I Judge

katieisawesome

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge : I judge the clients who make $250,000 a year, have already filed for bankruptcy once due to credit card debt, and call me to make sure that their $750,000 in retirement assets are creditor protected because they're about to file for bankruptcy a second time.
Posted by djhar[/QUOTE]

<div>Likewise.  I try to be understanding because I do realize that sometimes people get into trouble for reasons entirely outside of their control.  I have great compassion for many of our clients.  But I find myself getting enraged sometimes by the entitled ones who have no respect for their good fortune.</div>

adamar15

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[QUOTE]Honestly I'm not sure why not wanting him to be covered in food while walking around in public is so re-judge worthy. Frankly, when my chef FI gets out of work sometimes, the smell on his coat is quite pungent depending on what he's been working with, and I'd rather that he not be traipsing about like that. So. I don't see what the big deal is. <strong>Speaking of food, I judge people who can't pronounce Chipotle correctly.
</strong>Posted by kate51485[/QUOTE]

This drives me NUTS.  I will cosign this judge.  I don't know why it bothers me so much, because it's totally <span style="font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';color:#1f1f1f;font-size:8.5pt;">Inconsequential, but it does.</span>

georgia_bride09

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[QUOTE]Honestly I'm not sure why not wanting him to be covered in food while walking around in public is so re-judge worthy. Frankly, when my chef FI gets out of work sometimes, the smell on his coat is quite pungent depending on what he's been working with, and I'd rather that he not be traipsing about like that. So. I don't see what the big deal is.

<strong>Speaking of food, I judge people who can't pronounce Chipotle correctly.
</strong>Posted by kate51485[/QUOTE]

Yes!! Even some people on the Food Network say chipoLTe and it is so aggravating!!

baystateapple

My H works as an environmental technician at a hospital nearby.  One day a week, he has to work with biohazardous waste.  THOSE days, I ask him to please change and shower the minute he gets home (and honestly, he doesn't need me to ask him, he does it anyway, because...gross).  Every other day, I can't bring myself to really care.  If he wants to go out smelling bad and in his nasty work clothes, whatever, that's on him.

scottswife1106

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[QUOTE]Honestly I'm not sure why not wanting him to be covered in food while walking around in public is so re-judge worthy. Frankly, when my chef FI gets out of work sometimes, the smell on his coat is quite pungent depending on what he's been working with, and I'd rather that he not be traipsing about like that. So. I don't see what the big deal is. <strong>Speaking of food, I judge people who can't pronounce Chipotle correctly.
</strong>Posted by kate51485[/QUOTE]

LOL...me too

I also laugh everytime I hear people say Aeropostale wrong. I did for so long and then I heard someone who worked there say it and I had to correct myself. She said that when she was hired there was a whole mini lesson on how to say the name right, during the orientation, because so many people say it wrong.

ahhhitsshannyn

Sorry Jaycee if you think it is a bit much, but that comment just made you sound really shallow. Your BF has a job and is going to the store with you after a day at work, be grateful.

annakb8

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[QUOTE]Ohh let me add...I judge people who leave pee on the seat in public restrooms and I judge those that don't wash because no one is there to "watch them" yet you see them leave the stall and walk right out...bleh
Posted by ShakeUpTampa[/QUOTE]

Leaving pee is gross, but the other day a girl walked out of a stall in a busy bathroom and just left her toilet seat liner on the toilet. I went in after her and didn't have any idea what to do about it. Who does that?

Beachy730

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge : Not at all. When I had my children, I went out only when I had to, while I was bleeding because of the stuff that was coming out of me. I was just not comfortable anywhere but home or at my mom's which is where I went after I had my daughter because I couldn't do the stairs in my house.
Posted by scottswife1106[/QUOTE]

<div>So is this a jealousy thing?  You didn't feel comfortable leaving the house so you judge others because you're jealous that they can?  I really don't get it.   And like LC (I think) said, you're just backpeddling now.  You started by saying you judge anyone who leaves the house before 6 weeks, now you keep changing your story.  </div>

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[QUOTE]. Speaking of food, I judge people who can't pronounce Chipotle correctly.
Posted by kate51485[/QUOTE]

That would be my mom. Chip-holt-ee. She also says Crackel Barrel instead of Cracker Barrel "because it rhymes and I like it better."

jaycee7389

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[QUOTE]Honestly I'm not sure why not wanting him to be covered in food while walking around in public is so re-judge worthy. Frankly, when my chef FI gets out of work sometimes, the smell on his coat is quite pungent depending on what he's been working with, and I'd rather that he not be traipsing about like that. So. I don't see what the big deal is.<strong> Speaking of food, I judge people who can't pronounce Chipotle correctly.</strong>
Posted by kate51485[/QUOTE]

<div>same here! and i am completely in love with chipotle :) </div><div>
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KellyBrian2013

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[QUOTE]Ohh let me add...<strong>I judge people who leave pee on the seat in public restrooms</strong> and I judge those that don't wash because no one is there to "watch them" yet you see them leave the stall and walk right out...bleh
Posted by ShakeUpTampa[/QUOTE]

I super-judge those people too. Do they not realize that they're hovering to avoid pee on the seat is the REASON there is pee on the seat!?

