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Why can't they go to Nina's place?
mrsconn23
09/12/24 5:15PM

Dear Prudence, I share a one-bedroom apartment with my sister. I sleep in the living room. It worked out until she started dating “Nina.�… Read more

09/12/24 5:15PM
Friday the 13th
ei34
09/13/24 1:13PM

Phew, finally made it.  Wishing everyone a quick/not crazy work day and an enjoyable weekend! Read more

09/13/24 1:13PM
Prudie Day
ei34
09/12/24 1:44PM

Much-needed Friday Eve. What a week. How’s everyone? Read more

09/12/24 1:44PM
Hump Day Wednesday
CharmedPam
09/11/24 2:06PM

But not for me! Today is my Friday. I have a fun girls weekend in Michigan that starts tomorrow and I’m looking forward to that! I’m hop… Read more

09/11/24 2:06PM
4 men in the world...
mrsconn23
09/12/24 6:20PM

Dear Prudence, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. Everything is going really well, except one thing: My boyfriend thinks I am c… Read more

09/12/24 6:20PM
This is so stupid...and definitely fake.
mrsconn23
09/12/24 4:36PM

Dear Prudence, My partner (he/him/Taurus) and I (she/her/Capricorn) have been together for six years. I thought we knew each other deeply�… Read more

09/12/24 4:36PM
This is wild and I'd consider never seeing an…
mrsconn23
09/12/24 4:34PM

Dear Prudence, After our two children were born, I became a surrogate twice. Both times I was paid and we went through an agency. The money… Read more

09/12/24 4:34PM
Definitely consult a lawyer, and make sure yo…
mrsconn23
09/12/24 4:31PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a board member at a nonprofit. Recently, I and other board members started receiving emails about an employee. She has… Read more

09/12/24 4:31PM
Yes, you're making yourself miserable by over…
mrsconn23
09/12/24 6:31PM

Dear Prudence, How do I adapt to different people’s texting styles? I’m no newbie to texting; I embraced it fully over 20 years ago. I … Read more

09/12/24 6:31PM
Show up and let Kayla try it.
mrsconn23
09/12/24 6:22PM

Dear Prudence, My first marriage happened because we were both too young and too stubborn to listen to people telling us to wait. My divorc… Read more

09/12/24 6:22PM
Is there anyone else you can live with beside…
mrsconn23
09/12/24 5:16PM

Dear Prudence, I’m having trouble communicating with my mom and I’m not sure what to do. I had to move in with her after I lost my job … Read more

09/12/24 5:16PM
I don't think asking her to step down will he…
mrsconn23
09/12/24 6:17PM

Dear Prudence, I love my sister and nephew, but he is a literally tornado of a toddler. Taking him out in public is always dicey, but my si… Read more

09/12/24 6:17PM
Are you just trying anything or seeking out t…
mrsconn23
09/12/24 5:22PM

Dear Prudence, I’m 19 and in college, and I’m incapable of making friends. I’ve done everything right. I join clubs and activities, I… Read more

09/12/24 5:22PM
Have you told your friends you're struggling?
mrsconn23
09/12/24 6:29PM

Dear Prudence, Last spring, I quit my PhD program. My three closest friends, however, are still in that program, and when I see them, it se… Read more

09/12/24 6:29PM
I don't think you're giving them reasons to t…
mrsconn23
09/12/24 6:28PM

Dear Prudence, My marriage ended in divorce five years ago because I cheated on my wife. I’m not going to make excuses—it was a shitty… Read more

09/12/24 6:28PM
This has nothing to do with your jealousy, bu…
mrsconn23
09/12/24 4:27PM

Dear Prudence, I used to be quite jealous. Then in 1999, I read Green Eyed Marriage and slightly mellowed out. But no relationships until… Read more

09/12/24 4:27PM
I'd offer to help your daughter get divorced.
mrsconn23
09/12/24 4:36PM

Dear Prudence, My daughter recently announced that she was expecting. I was overjoyed at the news. She has been struggling to conceive for … Read more

09/12/24 4:36PM
Is it about the dog or are you just anxious d…
mrsconn23
09/12/24 5:24PM

Dear Prudence, About six months ago, I moved in with my boyfriend. It’s been absolutely wonderful, and our relationship has never been st… Read more

09/12/24 5:24PM
Age appropriate honesty and directness is wha…
mrsconn23
09/12/24 5:13PM

Dear Prudence, I had two abortions in between the births of our two girls. One was when my husband was out of work and we were living paych… Read more

09/12/24 5:13PM
The patriarchy and gender norms are a hell of…
mrsconn23
09/12/24 5:11PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a woman who has never had much interest in babies or children. I don’t dislike them, but I’ve never had any real i… Read more

09/12/24 5:11PM
If they won't drop it, don't go.
mrsconn23
09/12/24 4:29PM

Dear Prudence, I haven’t spoken to my sister in over a year. She has severe anger issues that she refuses to address and obvious envy ove… Read more

09/12/24 4:29PM
Is it bad to run into guests before walking d…
knottie384d6db80c6a2fe5
09/ 7/24 11:25AM

Two guests arrived a little late and got lost in the venue, as I was waiting in a backroom waiting to walk down the aisle. Is it bad to be s… Read more

09/ 7/24 11:25AM
Stop the daily phone calls and bean dip him i…
mrsconn23
09/12/24 4:38PM

Dear Prudence, I talk daily with a close friend. He frequently turns the conversation to an ex of his—he psychoanalyzes her, speculates o… Read more

09/12/24 4:38PM
Bridal Industry Job
knottied72127c20964877a
09/11/24 9:13PM

I work in human resources for Idina Bride in Seattle WA.  Thought there may be other industry people here who could suggest creative place… Read more

09/11/24 9:13PM
Tired Tuesday
ei34
09/10/24 1:23PM

Feeling it today.  How's everyone? Read more

09/10/24 1:23PM
You don't owe anyone forgiveness or friendshi…
mrsconn23
09/ 6/24 2:44PM

Dear Prudence,  In 2019, just pre-COVID, a friend ended our friendship. Now he wants to resume it, and I can’t bring myself to forgive h… Read more

09/ 6/24 2:44PM
If they're paying, it's their say.
mrsconn23
09/ 6/24 2:36PM

Dear Prudence,  I am 18 years old and due to financial circumstances, was forced to (by my parents) withdraw from my dream university. I a… Read more

09/ 6/24 2:36PM
You may be 'right', but you sound exhausting …
mrsconn23
09/ 6/24 2:39PM

Dear Prudence,  Something tells me this one will be a new one for you. I am an environmentalist, but when I go to parties, everything is u… Read more

09/ 6/24 2:39PM
I get all of it, but I'm still not sure I'd r…
mrsconn23
09/ 6/24 2:48PM

Dear Prudence, I live in an apartment complex, and all of us tend to keep to ourselves. I don’t know any of my neighbors’ names, and ou… Read more

09/ 6/24 2:48PM
Monday
VarunaTT
09/ 9/24 2:23PM

Good morning.  I have covid and it has knocked me on my butt the last week.  I am back at work today (thank goodness for working from home… Read more

09/ 9/24 2:23PM

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KnotRiley
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Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:02PM

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11/ 5/14 4:02PM
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12/30/14 2:28PM

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12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/ 8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/ 8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

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04/16/15 5:20PM
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