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J&K10910 · July 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT : ahilton. I can't remember who invented her, but gross.
Posted by opalsky007[/QUOTE]

YES YES YES! Thank you!

heyimbren · July 2010

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[QUOTE]I think a lot of traditionally religious people feel like Loop. I think the inability to seperate religious beliefs from legal rights is the reason the U.S. is so behind the times when it comes to equal rights.
Posted by jasmineh7777[/QUOTE]

i completely agree with you. i, myself, am very religious however, i also strongly believe in separation of church and state. and democracy. if my opinion is the minority opinion, then majority still rules.

jasmineh7777 · July 2010

What was the title of that thread on E? Because I have no sleuthing skills.

J&K10910 · July 2010

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[QUOTE]So, a pedophile has the urge and may or may not act on it and a child molester is a pedophile that acts on their urges? I did not know that. I did not know about that distinction. It's like the day I learned the difference between vibrators and dildos.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

"Pedophile" is the word used to describe/diagnose someone who is attracted to children.

And child molesters are not necessarily pedophiles either. Some child molesters of criminals of opportunity.

missy68 · July 2010

East : yes, yes, yes. I was just thinking, if I was a regular over there anymore, there's no way in hell I'd put another photo of myself and J up for people to judge our appearances. Except for your stance on dogs, I'm growing quite fond of you, Eastie.

KPWEDKK: It is supposedly random (people pulled out of line). However, I have a college friend who looks Middle Eastern (I forgot where he's actually from), and has a fairly normal last name. He says he gets pulled out every.single.time. In college, his last name was Hussein. He's legally had that changed (he's a writer) for many years. I think he was even born here. The only time my suitcase has been inspected has been the times my mom has sent homemade bread wrapped in tinfoil back in it. I'm sure it's due to the tinfoil.

Loop: pedophiles are about children, not homosexuality. Just like rape is about control, not sex.

opalsky007 · July 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT : For some reason I think it was done a LONG time ago. <strong>There was a girl who was attacked by some rando and told her and her FI looked like brother and sister.</strong> This might have happened the way I remember it, or at two different instances. If that is the case, I dont know what im talking about.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

This happened to me during that whole unDIS mess. I managed to get called a child bride, and a brotherfucker that day. H got called a lesbian because of his long hair. Blech.

merivale87 · July 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT : YES. I don't understand why people would. Don't you feel like a fraud?* *I'm not religious.
Posted by eastunder1[/QUOTE]

<div>Although I don't attend church regularly (hardly at all actually..), I do believe in God and other aspects of my baptized religion, and have always felt that if I didn't get married in a church it wouldn't be as meaningful to me, my parents, and my grandparents. My FI is not religious. In fact, he was never baptized at all. We both believe in God, and are getting married in a church. Our Reverend will say the Lord's prayer along with a blessing regardless of the fact that my FI was not baptized and we do not attend church regularly. </div><div>
</div><div>I will not feel like a fraud, and neither will my FI. (But I respect your opinion, and agree that in some cases it is silly to get married in a church "just because").</div>

eastunder1 · July 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT : For some reason I think it was done a LONG time ago. There was a girl who was attacked by some rando and told her and her FI looked like brother and sister. This might have happened the way I remember it, or at two different instances. If that is the case, I dont know what im talking about.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

I remember this. The girl and her FI were both the same background (I want to say Pacific Islander?) so they had vague similarities. But it would be like telling two Asian people they were obviously related because they were both Asian.

loop0406 · July 2010

Why children need mothers: mothers excel in providing children with emotional security and in reading the physical and emotional cues of infants. Obviously, they also give their daughters unique counsel as they confront the physical, emotional, and social challenges associated with puberty and adolescence.

Why children need fathers: A father's pheromones influence the biological development of his daughter, that a strong marriage provides a model for girls of what to look for in a man

http://www.frc.org/get.cfm?i=if04g01

http://www.jimfeeney.org/againstgaymarriage.html

katiewhompus · July 2010

I think the teachers in my county (REPEAT : MY County) are ridiculously overpaid. I'm sorry, but you do not get to be 25, work 40 hours a day, work 203 days a year, get paid $60,000 a year and get to biitch about being underpaid. Oh, you stay late for coaching or work summer school? Yeah you also get paid for those.
My parents are both teachers, and I work at a school, so yes I know what it takes to be a teacher and my opinion still holds.

