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Holy overreaction, Batman
Casadena
09/18/25 4:11PM

Dear Prudence, I just found out—after attempting to initiate something in the morning!—that my wife has been keeping a secret from me. … Read more

09/18/25 4:11PM
Prudie Day
ei34
09/18/25 11:55AM

How's everyone?  I'm dragging, but glad it's Friday Eve. Read more

09/18/25 11:55AM
Just get a hotel
Casadena
09/18/25 4:10PM

ear Prudence,  My partner and I still wear KN95s indoors or in crowds. (We’re both at higher risk for COVID.) I believe masking is the c… Read more

09/18/25 4:10PM
No need to say anything
Casadena
09/18/25 4:07PM

Dear Prudence, My fiancé and I are making plans for our wedding and have decided that our event will be alcohol free. We each have family … Read more

09/18/25 4:07PM
Has anyone here tried bra inserts from Bra Bl…
knottiea754126aa27d3603
09/18/25 10:01PM

I’ve been looking for something comfortable that gives a natural push-up effect (especially for dresses where I can’t wear a regular bra… Read more

09/18/25 10:01PM
Leave if you want, but don't cheat
Casadena
09/18/25 4:06PM

Dear Prudence, My boyfriend and I have been together for eight years. We also have a child together. For about four or five years now, our … Read more

09/18/25 4:06PM
Don't babysit
Casadena
09/12/25 2:49PM

Dear Prudence, I have raised five children and currently take care of my nine grandchildren, and I never had a problem until my daughter-in… Read more

09/12/25 2:49PM
Her choice, but you don't have to like it
Casadena
09/18/25 4:09PM

Dear Prudence, Carrie and I have been friends for over 20 years, since college. Carrie has a bad habit of ghosting friends and partners whe… Read more

09/18/25 4:09PM
Omg you two are diabolical
Casadena
09/18/25 4:10PM

Dear Prudence, My husband and I are retired, and we were enjoying our lives until our next-door neighbors moved away and a couple with thre… Read more

09/18/25 4:10PM
BF needs to step up
Casadena
09/18/25 4:07PM

Dear Prudence, My boyfriend and I are doing a trial run before we get married. I am renting out my condo and we are renting a house. He has… Read more

09/18/25 4:07PM
Tired Tuesday
ei34
09/16/25 2:30PM

How's everyone?  Wishing all a good day! Read more

09/16/25 2:30PM
Hump Day
ei34
09/17/25 2:48PM

How's everyone?  Hope all are doing okay. Read more

09/17/25 2:48PM
AITA for no newborns rule
knottied25b0e740baa19f2
09/16/25 2:25PM

Hi! My fiance and I got engaged a year ago, and our wedding is this weekend! Our very clearly stated expectation of no children has been in … Read more

09/16/25 2:25PM
Therapy?
Casadena
09/12/25 2:57PM

Dear Prudence, I know there are far bigger problems out there, but my wife has a paralyzing fear of bugs and spiders to the point where she… Read more

09/12/25 2:57PM
do you want to be friends, or not?
Casadena
09/12/25 2:27PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve had a best friend for over 20 years, and she was planning a big birthday trip for me for my 36th birthday, and then j… Read more

09/12/25 2:27PM
Ick, back off
Casadena
09/12/25 2:55PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a graduate student who just wrapped up my summer job, where I spent a lot of time with a co-worker. I’ve fallen head… Read more

09/12/25 2:55PM
This doesn't raise flags, but you don't have …
Casadena
09/12/25 2:51PM

Dear Prudence, My mother has been very lost since her husband unexpectedly died last year, which is why I was happy she got into a new rela… Read more

09/12/25 2:51PM
Beta Blockers or decline?
Casadena
09/12/25 2:28PM

Dear Prudence, My husband’s father passed away two weeks ago. We are all very distraught, but my husband is facing a horrifying prospect.… Read more

09/12/25 2:28PM
LEt them be mad
Casadena
09/12/25 2:56PM

Dear Prudence, I am in my late 50s, as is my wife of one year. We’ve both been married twice before and have children from those marriage… Read more

09/12/25 2:56PM
Do you have a friend who would join?
Casadena
09/12/25 2:46PM

Dear Prudence, I know some people can be homebodies, but I feel like I might have something going on deeper than that. I see everyone with … Read more

09/12/25 2:46PM
Go and ignore him?
Casadena
09/12/25 2:51PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a woman in my 30s, and I grew up with a physically, emotionally, and psychologically abusive dad. I have tried multipl… Read more

09/12/25 2:51PM
Order online
Casadena
09/12/25 2:48PM

Dear Prudence, I am at the end of my rope when it comes to my 12-year-old daughter. She is in the middle of a growth spurt but refuses to t… Read more

09/12/25 2:48PM
Monday
ei34
09/15/25 12:13PM

How’s everyone? Hope all had peaceful weekends, and that this week is smoother and less stressful than last. Read more

09/15/25 12:13PM
What does your H say about all this?
Casadena
09/12/25 2:50PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve been with my husband for about a year, and we moved to Sweden about six months ago. He was born and raised in Sweden … Read more

09/12/25 2:50PM
knottie71e74826ec2ea650
09/14/25 6:49PM

Ever thought about trying a Hair Extension? 🤔 What are some of your favorite Hair Extension Uses – adding length, more volume, or just … Read more

09/14/25 6:49PM
Tragic, but not your fault
Casadena
09/12/25 2:52PM

Dear Prudence, My 9-year-old son, “Thomas,” was going door-to-door in our neighborhood selling candy for a school fundraiser last week.… Read more

09/12/25 2:52PM
Fri-yay
ei34
09/12/25 11:41AM

Thank goodness. Wishing everyone a weekend with peaceful and joyful moments.  Read more

09/12/25 11:41AM
Basketball?
knottie15b7450f72e43b25
09/13/25 4:17AM

Asj Read more

09/13/25 4:17AM
Your sister sucks
Casadena
09/12/25 2:57PM

Dear Prudence, My sister, “Priscilla,” ended her marriage with my former brother-in-law due to his serial adultery. Last month, she rec… Read more

09/12/25 2:57PM
YEs it was an affair
Casadena
09/12/25 2:59PM

Dear Prudence, I (cis woman) hear this term a lot these days, “emotional affair.” Is that really a thing? I ask because I was friends w… Read more

09/12/25 2:59PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center)http://weddi… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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