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Might as well post last week's Prudie too.
mrsconn23
07/11/19 4:21PM

Dear Prudence, I recently went out with someone I met via dating app who seemed amazing, but some cursory internet research—a simple Goog… Read more

07/11/19 4:21PM
So. Many. Questions.
mrsconn23
07/11/19 3:30PM

Dear Prudence, I live at home with my five siblings (I’m the oldest) and mom and dad. For about a year now my mom has been going through … Read more

07/11/19 3:30PM
It's definitely not about the slang.
mrsconn23
07/11/19 4:23PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve lived most of my life in the U.S., but I was born in the U.K., and my parents are British. They use a lot of regional… Read more

07/11/19 4:23PM
MAGA wedding (No, I am not making this up.)
OurWildKingdom
07/13/19 8:52PM

Even if you do support Trump (I don’t), holy crap this is tacky! https://thegrio.com/2019/07/12/michigan-couple-maga-theme-pro-trump-wedd… Read more

07/13/19 8:52PM
Going to the courthouse and still having a ce…
knottieb030d871358f2235
07/10/19 3:53PM

So we plan on going to the courthouse before the official wedding date so that I can get better health insurance (I know..so romantic).  Bu… Read more

07/10/19 3:53PM
warning about sylver weddings socal planner/c…
ramonacreel
07/15/19 5:02PM

I hired Stacy to do weekend-of coordination for my insane-over-the-top-weekend-long-burning-man-style wedding in May of 2019. It was three d… Read more

07/15/19 5:02PM
Sisters getting married back to back
adventuresoftonoandlo
07/10/19 6:38PM

My younger sister got engaged after we did, and planned her wedding before mine. Long story short, it was a total disaster of a wedding and … Read more

07/10/19 6:38PM
"Maybe? Maybe not? I'm happy with it ju…
mrsconn23
07/11/19 5:56PM

Dear Prudence, I am a happily aromantic woman in my 30s, but I always feel awkward responding to questions about my love life from friends,… Read more

07/11/19 5:56PM
Mental Breakdown
knottieffd308519aec5b27
07/14/19 10:26PM

Today has been a day from hell. Our wedding is 6 days away and my flower girls' mother messages me that their dresses can't be altered and t… Read more

07/14/19 10:26PM
Stopping my non-binary blunders.
mrsconn23
07/11/19 5:47PM

Dear Prudence, A friend came out as nonbinary one year ago. They use they/them pronouns and changed their name. My problem is that even afte… Read more

07/11/19 5:47PM
Bonus Prudie.
mrsconn23
07/11/19 4:17PM

Q. Liver Transplant: My young niece requires a liver transplant. It turns out that her mom—my SIL—and my husband are a match. We’ve d… Read more

07/11/19 4:17PM
Bridal Shower Help
knottie09457e5772314d70
07/15/19 10:44AM

My MOH asked for a guest list for the bridal shower. If I include my immediate family (mother, sisters, nieces, aunts, cousins) and close fr… Read more

07/15/19 10:44AM
How to save my job and my students.
mrsconn23
07/11/19 5:54PM

Dear Prudence, I’m faculty at a university. A significant number of my male colleagues have been accused of sexual harassment by student… Read more

07/11/19 5:54PM
Helping my daughter find her identity.
mrsconn23
07/11/19 3:47PM

Dear Prudence, My 12-year-old came out as bisexual about a year ago. Since then, she and her friends have adopted the use of gender-neutral… Read more

07/11/19 3:47PM
How to not be rude with restrictions
knottiea9b0b1a72462b8d5
07/12/19 5:29PM

So my venue is priced per person, the price we all agreed upon was for 50 people so I'm like that's cool, I don't really want more than 50 p… Read more

07/12/19 5:29PM
The Bachelorette- spoilers!
STARMOON44
07/16/19 2:18PM

i am so impressed with Hannah. Her response to Luke was perfection. Articulate, confident, unapologetic. I absolutely loved it. How long do … Read more

07/16/19 2:18PM
Censor myself for my mom or tell my truth?
mrsconn23
07/11/19 3:37PM

Dear Prudence, Over the past several months in my quest to deal with my own mental illnesses, I’ve been trying to write more. I wrote a l… Read more

07/11/19 3:37PM
If you think it might be racist, it probably …
mrsconn23
07/11/19 3:34PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a young, white, nonbinary, queer person. I understand that, as a white person, there is always more that I can do to u… Read more

07/11/19 3:34PM
Online therapy, maybe?
mrsconn23
07/11/19 3:48PM

Dear Prudence, Lately I’ve become very anxious and insecure, partly because of some relationship issues and partly because of a really st… Read more

07/11/19 3:48PM
Take care of yourself first.
mrsconn23
07/11/19 3:31PM

Dear Prudence, Last year, at 47, I accidentally discovered that my mother had been lying to me about my biological father for my whole life… Read more

07/11/19 3:31PM
Yes, you are allowed to dictate your therapy …
mrsconn23
07/11/19 4:30PM

Dear Prudence, You once advised a letter writer that she did not have to disclose her two previous abortions to her husband if she did no… Read more

07/11/19 4:30PM
Help!
Knottie29493527
07/16/19 3:00PM

My guests are telling me that they can't find their invite when they try to rsvp online? I didn't choose that closed option though. My s… Read more

07/16/19 3:00PM
TEXAS COUNTRY FANS
knottieda2601d7fe177fca
07/12/19 12:10AM

Hey Texas/Red Dirt Lovin' Brides!  I've seen some old message boards about Red Dirt Country Songs...Lets share!  Name some Texas Country/… Read more

07/12/19 12:10AM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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