Have any of you marrieds relaxed a bit on your birth control situation? I stopped taking the pill about a month before the wedding due to some very unpleasant side effects and we decided together that I'm not going to seek out another method. We're just using the Family Planning Method and pulling out, which we know is not the most effective combination. If we got pregnant we would be happy and we are ready financially, it's just not something we're ready to actively pursue yet since we haven't been married very long.
Only problem is now I freak out every single month before my period. It's not really fear, it's just the anxiety of not being as sure anymore what's going to happen. Anyone else dealing with this? I cannot find a good forum ANYWHERE for women in this position - everyone is either trying or preventing.