I think we need to have better definitions of sex offender/pedophile before we start castrating or sterilizing. One of my college friend's bf is listed as a sex offender because he peed outside one drunken night (between midnight and 2am) and a mother driving by with her kid called the cops and said he exposed himself to her child by peeing. His entire life was fvcked because he, like a billion other people, made a stupid drunken error at the age of 21.

Steph0871 · July 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT : "Pedophile" is the word used to describe/diagnose someone who is attracted to children. And child molesters are not necessarily pedophiles either. Some child molesters of criminals of opportunity.
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

Good distinction. I will re-word my idea.

Anyone who actual physically sexually abuses a child should never be allowed freedom again. Sorry, I just feel that strongly. I personally do not believe they are ever 'cured." Even if it's possible, I think they lose all rights when they take advantage of an innocent, defenseless child. (I should clarify a little, since this is quite vague. Do I think this applies to the 19 year old who has sex with his/her 16 year old bf/gf? Of course not. But any adult who tortures a child like that should be sentenced far more harshly than what they currently allow.)

[Deleted User] · July 2010

I refuse to even look at any link with "against gay marriage" in the title. Are you seriously citing that as a credible source for your argument?

aprovencher21 · July 2010

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[QUOTE]Why children need mothers: mothers excel in providing children with emotional security and in reading the physical and emotional cues of infants. Obviously, they also give their daughters unique counsel as they confront the physical, emotional, and social challenges associated with puberty and adolescence. Why children need fathers: A father's pheromones influence the biological development of his daughter, that a strong marriage provides a model for girls of what to look for in a man <a href="http://www.frc.org/get.cfm?i=if04g01" rel="nofollow">http://www.frc.org/get.cfm?i=if04g01</a> <a href="http://www.jimfeeney.org/againstgaymarriage.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.jimfeeney.org/againstgaymarriage.html</a>
Posted by loop0406[/QUOTE]

Loop you seriously need to become educated. These websites are not scientific, logical and they do not prove anything. They are a collection of drivel created by bigots. So you're just spewing out hate and lies.

opalsky007 · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_fight-fight-fight?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:033ce228-8086-42c2-9996-9015e7423449Post:8da84b4b-e5b6-4f8a-8e02-21d09626e099">Re: FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT</a>:
[QUOTE]Why children need mothers: mothers excel in providing children with emotional security and in reading the physical and emotional cues of infants. Obviously, they also give their daughters unique counsel as they confront the physical, emotional, and social challenges associated with puberty and adolescence. Why children need fathers: A father's pheromones influence the biological development of his daughter, that a strong marriage provides a model for girls of what to look for in a man <a href="http://www.frc.org/get.cfm?i=if04g01" rel="nofollow">http://www.frc.org/get.cfm?i=if04g01</a> <a href="http://www.jimfeeney.org/againstgaymarriage.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.jimfeeney.org/againstgaymarriage.html</a>
Posted by loop0406[/QUOTE]

Pheromones? The only reason we need fathers is pheromones?

Even if that were a decent argument, wouldn't we get enough just by, say, being out in public with men? Failing that, couldn't we just get a pheromone plug-in like they sell for nervous cats? Plug-ins: better than some dads.

J&K10910 · July 2010

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[QUOTE]I am refuse to even look at any link with "against gay marriage" in the title. Are you seriously citing that as a credible source for your argument?
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

But cew, it's a .org site!!!! IT'S LEGIT!

[Deleted User] · July 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT : Good distinction. I will re-word my idea. Anyone who actual physically sexually abuses a child should never be allowed freedom again. Sorry, I just feel that strongly. I personally do not believe they are ever 'cured." Even if it's possible, I think they lose all rights when they take advantage of an innocent, defenseless child. (I should clarify a little, since this is quite vague. Do I think this applies to the 19 year old who has sex with his/her 16 year old bf/gf? Of course not. But any adult who tortures a child like that should be sentenced far more harshly than what they currently allow.)
Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

I 100% agree with this.

jasmineh7777 · July 2010

I think many people equate homosexuality with promoscuity and other sexually devious acts. I hate that homosexuality carries those totally false connotations.

aprovencher21 · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_fight-fight-fight?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:033ce228-8086-42c2-9996-9015e7423449Post:8da84b4b-e5b6-4f8a-8e02-21d09626e099">Re: FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT</a>:
[QUOTE]Why children need mothers: mothers excel in providing children with emotional security and in reading the physical and emotional cues of infants. Obviously, they also give their daughters unique counsel as they confront the physical, emotional, and social challenges associated with puberty and adolescence. Why children need fathers: A father's pheromones influence the biological development of his daughter, that a strong marriage provides a model for girls of what to look for in a man <a href="http://www.frc.org/get.cfm?i=if04g01" rel="nofollow">http://www.frc.org/get.cfm?i=if04g01</a> <a href="http://www.jimfeeney.org/againstgaymarriage.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.jimfeeney.org/againstgaymarriage.html</a>
Posted by loop0406[/QUOTE]

You are a sad and pathetic individual if you believe any of this crap.

