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Prudie Day
ei34
10/17/24 1:23PM

How's everyone?  Happy almost end of the week! Read more

10/17/24 1:23PM
This letter's tone has me all sorts of 'ew'.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:42PM

Dear Prudence, Ever since my wife (37F) and I (40M) got married, she’s struggled to keep up with her chores around the house. Back then, … Read more

10/17/24 6:42PM
If it's working, great. Ignore the 'yelp' re…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 5:17PM

Dear Prudence,  A couple years ago, I started doing therapy via a phone app (I won’t name it but I’m sure you can narrow it down) to d… Read more

10/17/24 5:17PM
She's miserable, but you didn't have to brag …
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:29PM

Dear Prudence, My sister is miserable, and it is all her own making. After she got married, she got obsessed with all these cottage core in… Read more

10/17/24 6:29PM
Stop this right now or she'll push you away.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 4:53PM

Dear Prudence, My daughter “Serena,” who’s now 30, is in what could be a beautiful relationship with a man who adores her, yet all … Read more

10/17/24 4:53PM
I'd never let her see or speak to him alone a…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:37PM

Dear Prudence, I lost my husband when I was six months pregnant. Whatever good will my in-laws had for me evaporated when I decided to move… Read more

10/17/24 6:37PM
knottie0d2c0b6b3a5beebd
10/17/24 9:16PM

Hi! Looking for suggestions.. the wedding will be at a clubhouse type setting. The outside is not ideal for wedding photos.. there’s no p… Read more

10/17/24 9:16PM
You are a miserable person, LW.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 8:39PM

Dear Prudence, There is a well-endowed young lady in the neighborhood who dresses like a stripper when she goes jogging. There are plenty o… Read more

10/17/24 8:39PM
"With my surgery coming up, I *need* you…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:51PM

Dear Prudence,  My wife and I have a 5-year-old and a 4-year-old. We have been fighting about trying to get the kids to sleep in their own… Read more

10/17/24 6:51PM
I'm so right that I'm never wrong.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 7:00PM

Dear Prudence, I am a highly intelligent person. I don’t say that with false confidence, I know I’m smart, I ace every test that’s gi… Read more

10/17/24 7:00PM
You are helping her.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 8:41PM

Dear Prudence, My niece has always been a high achiever, while her older brothers are your stereotypical slackers. They both barely graduat… Read more

10/17/24 8:41PM
I feel LW's vibes, I'm not as intense, but I …
mrsconn23
10/17/24 7:01PM

Dear Prudence, We love to entertain. I know I am weird, but I don’t want help in the kitchen, before or after the meal. My wife and I are… Read more

10/17/24 7:01PM
Thank your friend for the review and do you.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 7:03PM

Dear Prudence,  I’m an aspiring writer, and I’ve almost completed a good draft of what would be my first novel. A major plot line invo… Read more

10/17/24 7:03PM
Ignore bio dad, but maybe have a heart to hea…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:57PM

Dear Prudence, My dad had an affair and divorced my mom when I was 12. He immediately dropped out of my life. He moved three hours away and… Read more

10/17/24 6:57PM
Your H is the one who needs boundaries.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:59PM

Dear Prudence,  My sister-in-law is miserable and confrontational. I’ve been on the receiving end of her bullying several times. Initial… Read more

10/17/24 6:59PM
Ignore her. She isn't worth the breath to in…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:55PM

Dear Prudence, My best friend recently had a baby and I have been heavily involved with helping her. I am doing the cooking, cleaning, and … Read more

10/17/24 6:55PM
Stop entertaining her complaints.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:32PM

Dear Prudence, I raised my two girls in a small, cramped house. Both are adults, but my youngest still lives with me. I finally had enough … Read more

10/17/24 6:32PM
As awful as this feels, it's best this is all…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 4:58PM

Dear Prudence, My boyfriend and I have been dating since freshman year of college (about 3.5 years). We both graduated last May and have be… Read more

10/17/24 4:58PM
This is truly not about you, but you should r…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:24PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve never had a great relationship with my mother-in-law but I thought it was cordial. My in-laws live across the country… Read more

10/17/24 6:24PM
Let the chips fall.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:34PM

Dear Prudence, One of my friends, “Anna,” has a substance abuse problem. We’ve had words about it in the past, but she brushed me off… Read more

10/17/24 6:34PM
The friend you have vs. the one you want.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:30PM

Dear Prudence, 20 years ago, I had a neighborhood friend. Susan was 10 years younger than me, but her daughter was right in between my two.… Read more

10/17/24 6:30PM
Only you can decide if you want to see him ag…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:26PM

Dear Prudence, I recently matched with a man on a dating app and met up with him for drinks and then dinner. We work in the same industry, … Read more

10/17/24 6:26PM
Not responding is a response.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:23PM

Dear Prudence, I raised “Anne” from the time she was 3 until she was 16. Her mother couldn’t be bothered to do more than call on her… Read more

10/17/24 6:23PM
You're projecting an awful lot on to all of t…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:22PM

Dear Prudence,  I’ve had a rough last couple of years. I’ve been struggling with depression and anxiety for most of my adult life, but… Read more

10/17/24 6:22PM
There is nothing else to do here.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 5:00PM

Dear Prudence, I own a 1-bedroom condo that I often sublease when I am out of the country. My half-sister got pregnant once in high school … Read more

10/17/24 5:00PM
I think it's time for a gentle, but firm and …
mrsconn23
10/17/24 5:02PM

Dear Prudence, I have a friend who can be socially awkward in group situations. She means well and is a kind person, but she can rub people… Read more

10/17/24 5:02PM
Stop telling SIL ANYTHING about this situatio…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 5:05PM

Dear Prudence, My sister-in-law, a nice way to put it, is an activist. If there is a cause she believes in, she is all in and close to 100 … Read more

10/17/24 5:05PM
Y'all never talked about this before getting …
mrsconn23
10/17/24 5:15PM

Dear Prudence,  My husband and I are on our second marriages and working on blending our family. We have two kids (13/15) from my previous… Read more

10/17/24 5:15PM
Break-up, seriously.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 5:11PM

Dear Prudence,  I live in a murder house. Obviously it wasn’t what I dreamed of for my future home, but it was a good price for what I g… Read more

10/17/24 5:11PM
He was wrong, but you took it too far.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 5:10PM

Dear Prudence, Our father retired after working 50 years, so my three siblings and I decided to take him and his wife to a very expensive r… Read more

10/17/24 5:10PM

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