Not to mention that, while gross, urine is also sterile.

Moneypenny424

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge : Yeah I know. Makes me sick. At my dad's office the boss never even gets his hands wet after going to the bathroom. Yeah, that's right...doesn't even wash them or get them wet.
Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]

This is the worst.  When I was in public health school, we had signs above the sinks that said "Handwashing is the cornerstone of public health."  I say that OUT LOUD to anyone I ever see leaving a bathroom without washing her hands.

kate51485

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[QUOTE]Sorry Jaycee if you think it is a bit much, but that comment just made you sound really shallow. Your BF has a job and is going to the store with you after a day at work, be grateful.
Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]

Meh. If everything turned into a "be grateful you/he/we have a job," there would be nothing left to talk about.

pinkpinot

I'm worried that I'm not pronouncing Chipotle correctly.

jaycee7389

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[QUOTE]Sorry Jaycee if you think it is a bit much, but that comment just made you sound really shallow. Your BF has a job and is going to the store with you after a day at work, be grateful.
Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]

<div>well, sorry if it did. i probably was being somewhat shallow. but it's how i feel..i don't make it a bfd and i didn't realize it would turn into one.</div>

kate51485

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge : That would be my mom. Chip-holt-ee. She also says Crackel Barrel instead of Cracker Barrel "because it rhymes and I like it better."
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

That's funny. My mom calls Harris Teeter "Harris Tweeter" because she also thinks it sounds better.

Beachy730

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[QUOTE]I'm worried that I'm not pronouncing Chipotle correctly.
Posted by pinkpinot[/QUOTE]

<div>Chip-oat-lay</div>

georgia_bride09

Thanks, Sara!!

Bubbalub

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge : Not at all. When I had my children, I went out only when I had to, while I was bleeding because of the stuff that was coming out of me. I was just not comfortable anywhere but home or at my mom's which is where I went after I had my daughter because I couldn't do the stairs in my house.
Posted by scottswife1106[/QUOTE]

And that is YOU. Your experience =/= the same experience every new mother has and it is not cool to judge other women who go out while they are still bleeding just because YOU felt uncomfortable. Jeebus.

KellyBrian2013

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge : LOL...me too I also laugh everytime I hear people say Aeropostale wrong. I did for so long and then I heard someone who worked there say it and I had to correct myself. <strong>She said that when she was hired there was a whole mini lesson on how to say the name right, during the orientation, because so many people say it wrong.
</strong>Posted by scottswife1106[/QUOTE]

I worked there over the holiday season back in HS... and yeah, one of the first things they teach you in orientation is the PROPER way to say Aeropostale (Aero-pah-stahl).

RobotLegs

Gah, I hate it when people mispronounce Chipotle! 

Look, Coloradoans, Chipotle (the restaurant) was STARTED here.  Learn to pronounce it correctly, PLEASE.  The 'T' comes BEFORE the 'L'.

kate51485

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[QUOTE]I'm worried that I'm not pronouncing Chipotle correctly.
Posted by pinkpinot[/QUOTE]

You get a pass even if you're not since I like you.

katieisawesome

Ugh chipotle is one of mine too.  In fact, I cringe at almost all mispronounced words.  It's like a nervous tic of mine or something.

My SO says "surrage" instead of "sewage" - we actually had a *fight* about that one sadly enough.

RobotLegs

Annnnnd now I want a burrito.

pinkpinot

Phew.  That's how I say it.

midgetthemighty

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge : This is the worst.  When I was in public health school, we had signs above the sinks that said "Handwashing is the cornerstone of public health."  <strong>I say that OUT LOUD to anyone I ever see leaving a bathroom without washing her hands.
</strong>Posted by Moneypenny424[/QUOTE]

That's awesome! *high five*

I've always wondered how many people wouldn't wash their hands if there wasn't a sign reminding them it was a good idea/required for employees. I'm sure there are some people out there like that and it scares me.

Stackeye210

Speaking of changing names:

I hate when people call Walmart - wally world and Target - Tarjaay.  It doesn't make them more classy - if you shop there, just roll with it.

scottswife1106

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge : So is this a jealousy thing?  You didn't feel comfortable leaving the house so you judge others because you're jealous that they can?  I really don't get it.   And like LC (I think) said, you're just backpeddling now.  You started by saying you judge anyone who leaves the house before 6 weeks, now you keep changing your story.  
Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]

I won't say that I was/am jealous at all. Maybe I need to clarify? I'm saying that I judge people, be it moms or dads, who bring their newborns out before the 6 week checkup, to public places. I am not saying that they have to stay cooped up in their house the whole time and they can't go out and visit. 

You guys are probably right that nothing will happen and that the mom and baby are fine. I just come from a family who really believes in that 6 week thing. Some of the things that we are taught/shown growing up, stick with us and they become a part of our lives/beliefs.  Notice I did not say all or majority.

pinkpinot

Kate! how is the puppy?

Ciaram22

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[QUOTE]Annnnnd now I want a burrito.
Posted by RobotLegs[/QUOTE]
Same here.