Nebb · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_fight-fight-fight?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:033ce228-8086-42c2-9996-9015e7423449Post:16e88d28-aa95-4006-903d-fe2322aa2cca">Re: FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT : I remember this. The girl and her FI were both the same background (I want to say Pacific Islander?) so they had vague similarities. But it would be like telling two Asian people they were obviously related because they were both Asian.
Posted by eastunder1[/QUOTE]

Thats the exact situation Im talking about! I remember the sig too, I think they were standing side by side with white tshirts on.

[Deleted User] · July 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT : I feel like saying this just feels like you want people to scold you and tell you youre pretty. Dont make disparaging comments about yourself.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

No, I wasn't fishing for compliments or anything. I was rambling because I'm tired and rushed at work, but it did come off that way (it's something I usually joke about with friends, so in my head it's said in a teasing voice). Sorry about that.

Celles · July 2010

As a nerd myself, I'm offended that Loop self-identifies as a nerd and still cites non-scientific propaganda in support of her idiocy.

jasmineh7777 · July 2010

Loop's opinion (although unpopular here) is held by tons and tons of strictly religious people.
Many members of my very Catholic family are against gay marriage and gay adoption based on religious beliefs. It's kind of impossible to argue the religious aspect of this issue.
Loop, do you think that church and state should be seperate?

J&K10910 · July 2010

I just want to address this point:

2) The public health catastrophe among homosexual men.

from that link.

I firmly believe the "public health catastrophe" (dramatic much?) has much more to do with lack of sex education directed at homosexual practices because of how taboo it is in many areas. NOT because they're gay and having gay sex. Seriously.

opalsky007 · July 2010

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[QUOTE]As a nerd myself, I'm offended that Loop self-identifies as a nerd and still cites non-scientific propaganda in support of her idiocy.
Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]

I'm offended that she reads "alot" and does not know that "alot" is not a word.

BecW2be · July 2010

Jesus Tapdancing Christ. Is there any argument supported by fact and not religious blither that would support your point of view, Loop? Because a father being around to give pheromones and to show his daughters what to look for in a man cannot possibly be said aloud with a straight face.

eastunder1 · July 2010

I will agree with Loopy that I believe having both male and female presences is imprtant for a child, because I do think that both sexes bring different things to the table and being shaped by both during childhood is important. BUT - with so many other people of both sexes outside the parenalt units that surround and nurture a child during development (aunts, uncles, teachers, clergy, coaches, friends) that is just a RIDICULOUS reason to argue that same sex couples should not be allowed to raise one.

lisalou402 · July 2010

If we were back in 1970, Loop's comments may be about bi-racial couples.
Maybe before that it would have been about the woman's right to vote.
It's just the evolution of our society.
Sorry, Loop...i know they are your opinions, but they are sort of antiquated compared to everyone on here (doesn't make them wrong for you)
Anyone can make a good or bad parent.

I lost my mom when i was young, does that mean because i didn't have a mother that i may be missing something?

I use pads. I like Coach. And I am a liberal who thinks Obama was not a good choice for our country.

And although I had a credit card at about 18, i think there should be stricter limits on what dollar amounts can be given to people at that age. Maybe they shouldn't get a $5K limit. My parents took me to Sears to get my first credit card to "build my credit history"

J&K10910 · July 2010

I think Loop has been drinking too much Jesus juice.

kd.joseph · July 2010

This is quite entertaining.

I only add, since I had my son I must wear pads. No tampons for me. They make my cramps, and flow worse. And they are very uncomfortable to wear. So TMI, i gots it.

I have to say I agree with, Cew,Bec's Heels, Aprov. And Easties you're great.

Carry on, my days almost over.

lisalou402 · July 2010

And oh, i think texting while driving should be given a $500 fine.

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