reading this . . .Shoo, lurky loos, shoo!::looks around::Ok, I think you're safe now, Heels, spill it!

beatlesgirl25

I compare myself to like every woman I meet. I feel kind of uncomfortable around really really pretty people.Salt, I do the same thing, but you realize they are probably thinking/feeling the same way about you right?

ac_in_dc

I get a cigarette craving almost every day. This thread is giving me one. I still drink too much diet coke (caffeine free now) even though I'm pregnant.

J&K10910

If I told you about FI and my history together, a lot of you would probably wonder why we were getting married.  But we've worked through those things.

mwhitson14

beatles, excellent memory, but no. That's my other BM/friend who had just bought a new Mustang but didn't have $20 for the dress, so I paid for it.The BM I am talking about now is the BM who didn't want to get an E-Bay/PayPal account (because that's where I bought the dresses, once-worn Alfred Angelo gowns), so I bought that one too. I have had a sucky WP, to be honest, and I wish I hadn't asked them.

georgia_bride09

I judge people at the grocery store by their groceries. For example, when an obese person is buying three bags of cheetos and diet soda. Yesterday I saw a pregnant girl at Walmart (I say girl because she looked about 18) who had nothing but processed junk food in her buggy. I judged her and her friend that was with her wearing white flip flops. Also, kati, I've gotten to where I go to bed w/o washing my face/brusing my teeth more and more often lately. I feel gross, but that doesn't compel me to get up and do it.